To be fair EB, I believe the OP started this thread because the girl reminded him of someone he despised. It wasn't because he was B&Sed
Etiquette when it comes to... turning away
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To be fair EB, I believe the OP started this thread because the girl reminded him of someone he despised. It wasn't because he was B&Sed
Well he was bait and switched because legit pics enable a screen out. That is the point. Guys don't order girls who look like someone they despise based on real pics..........therefore he fell for fake pics and did not screen out the lookalike. It's like missing a blocking assignment in football. The QB is crushed, and concussed, because the guy who missed his block fucked up.
You assumed correctly ssj (and thank you for trying to clear things up for me).
It was not a fake picture nor a b&s.
I booked through a reputable agency that advertises here.
It's only just when I saw the SP's face that the resemblance struck me.
I would not exactly call them risk takers I call them suckers. I always said there is a sucker born every minute. These suckers keep these con artists in business. Usually they are too shy, lack assertiveness, and want the sex so badly they are unable to make the right decisions. I agree for deserve.
The OP was talking about a girl from a reputable agency, not a B&S scammer. If you meet a girl from a reputable agency and she does not deliver as promised, wouldn't you call the Booker and complain (at least I will), and get a discount for the next session with agent. So it does work both ways.
Before someone calls a booker to complain be certain that you were clean and polite to the SP. If you are 132 yrs old, 312 lbs with no teeth and missing chunks of hair be thankful that she even let you see her naked and touched your dick, embellished but you get the point.
Was this supposed to respond to my previous post? If so, then please be reminded that the OP's experience was not that the girl is ugly. But the problem is the girl resembles some one the OP hates. So as an analogy, would you complain to the booker if you are not served well because the girl finds you look similar to some one she hates in personal life?
No my response was to the comment " she did not deliver as promised ".
Just to add, if you hate someone because they look like someone you hate you have issues.
Just to add, if you hate someone because they look like someone you hate you have issues.
He doesn't hate her from what I understood. It's just about not wanting to have sex with someone who looks like someone he doesn't like.
A bit like you probably wouldn't fuck someone if her face looks almost like twins with your mother, probably the same type of awkward feeling lol
A bit like you probably wouldn't fuck someone if her face looks almost like twins with your mother, probably the same type of awkward feeling lol
I would never have thought this thread would turn like that.
1- It has nothing to do with B&S. Those of you who hate "suckers" who fall for it and deserve what they get, please go spill your venom in the proper thread such as Beware-Warning-Of-Potential-Bait-amp-Switch-Providers
You'll find the latest entry is mine because I did fall for it even though I had conducted a thorough search (images, phone number and merb). Nevertheless, I agree that I got what I deserved. However, I feel there is no need to be disrespectful towards anyone participating in this forum. I even fear some people might be afraid of sharing their bad experiences because they know they'll be laughed at and despised by some of you.
2- This current thread is about the proper etiquette when the SP's face is really not to your liking or even worse, turns you off for different reasons (mine was that she reminded me too much of someone else). On that topic, I got many good contributions and some relevant answers. Thank you everyone.
3- If you read my initial post and think that I could hate a person just because they remind me of someone else, you have issues.
Thank you,
BigBrowser
1- It has nothing to do with B&S. Those of you who hate "suckers" who fall for it and deserve what they get, please go spill your venom in the proper thread such as Beware-Warning-Of-Potential-Bait-amp-Switch-Providers
You'll find the latest entry is mine because I did fall for it even though I had conducted a thorough search (images, phone number and merb). Nevertheless, I agree that I got what I deserved. However, I feel there is no need to be disrespectful towards anyone participating in this forum. I even fear some people might be afraid of sharing their bad experiences because they know they'll be laughed at and despised by some of you.
2- This current thread is about the proper etiquette when the SP's face is really not to your liking or even worse, turns you off for different reasons (mine was that she reminded me too much of someone else). On that topic, I got many good contributions and some relevant answers. Thank you everyone.
3- If you read my initial post and think that I could hate a person just because they remind me of someone else, you have issues.
Thank you,
BigBrowser
Big Browser,
I don't think we meant to hijack the thread as far as bait and switch although it's open to interpretation as to whether your OP implicates typical B&S issues as far as someone getting something they were not expecting, which is what happened to you. Admittedly, your unusual situation could happen at any very reputable agency.
I did post what my protocol would be in that situation even though it never happened. I did have something similar happen to me though. At one of the parties, James introduced me to Heidi when she started at the agency. James later asked me what I thought of her when we were alone and I complimented him on his selection of her. I have never booked Heidi, however, because she reminded me very much of my paralegal's daughter who is about the same age. Heidi is more attractive than my paralegal' daughter but the facial resemblance was uncanny and for me slightly troubling. I didn't ever want to feel like I was fucking a friend's daughter.
Your thread raised another issue I want to comment on which is thinking about worst case scenarios. Not a lot of hobbyists think about whether something like this can happen although it's always possible you can book an escort who looks like your sister or even mother, a past girlfriend or wife with whom things ended horribly, or perhaps that bitch coworker who told your boss about all of your fuckups he didn't know about. I always have a plan for reasonably foreseeable situations and my reaction to this situation has already been thought out and it's a $50 offer with an apology and an HONEST explanation of why the girl is being turned away which is what she deserves because otherwise she will assume you don't like her physically and so will the agency.
As far as refusing girls because they were plain ugly or not fitting his high expectations, I knew a hobbyist who did this and it frankly bothered me because (especially with HDH agencies he was calling), it has great potential to substantially hurt the girl. This is not like returning a broken garage door opener to Sears. Be honest or hurt the girl - bottom line.
I don't think we meant to hijack the thread as far as bait and switch although it's open to interpretation as to whether your OP implicates typical B&S issues as far as someone getting something they were not expecting, which is what happened to you. Admittedly, your unusual situation could happen at any very reputable agency.
I did post what my protocol would be in that situation even though it never happened. I did have something similar happen to me though. At one of the parties, James introduced me to Heidi when she started at the agency. James later asked me what I thought of her when we were alone and I complimented him on his selection of her. I have never booked Heidi, however, because she reminded me very much of my paralegal's daughter who is about the same age. Heidi is more attractive than my paralegal' daughter but the facial resemblance was uncanny and for me slightly troubling. I didn't ever want to feel like I was fucking a friend's daughter.
Your thread raised another issue I want to comment on which is thinking about worst case scenarios. Not a lot of hobbyists think about whether something like this can happen although it's always possible you can book an escort who looks like your sister or even mother, a past girlfriend or wife with whom things ended horribly, or perhaps that bitch coworker who told your boss about all of your fuckups he didn't know about. I always have a plan for reasonably foreseeable situations and my reaction to this situation has already been thought out and it's a $50 offer with an apology and an HONEST explanation of why the girl is being turned away which is what she deserves because otherwise she will assume you don't like her physically and so will the agency.
As far as refusing girls because they were plain ugly or not fitting his high expectations, I knew a hobbyist who did this and it frankly bothered me because (especially with HDH agencies he was calling), it has great potential to substantially hurt the girl. This is not like returning a broken garage door opener to Sears. Be honest or hurt the girl - bottom line.
Lily,
I one time heard an interview with Charlie Sheen in which he openly discussed his taste in escorts/women in general and he said he liked women who had a slutty look. As I watched this interview I was thinking that his ex wife Denise Richards had to be cringing...........I have a friend who is the same way. He will want to be with the sluttiest girl in the room and I will want the most innocent looking one in the room. We all have different tastes, but I would say for most guys a "slutty look" is not exactly a dealbreaker........
I one time heard an interview with Charlie Sheen in which he openly discussed his taste in escorts/women in general and he said he liked women who had a slutty look. As I watched this interview I was thinking that his ex wife Denise Richards had to be cringing...........I have a friend who is the same way. He will want to be with the sluttiest girl in the room and I will want the most innocent looking one in the room. We all have different tastes, but I would say for most guys a "slutty look" is not exactly a dealbreaker........
Perhaps the most stinging rejection I ever heard about was from a lady who was one of my regulars 2005-2007 when I saw her around 8 times. She was probably 20-22 years old at the time. She told me that one of her other regular clients, who had seen her for nearly a year almost every week, told her he would not be seeing her any more. She asked him why. He said, "you don't look 18 any more." When she told me this story it was fairly clear she was deeply hurt by this comment. It sounded awfully crass. I can't imagine someone not being able to think of something better to say or just saying nothing.
Just got a true classy gentleman giving me 120$ as a compensation fee for turning away. I'm amazed. Some guys should take notes (I mean the ones who wont even give a single penny...). Felt like bumping this thread because wow I'm very impressed !
I haven't been doing this long enough to be turning ladies away. Never ran into a drastic bait & switch where she was white in the photo and turned out black in person. But I've been thinking about what if it happened. How would I react? The obvious reaction is to man up and be upfront, maybe give her a tip and leave. However I like to dream and I thought what if I started screaming like a little girl in the middle of the hallway at her incall. Would she just slam the door on me?
I know I'd never call that number again so what's the harm in having a little fun knowing I wasted my time?
I know I'd never call that number again so what's the harm in having a little fun knowing I wasted my time?
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