BTW Maria you are quite correct when you say that orgasms change over time ....both in men and women.
It all depends on chemistry, skill and talent of the partners.
For me, I think it is just our own physical hormonal fluctuations who are making the differences over time.
I can't explain why a time, I did not like generally a certain touch, and after few years like it, to dislike it again few years after, by example.
Of course, what you mentioned is playing a role, but orgasms are also changing while masturbating alone. And I am not talking about how aroused you could be, just ordinary day to day masturbation. :smile: