"Freestyling" AKA meeting a SP organically

[LC18]

It's not really popular or well known because it comes with a lot of risks but have you ever found a SP organically? Let me give you some exemples, maybe you were going for a walk with your dog and happened to see an attractive younger woman with her own dog. How would you go about 1. figuring out if she's an SP and 2. booking her without coming across creepy

If you are on twitter, you've probably seen some tweets of women mentioning that they've found clients while "freestyling" in a bar. I think it's probably one of the best ways to start a SP-client relationship because you both know how the other person looks, you'll both know if there's chemistry and in most cases it avoids wasting your time.

So how do I approach a woman without offending her? I would say let her do the work. You don't know if she's a SP and the last thing you would want to do is insulting her if she's not. A question that might help breaking the ice is "what do you do for a living?" Some providers carry business cards, others have their website ready on hand, some just don't.

How do I know if I can afford her services? If she gave you her name, a business card, her website, I would recommend that you excuse yourself to the bathroom and go take a look at her rates. Yeah, you could probably just look at her website while she's sitting next to you but that would be awkward no? If you decide to pass, you can come back at the table/bar and tell her you'll call her (to be polite).



What are some good places to find a SP? I'm not sure I can name places so please let me know if it's not allowed and I'll edit my post.

Upscale bars and lounges such as:
Marcus
George
Yama
Cathcart
Yoko Luna
Nacarat
StillLife

 

[envelopes]

No thank you officer

 

[LC18]

No thank you officer

I have personally never heard of female officers pretending to be providers. I have however heard about a few male officers pretending to be clients. I don't know if it's different in the US but here, they are more interesting about taking down pr*stitution r*nks.

 

[kstanb]

it depends on level of horniness, attractiveness and availability of cash

if the 3 are high, I am all in

 

[malboro_man]

The more likely scenario is a streetwalker approaching you Most of them are scary looking but hey you may find a gem in a rare encounter.

 

[envelopes]

Hmm, the scenario is very improbable for me

However, almost 8 years ago, when gts were organized by a fellow merbite...

Well, i hit jackpot, i happenned to fulfill a fantasy of mine that i wanted for so long, 2 ebony beauties propose to have a threesome with me and yes, i jumped and rose to the occasion. I used to have a different handle, and the review is still written to this day, it is my proudest moment.

The more likely scenario is a streetwalker approaching you Most of them are scary looking but hey you may find a gem in a rare encounter.

Had a crackhead with no teeth offer to blow me for $10 outside of couche tard at 3am

 

[LC18]

The more likely scenario is a streetwalker approaching you Most of them are scary looking but hey you may find a gem in a rare encounter.

That’s why I’ve specified “attractive SP” obviously if she was ugly, the answer would be “no” but if she’s attractive, I assume there would be a little bit of hesitation

 

[Toto beefcake]

Had a crackhead with no teeth offer to blow me for $10 outside of couche tard at 3am

Ya they do that often

 

[Mandouke]

Had a crackhead with no teeth offer to blow me for $10 outside of couche tard at 3am

I was offered at BJ for a pint of Labbat Blue at the old Alouette Taverne on the Main many moons ago from a toothless woman as well. I bought her the beer and politely declined the offer.

 

[Mandouke]

This discussion is rather odd, I never gave much thought to the idea of finding a SP in a bar, or in public. What a novel idea!

Usually, if I am in a bar it is to drink, to work, or to pick up a girl to go home with on the arm, no pun intended. In short, no money is involved, and mutual attraction and satisfaction are the end result.

 

[malboro_man]

Had a crackhead with no teeth offer to blow me for $10 outside of couche tard at 3am

I don't know, Man, but she ought to be paying you to let her blow you

 

[Numerati]

Only city that happens for me is Las Vegas. I get proposed many times there especially if she sees you winning constantly with a good stack of chips. Never partake though. Don’t know who the hell I am dealing with.

Many of them are very attractive especially at the Wynn/Encore, Bellagio and other high end casinos.

 

[LC18]

Only city that happens for me is Las Vegas. I get proposed many times there especially if she sees you winning constantly with a good stack of chips. Never partake though. Don’t know who the hell I am dealing with.

Many of them are very attractive especially at the Wynn/Encore, Bellagio and other high end casinos.

I would not recommend it in LV as it is highly illegal in the US of A

 

[Numerati]

I would not recommend it in LV as it is highly illegal in the US of A

Yeah don’t recommend LV either. Just crap hype. It has its moments but not the hobbying destination it is portrayed.

 

[TooSexy4MyCat]

I would not recommend it in LV as it is highly illegal in the US of A

Nevada is the only state where it is legal but only in registered establishments and in 10 of the 16 counties. Las Vegas is one of the county where is it illegal. Highly illegal ? No, it is a misdemeanor which is about the same as here I think but I still agree that if you have a corporate career you probably don't want to mess with the risk of having a criminal record and be ban from the States for 5 years.

 

[LC18]

Nevada is the only state where it is legal but only in registered establishments and in 10 of the 16 counties. Las Vegas is one of the county where is it illegal. Highly illegal ? No, it is a misdemeanor which is about the same as here I think but I still agree that if you have a corporate career you probably don't want to mess with the risk of having a criminal record and be ban from the States for 5 years.

A lot of my peers have been banned from entering the country. I don't know if it's the same client wise.

 

[TooSexy4MyCat]

A lot of my peers have been banned from entering the country. I don't know if it's the same client wise.

You can be banned from entering the USA if you have a criminal record in any country but you can also be denied entry and banned over suspicion. For instance, when Trump won the US presidency in 2016 I have read a article when a group of young adults tried to cross the border to participate in the protest in Washington and they told that to the border agent. They were denied entry and banned for some years. I think your peers is probably they were suspected of working in the US even if their activity is legal or not. I was grilled a couple of times at the border just for going for conferences or meetings so working without a green card is taken very seriously over there. After all, Capone was convicted for tax evasion in the US despite building his whole empire based on violence.

 

[LC18]

You can be banned from entering the USA if you have a criminal record in any country but you can also be denied entry and banned over suspicion. For instance, when Trump won the US presidency in 2016 I have read a article when a group of young adults tried to cross the border to participate in the protest in Washington and they told that to the border agent. They were denied entry and banned for some years. I think your peers is probably they were suspected of working in the US even if their activity is legal or not. I was grilled a couple of times at the border just for going for conferences or meetings so working without a green card is taken very seriously over there. After all, Capone was convicted for tax evasion in the US despite building his whole empire based on violence.

thank you for clarifications!

 

[Jordd]

It's not really popular or well known because it comes with a lot of risks but have you ever found a SP organically? Let me give you some exemples, maybe you were going for a walk with your dog and happened to see an attractive younger woman with her own dog. How would you go about 1. figuring out if she's an SP and 2. booking her without coming across creepy

If you are on twitter, you've probably seen some tweets of women mentioning that they've found clients while "freestyling" in a bar. I think it's probably one of the best ways to start a SP-client relationship because you both know how the other person looks, you'll both know if there's chemistry and in most cases it avoids wasting your time.

So how do I approach a woman without offending her? I would say let her do the work. You don't know if she's a SP and the last thing you would want to do is insulting her if she's not. A question that might help breaking the ice is "what do you do for a living?" Some providers carry business cards, others have their website ready on hand, some just don't.

How do I know if I can afford her services? If she gave you her name, a business card, her website, I would recommend that you excuse yourself to the bathroom and go take a look at her rates. Yeah, you could probably just look at her website while she's sitting next to you but that would be awkward no? If you decide to pass, you can come back at the table/bar and tell her you'll call her (to be polite).



What are some good places to find a SP? I'm not sure I can name places so please let me know if it's not allowed and I'll edit my post.

Upscale bars and lounges such as:
Marcus
George
Yama
Cathcart
Yoko Luna
Nacarat
StillLife

Thanks for starting this thread!

Happened to me many times, before I began hobbying. In high-end hotels, usually at the bar, but also by the pool and the beach. The funny thing was that it happened “organically”. In one case I was speaking to two women at the beach and later figured out they were working girls. At least one of them was, because she later sauntered off to the hotel with a random dude. Another time I approached three women in the hotel bar. They were really friendly with all smiles around. But after a few minutes of chit chatting, the more outspoken one very bluntly told me what the deal was. And here I was thinking I had great game!

The classic picture is the attractive woman alone at the hotel bar who is quite friendly with the barman.

Had the offers from the street walkers, but did not partake. Had my fair share of takeout and offers from strippers.

So, I answered “YES on the spot” to your poll, but that would depend on other factors as well, such as timing, being alone, etc. If I went specifically for that purpose, then yes. Otherwise, it would be booking for later.

Definitely interested in meeting first to see if there’s an attraction, but more importantly if there’s chemistry.

IMHO if a woman you see for the first time in a hotel bar holds eye contact, smiles back and easily engages in conversation, there’s a chance she could be on the job.

Any more tips?

 

[LC18]

I can’t speak for others but I personally never approach men, I am too scared they’ll be turned off by the aggressiveness. I just flirt from a distance and then if they do approach me, I’ll keep the conversation going until I feel like it’s an appropriate time to tell them what I do for a living.

At the end of the day, they’re the one choosing me not the other way around so it’s better if I let them come to me. If I feel like the attraction is mutual, I’ll reciprocate the attention.