It's very strange to me that most guys are so upset by this story. There are hundreds of men here cheating on their wives, so why is it worse to ''cheat'' on your son? I'm not saying it's a good thing, but I don't see why one scenario would be normal and the other a terrible wrong. I can understand that losing the trust of a son can be worse than losing the trust of a wife in the long run, but the hurt caused to either one is just as bad. Betraying a loved one is always a bad thing.