GF used to be an SP
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The flip side of this is (according to a former gf):
1. All her clients want to fuck and go, they have an imaginary view of who they really are. They feel clients are in love with that image. With you they can be themselves and you still love them. That counts.
2. True. But they also have a high sex drive. So when they are on their days "off" you're in for a ride!
3. For that same reason, they care less about your body than hygiene and your relationship with them.
While reading this thread it's hard to stay neutral and not be judgmental.
As far as I'm concerned I think that at the beginning of a relationship, there would be no problem, because everything new, very beautiful, but after a while, seeing his girlfriend leave to fuck with other men, could cause lots of discussions and bring the relationship to an end.
As far as I'm concerned I think that at the beginning of a relationship, there would be no problem, because everything new, very beautiful, but after a while, seeing his girlfriend leave to fuck with other men, could cause lots of discussions and bring the relationship to an end.
Yeah I understand your point sene5Hoes
The devil is in the detail ...
The initial statement is "GF used to be an SP"
I think that having SP as a girlfriend is not a good idea.
It takes a lot of understanding, and I wonder to what extent at the start of a relationship the guy is aware of what his girlfriend is doing, even though she explains to him that it's a job and that he is the one, she is doing. love.
I also think the chances of meeting (because of the many men she sees) are much greater.
And I also wonder, can SP be dedicated to her partner when she has fucked 2 or 3 guys in the evening?
I don't think so.
It takes a lot of understanding, and I wonder to what extent at the start of a relationship the guy is aware of what his girlfriend is doing, even though she explains to him that it's a job and that he is the one, she is doing. love.
I also think the chances of meeting (because of the many men she sees) are much greater.
And I also wonder, can SP be dedicated to her partner when she has fucked 2 or 3 guys in the evening?
I don't think so.
I think so ... since for them it's a job ...
The thing is the real people that can answer that question is them ...
Probably some of them is working and there boyfriend or family does not know but still love them ...
Just like some if us is married and have a girlfriendand still go see Sp and still love there wife or girlfriend ...
Nothing in life is just white or black ...
I think he loved her but it was not reciprocal. For her it was more a matter of convenience from the sound of things. Her only love is for money and status. You cannot really love someone and do this type of work and especially keep it a secret from that person. If she had told him the truth and he was ok with it then that would have been a different story. But he was not given the chance.
hmmm what about the opposite ?
can you love your wife go see Sp and not tell her . There is other woman on that forum ... They should give there opinion on that question ...
Morally I would agree with you.
Unfortunately society has always more or less given men a much easier time of sleeping with a prostitute than the prostitute,, it is wrong but that is the way it is even today. It is the boys will be boys attitude while the woman gets crucified.
There is a difference in another way though, when you are spending money on an SP it is one of your choosing because you are attracted to her for whatever reason but she on the other hand basically couldn’t care less and is only attracted to the money. For her it is a job.
Yes there may be cases where the physical attraction may become mutual or you might even develop a friendship but in most cases as long as you are clean and respectful she doesn’t care how you look or who you are you are just paying the rent or the next Gucci bag or whatever.
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Personally I would not have a problem with having a girlfriend that was an SP before.
What is in the past is in the past, having a girlfriend who is still active as an escort never.
I have read many times that escorts have boyfriends and everything is cool and if it works for them fine, it wouldn’t work for me, if I am in a serious relationship with a woman then I would never sleep with someone else and I would expect the same from her and sorry no I would not understand that it is just a job and you are the one I care about.
What is in the past is in the past, having a girlfriend who is still active as an escort never.
I have read many times that escorts have boyfriends and everything is cool and if it works for them fine, it wouldn’t work for me, if I am in a serious relationship with a woman then I would never sleep with someone else and I would expect the same from her and sorry no I would not understand that it is just a job and you are the one I care about.
a boyfriend of the working SP has another name: pimp
Base on my personnal experience, yes they can. Must of the time their clients are either self oriented regarding pleasure or to quick to shoot on goal. Only a few know what they are doing and can bring them to orgams. It happened to me quite often that I simply "complete the job" when my girl was coming back from doing a client.
So I guess that since my girl is doing that part time, I am a part-time pimp?! Liloudallas the part-time pimp... Hum... that sounds good.
Don't judge a book by is cover.
Part-time pimp is like to be a bit pregnant
As I read your response my first thought was , wow this is a narrow minded moron who puts everyone into boxes. I thought about it for a few minutes and then thought, you must be young and unable to have a real relationship to make you hate women so much. I have met more women in this "business" than you will ever meet in your life. Some become SP's out of necessity. They have limited education due to a VERY bad upbringing and see this as a way out. Many turn to drugs to mask the way they feel about themselves and then must work to pay for the drugs, not a personality issue Eric23 ( Dr. Freud ) rather a means to an end.
Others, intelligent, educated and able to or have other jobs ( some excellent high paying jobs ) but they enjoy this life. They meet successful individuals who like themselves are educated and able to add to the life of the SP and not just in a monetary way. I have had long deep conversations with an SP, off the clock ( no sex ) where we both benefitted from the conversation intellectually.
Be careful who you classify in ways that do not fit. The women in this business do not fall into a .1% category as you put it but I would challenge you to back up your number with an actual statistic.
I sense that you have had a real problem finding a woman to date you and have a relationship with you outside of this hobby but I wish you well in re-educating yourself with regard to an SP and why she works and hey there are plenty of single mothers out there who would make fine partners, why would you ever make your list shorter.
Have a look at the women around you, in your family, your neighbours, your co-workers, your friends and acquaintances some of them are or have been SP's at some point in their lives, this I guarantee.
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