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Jordd

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Sometimes the hardest part is not just knowing how to make money but how to invest and manage it for your future.
Nothing concrete here, but I often wondered how they would explain the way they accumulated their assets in the future to those unaware of their past.

Also, my apologies for all the posts...just catching this thread for the first time.
 
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Problem with dating (ex)escorts:

1. Almost all of them will think of how much $ they could have made each time you have sex
2. They've done pretty much everything already in terms of sex, and everything would become a routine
3. Just like with girls who have high body counts, there will be comparisons between you and the past clients in their mind. (this applies to any girl who had a relationship in the past, but exacerbated in this case)
The flip side of this is (according to a former gf):

1. All her clients want to fuck and go, they have an imaginary view of who they really are. They feel clients are in love with that image. With you they can be themselves and you still love them. That counts.

2. True. But they also have a high sex drive. So when they are on their days "off" you're in for a ride!

3. For that same reason, they care less about your body than hygiene and your relationship with them.
 

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While reading this thread it's hard to stay neutral and not be judgmental.

As far as I'm concerned I think that at the beginning of a relationship, there would be no problem, because everything new, very beautiful, but after a while, seeing his girlfriend leave to fuck with other men, could cause lots of discussions and bring the relationship to an end.
 

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While reading this thread it's hard to stay neutral and not be judgmental.

As far as I'm concerned I think that at the beginning of a relationship, there would be no problem, because everything new, very beautiful, but after a while, seeing his girlfriend leave to fuck with other men, could cause lots of discussions and bring the relationship to an end.
Yeah I understand your point sene5Hoes
The devil is in the detail ...
The initial statement is "GF used to be an SP"
 

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I think that having SP as a girlfriend is not a good idea.

It takes a lot of understanding, and I wonder to what extent at the start of a relationship the guy is aware of what his girlfriend is doing, even though she explains to him that it's a job and that he is the one, she is doing. love.
I also think the chances of meeting (because of the many men she sees) are much greater.

And I also wonder, can SP be dedicated to her partner when she has fucked 2 or 3 guys in the evening?
I don't think so.
 

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I think that having SP as a girlfriend is not a good idea.

It takes a lot of understanding, and I wonder to what extent at the start of a relationship the guy is aware of what his girlfriend is doing, even though she explains to him that it's a job and that he is the one, she is doing. love.
I also think the chances of meeting (because of the many men she sees) are much greater.

And I also wonder, can SP be dedicated to her partner when she has fucked 2 or 3 guys in the evening?
I don't think so.

I think so ... since for them it's a job ...
The thing is the real people that can answer that question is them ...

Probably some of them is working and there boyfriend or family does not know but still love them ...

Just like some if us is married and have a girlfriendand still go see Sp and still love there wife or girlfriend ...

Nothing in life is just white or black ...
 

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What about love? LOL
I think he loved her but it was not reciprocal. For her it was more a matter of convenience from the sound of things. Her only love is for money and status. You cannot really love someone and do this type of work and especially keep it a secret from that person. If she had told him the truth and he was ok with it then that would have been a different story. But he was not given the chance.
 

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I think he loved her but it was not reciprocal. For her it was more a matter of convenience from the sound of things. Her only love is for money and status. You cannot really love someone and do this type of work and especially keep it a secret from that person. If she had told him the truth and he was ok with it then that would have been a different story. But he was not given the chance.
hmmm what about the opposite ?
can you love your wife go see Sp and not tell her . There is other woman on that forum ... They should give there opinion on that question ...
 

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I think so ... since for them it's a job ...
The thing is the real people that can answer that question is them ...

Probably some of them is working and there boyfriend or family does not know but still love them ...

Just like some if us is married and have a girlfriendand still go see Sp and still love there wife or girlfriend ...

Nothing in life is just white or black ...


Indeed! Look at us in here talking of faithfulness and jealousy!!!
 

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no go tell people that you paid to have sex and see what they will think about U ... in your story it's normal for the guy to do it and that they don't have any thing wrong with them ... You are the judge , the jury and the executioner ...
Morally I would agree with you.
Unfortunately society has always more or less given men a much easier time of sleeping with a prostitute than the prostitute,, it is wrong but that is the way it is even today. It is the boys will be boys attitude while the woman gets crucified.

There is a difference in another way though, when you are spending money on an SP it is one of your choosing because you are attracted to her for whatever reason but she on the other hand basically couldn’t care less and is only attracted to the money. For her it is a job.
Yes there may be cases where the physical attraction may become mutual or you might even develop a friendship but in most cases as long as you are clean and respectful she doesn’t care how you look or who you are you are just paying the rent or the next Gucci bag or whatever.
 
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Anyone have a positive relationship experience with an ex-SP. I understand some girls have issues but if, as a hobbyist I am willing to settle down has anyone had a successful relationship for long or does it eventually not work out?
Fuck no! Stay away from escorts,get yourself a nice Italian housewife.:)
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I met an escort like that at SD years ago, after our session we sat back and had a few drinks and smoked some weed ( I was her last customer ) and talked for about 2 hours, she mentioned the same thing. I also asked if she had a boyfriend and she said she would not date someone who let her be an escort.

She told you that she despises people who do what you?
 

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Personally I would not have a problem with having a girlfriend that was an SP before.
What is in the past is in the past, having a girlfriend who is still active as an escort never.
I have read many times that escorts have boyfriends and everything is cool and if it works for them fine, it wouldn’t work for me, if I am in a serious relationship with a woman then I would never sleep with someone else and I would expect the same from her and sorry no I would not understand that it is just a job and you are the one I care about.
 
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And I also wonder, can SP be dedicated to her partner when she has fucked 2 or 3 guys in the evening?
I don't think so.
Base on my personnal experience, yes they can. Must of the time their clients are either self oriented regarding pleasure or to quick to shoot on goal. Only a few know what they are doing and can bring them to orgams. It happened to me quite often that I simply "complete the job" when my girl was coming back from doing a client.
 
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