10-19 said:Judging from my own experience, the differences are quite perceptible.
The last girl I met came in with her bag full of porn tricks and it felt like a circus act. I could almost hear the set director shout : 'cut'! Conversation was as laconic as giraffes gathering. That's PSE.
The girl before that she didn't feel the need to spit on my cock or moan at 90 dB to impress me and seemed to be 'mentally' present. That would be GFE.
I remember, I use to carry my litte case with a lot of toys in it, a bunch of fantasy outfits, oils, lubes, restrains, etc. Not once people I met were into any of it. So I decided to forget about it and leave it at home.
But when it comes to db, I don't think I can be beat. Even if I had to learn to lower the volume because of several complaints by other hotel residents.
I still prefer to go with my partner's level of comfort. Wouldn't like to traumatize anyone. LOL