Client security
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Once again, you're not paying attention and you're zoning in on the things that affect you without considering others or other situations of which you aren't a part that have been discussed in this thread. I can't be bothered to go back and do post referrals for you again so I'm not going to. You're a smart girl and you know how to read, if selectively. Go check yourself. I have spoken at length sharing information and experience for people who do have to deal with a variety of situations regularly, and also for the situations in which security stuff does apply to me (new indy MPs for example, or for when I travel). For some reason you've taken an antagonistic stance on anything I say on this matter even though most of the situations don't apply to you or to the other ladies on MERB, and even though I've repeatedly made it clear that most of it most of the remedies don't apply to MERB ladies or reputable agencies either. I presume it's because some of it goes against your business model and you're hyper focused on that. That's fine, and I get promoting yourself, but the only two things that might apply to you are the deposits and the screening, and probably none of the rest of it. I've given an opinion and my personal experience, presented information, and again have repeatedly said that the decision on what to do with that information lies with the individual.
There have been a zillion threads about SP security, and I have no real problem with that. Why do you have such a problem with just one thread about client security? And why in the world would you care about how I go about mongering, or even by implication insulting the ladies I do see, and whom you don't know?
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Why! are you doing it so you won’t sleep on a park bench? I highly doubt it.
Yes a lot are doing it because they won’t adapt to a regular job can’t is a very subjective word.
Many have endured a lot of things and didn’t become escorts, in fact you are a small minority.
I don’t see anything wrong with escorting if that is what someone chooses to do, but it is a choice that they make.
There are many that have regular careers outside of escorting and yes they are doing it because they want the luxuries that a regular job won’t afford.
So I wonder who is being simple minded.
Escorts come from all works of life just like other people.
Who said we are mad about anything.
It is just a simple discussion of what security precautions we take. That is what this board is for I believe to keep us all safe so yes this is a highly appropriate thread.
As usual it is very diversified, some are extremely vigilant and careful and others couldn’t care less and will hand over any document an SP requires or asks for.
It seems you are the one that is upset that not everybody is willing to just nod their head in approval and go along with anything and everything an escort would ask for.
Personally I don’t have a problem with the ladies I see they have known me for many years have been inside my home and they are friends.
Not sure why we have to make snide assumptions. Despite my clear disagreement with some of the stances in this thread I've read every line.
I specifically ignored your described situation bc it applies to literally no one. You're in a different league, with your turbo-harem of underpaid semi-girlfriends. Rest of us have decisions to make and rules to play by.
The thread had one question: What do you do to protect yourself from predatory providers? We each have our ways, and I've said my piece, but I appreciate the advice from the summit of Pussy Mountain. (j/k, I don't need any more heat).
lol, who's being snide now? "turbo harem"? "Pussy mountain"? *snort*
It's true that the situation I described applies to probably very few people here, but it's actually a situation that's very common elsewhere, and other guys were the inspiration for me to try to create something equal here. I'm not an innovator by any stretch and didn't come up with some revolutionary new concept on my own. Expat groups in latin america are absolutely rife with arrangements like mine. One of the reasons that these arrangement exist is for safety, the main reason for discussion on this thread. The ladies don't seem to feel that they're underpaid either, but again consider the different situation before jumping to any conclusions. They have no advertising costs, no incall costs, no wardrobe costs, no transportation expenses or any other costs etc., etc., and no expenses, because I pay for whatever, and they don't do this as a principal source of income. Guys seem to think that the ladies working here are absorbing gobs of money and rich beyond the dreams of Midas because of their hourly rate without considering how much effort and cost goes into it. The girls I see don't have any of that. Again it's easy to look through one set of eyes, but really there's just a huge variety of different situations.
No heat from me. We're just having a discussion. You're still in my good books. lol. It's fine to question stuff, the need for it and the applicability of anything. Debate is fine too. Why shouldn't people question the need for anything that seems weird to them? But it goes both ways, and both sides of the equation need to be questioned, and even if the information isn't relevant now it could be later for anyone reading this thread and entering into a new situation or looking to change the current one. I just think that the scope of the vision needs to be broader in some instances.
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