GFE vs PSE

[loadman]

A discussion in the review area prompted me to post here. In a nutshell, how do you guys (or gals) differentiate between a GFE and a PSE? The two seem to be interchangeable to some, but to me there is a distinct difference.

A GFE is a sensual encounter with a lovely lady similar to what you would experience with a real girlfriend. The intent is to develop a personal rapport and achieve mutual satisfaction. It is far more intimate encounter than a PSE.

A PSE is a fantasy encounter with the hardcore porn queen of your dreams. It is mainly male-oriented and the SPs goal is to satisfy the customer without concern for her own needs. Whatever the SPs restrictions, a PSE must end with her taking a facial (or a cim combo), as is the case in the vast majority of mainstream porn videos today.

I'm curious as to how others define the terms GFE and PSE. Am I alone in the above opinion?

 

[CockAsian69]

My two cents:

Well I think PSE is all about the sex and the outcum... Pardon the pun. GFE is more about the whole ``date`` or time spent together.
PSE to me is you go in, bang the girl, all moaning and groaning and sweating and dirty talk you can muster in the timeframe you have set. Sloppy and noisy BJ. Loud sexual moans. MP, DATY, , CIM... All the regular stuff you see in a Porn. Wham, Bam, thank you `Mam...

GFE to me is you go in and spend time with someone and ``getting to know them``. This is funny since they or yourself may or may not be willing to divulge too much. You explore the sensuality of being with that person and the sex is important but secondary. This is what you would expect with someone you cherish and care about, without really getting to know all of the details. Just enough to feel at ease and to make the sex seem as if it was with a GF. Of course this can happen with cbj, no kiss (though I would imagine no kissing to be rather weird with your actual GF), no DATY... you get the idea.

That is my two cents. I dunno if anyone agrees with me exactly in this but, you asked... Hope this helps some.

CA

 

[Joey_cool_007]

GFE to me is you go in and spend time with someone and "getting to know them". This is funny since they or yourself may or may not be willing to divulge too much. You explore the sensuality of being with that person and the sex is important but secondary. This is what you would expect with someone you cherish and care about, without really getting to know all of the details. Just enough to feel at ease and to make the sex seem as if it was with a GF. Of course this can happen with cbj, no kiss (though I would imagine no kissing to be rather weird with your actual GF), no DATY... you get the idea.
That is my two cents. I dunno if anyone agrees with me exactly in this but, you asked... Hope this helps some.

CA

I almost agree with the first part... but I will never agree when you say (bold above) that a GFE could happen only with cbj, no kiss, no DATY... Just look at the Saint Bart definition which is, OMHO, the best definition for GFE...

Joey_cool_007