Has it happened to you...?

[ravenazrael]

That a SP has treated you so good or you feel so well with a SP, that you think that when you get to a a relationship with a girl you may not feel that satisfied with her?
Coming from Latin America, girls were not into COF or SW. SP's do not do BBBJ, no COF, NO SW, no daty. With my ex girlfriends, while there was love, they were not into any of those things either and were less skilled than some SP's here. Then I dated another latin american girl here, she was more open-minded, but in terms of "skills" I would put a couple of SP's on top.

A hooked-up a friend with Laurence, from Quebec City. He told me she treated him better than any ex-gf or even his ex-wife.

So has it happened to you that once you get to some great SP's or that particular SP, then you get to a formal relationship with a girl, but you can't get to that same level as that with the SP? Do you think that that may affect your relationship in certain way?

 

[jalimon]

Seing escort will affect any relationship. Period.

For a few it's for the better as maybe their wife/girlfriend are not into it anymore... And they do not want to divorce or separate for many reason.

Try to find a quebecoise girlfriend. You will see they beat SP hands down. Dont' get me wrong, SP are right now giving me some great fantasy. But I am 46, divorced with 2 kids. SP are now the very best option for me and I am thankfull for these princess to give me such wonderfull time. But I said it, SP are just short fantasy. The sex I had with previous girlfriends was way better. First of all, you can make it anywhere/anytime. And the fact that the girl wants you as much as you want her, hard to beat that!

Cheers,

p.s. when you get to meet quebecoise girl, do not be afraid to say that you love sex. That sex if very important for you. Yes some may ran away. But that's ok you do not want those. But look at the one will will look at you with a little smile when you say that. They are the ones you will have fun with

 

[B52]

The sp is treating you great cause you are paying her for sex. She swallows and do Greek for extra not cause she's in love with you but cause she's being paid for it. Take that particular sp and have a relationship with her for 1 Month (even less) and you will see the delusion you have been living in . It's her job to give you that fantasy. indeed don't compare québécoise girls to Latin Americans. I work with many 18-22 years old girls and the first topic that is brought up after the ice is broken is sex, in chatting, in a bar, on the phone, even at work. Got to love this country.

 

[SylvainP]

Je n'ai jamais eu la chance d'avoir une blonde. Alors, les femmes avec qui j'ai eu un contact intime sont les travailleuses du sexe: danseuses nues, masseuses érotiques et escortes. Certaines d'entre elles m'ont fait et me font sentir comme quelqu’un d'important. Comme plusieurs ont pris leur "retraite", j'en "fréquente" très peu, maintenant. Et je sais que, lorsque je j'aurai la chance d'avoir une blonde, je devrai arrêter de voir mes escortes préférées.

 

[ravenazrael]

I like quebecoises but seem they don't like me ( only the overweight or older than me)

 

[Russ_Meyer]

Seing escort will affect any relationship. Period.

For a few it's for the better as maybe their wife/girlfriend are not into it anymore... And they do not want to divorce or separate for many reason.

Try to find a quebecoise girlfriend. You will see they beat SP hands down. Dont' get me wrong, SP are right now giving me some great fantasy. But I am 46, divorced with 2 kids. SP are now the very best option for me and I am thankfull for these princess to give me such wonderfull time. But I said it, SP are just short fantasy. The sex I had with previous girlfriends was way better. First of all, you can make it anywhere/anytime. And the fact that the girl wants you as much as you want her, hard to beat that!

Cheers,

p.s. when you get to meet quebecoise girl, do not be afraid to say that you love sex. That sex if very important for you. Yes some may ran away. But that's ok you do not want those. But look at the one will will look at you with a little smile when you say that. They are the ones you will have fun with

Nicely said, my friend. I totally agree. And happy holidays to you are your kids.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Je n'ai jamais eu la chance d'avoir une blonde. Alors, les femmes avec qui j'ai eu un contact intime sont les travailleuses du sexe.

Same here... well i did had 2 girlfriends in my teen years but it never past the early preliminaries (kisses and touching)

The thing is i know if i was gonna be with a person that is interested in me, she wouldn't be a 34dd stripper look hottie. I get that. I don't mind at all a "curvy" girl in "real life" Obviously when paying i go for my ideal look but real life and romance is different. I always said as long as she is not bigger than me, it could be ok as long as i find her attractive facially. Now for sex granted most women are ok with BBJcim in real life. Sw it will depend but usually if she love you she will do it down the line. From what i heard at least. COF is a different thing obviously but you may get it for special ocasions if the person in question is open mind.

A girlfriend that don't do BJs (there rare but there some) i wouldn't be interested. I would see her more like a good friend?? But beside that i don't require extravagenza in bed. Not saying if offered i won't partook but its not a requirement or anything.

So yes i would LOVE to have a girlfriend. In the stage of life i am, i would happily stop seeing escorts if i had one. I mean even if she would be less attractive than SPs by far, the romance and love would compensate im sure. And instead of having sex once every 2-3 months, it would be every couple days the minimum lol. That kinda make it worth it for me more than enough lol.

i could use the money saved for other things.

One thing for sure, i wouldn't be able to cheat... If for some reasons at some point i would feel the love was not there anymore i would break up before seeing escorts again. I think cheating is dishonest...

 

[ssj3]

I agree with almost everything you said HM!

 

[jalimon]

I like quebecoises but seem they don't like me ( only the overweight or older than me)

What do you mean only the overweight or older than me? You think the quebecoise only like overweight?

To those who mention never having any girlfriend you got to find out why? No? I mean I do not want to sound like a Peter Robbins or Oprah Windfrey but we can all look at ourself and change the things girls don't like in us? If it's by choice that's fine, if you do not like yourself, girls will not either.

Cheers,

 

[ravenazrael]

What do you mean only the overweight or older than me? You think the quebecoise only like overweight?

To those who mention never having any girlfriend you got to find out why? No? I mean I do not want to sound like a Peter Robbins or Oprah Windfrey but we can all look at ourself and change the things girls don't like in us? If it's by choice that's fine, if you do not like yourself, girls will not either.

Cheers,

LOL not at all, quebecoise are the hottest girls in America. I meant that I only noticed that the girls who tend to be interested in me weight more than I do or are over 40.
Yep, I'm working out and dieting... but I guess I need to know more places t go out.. the few friends I have here always want to go to the same damn places..- I like Thursday's, but for once every 2 months -
I need more friends, Wanna be my friend? LOL.. jk

 

[MtlNewbie]

Pretty sure he means that only overweight or older quebecois are into him.

 

[SylvainP]

One thing for sure, i wouldn't be able to cheat... If for some reasons at some point i would feel the love was not there anymore i would break up before seeing escorts again. I think cheating is dishonest...

The same for me!

 

[SilverDust]

This has been discussed in another thread..https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?139449-Fall-in-Love-with-a-SP&highlight=cinderella

Frequent encounters with your all time favorite can be misleading.

 

[ravenazrael]

This has been discussed in another thread..https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?139449-Fall-in-Love-with-a-SP&highlight=cinderella

Frequent encounters with your all time favorite can be misleading.

No I did not mean falling in love with the SP, I mean having a S treated you in the way you like that you can find the treatment your partner or somebody else gives you in a lower level.

 

[EagerBeaver]

That a SP has treated you so good or you feel so well with a SP, that you think that when you get to a a relationship with a girl you may not feel that satisfied with her?
Coming from Latin America, girls were not into COF or SW. SP's do not do BBBJ, no COF, NO SW, no daty. With my ex girlfriends, while there was love, they were not into any of those things either and were less skilled than some SP's here. Then I dated another latin american girl here, she was more open-minded, but in terms of "skills" I would put a couple of SP's on top.

A hooked-up a friend with Laurence, from Quebec City. He told me she treated him better than any ex-gf or even his ex-wife.

So has it happened to you that once you get to some great SP's or that particular SP, then you get to a formal relationship with a girl, but you can't get to that same level as that with the SP? Do you think that that may affect your relationship in certain way?

It's not clear to me what's under discussion in this thread? Do you mean the quality of the sex or the quality of the companionship? I am confused. If you mean the quality of the sex, speaking from my experience, SPs who are a good match can be better ...........but if you want to have a girlfriend presumably sex is only one part of what you are looking for, especially "needy" type guys who always have to have a woman in their lives due to emotional neediness.

 

[ravenazrael]

It's not clear to me what's under discussion in this thread? Do you mean the quality of the sex or the quality of the companionship? I am confused. If you mean the quality of the sex, speaking from my experience, SPs who are a good match can be better ...........but if you want to have a girlfriend presumably sex is only one part of what you are looking for, especially "needy" type guys who always have to have a woman in their lives due to emotional neediness.

I was referring to the quality of sex and if that somehow had any effect on the relationship with a gf, etc.. making you miss the SP treatment

 

[EagerBeaver]

I was referring to the quality of sex and if that somehow had any effect on the relationship with a gf, etc.. making you miss the SP treatment

I would say definitely yes and from the girls I met on Seeking Arrangement, none of them were as good sexually as my favorite SPs, even though I had gotten to know the SA girls much better than the SPs before having sex with them.

 

[jalimon]

LOL not at all, quebecoise are the hottest girls in America. I meant that I only noticed that the girls who tend to be interested in me weight more than I do or are over 40.
Yep, I'm working out and dieting... but I guess I need to know more places t go out.. the few friends I have here always want to go to the same damn places..- I like Thursday's, but for once every 2 months -
I need more friends, Wanna be my friend? LOL.. jk

Ho I see all right then.

You know from my early years 20 to 35 I only met one girl (that I did not knew at all before) in a bar. And she became the mother of my 2 kids!! Go figure. Before that? Zero. Nada. Never. I would always end up eating a Poutine at 3 am... The only time I got dragged in bars was by gay's... You see for some people bars and club don't work. I have my own theory that in bars and clubs girls are attracted by tall jerk douche bag. I am not tall, I am not a jerk and I am not a douche bag. Hence the Poutine

I met a lot of girls in social activity like skiing, indoor hockey or internet blog meetings (around 2003, 2005 those were happening...).

And I had a lot of success and many girlfriend from reseaucontact. I was always very straighforward that all I wanted was sex. I met a lot of girl and and had a lot of sex. And nothing will ever beat that sex I had. True that sometimes it was not that wild but still it was a lot. I am happy that I was not seing SP during those years. I am the kind of guy that could have been fucked up by it.

Cheers,

 

[hungry101]

Same here...
So yes i would LOVE to have a girlfriend. In the stage of life i am, i would happily stop seeing escorts if i had one. I mean even if she would be less attractive than SPs by far, the romance and love would compensate im sure. And instead of having sex once every 2-3 months, it would be every couple days the minimum lol. That kinda make it worth it for me more than enough lol.

i could use the money saved for other things.

One thing for sure, i wouldn't be able to cheat... If for some reasons at some point i would feel the love was not there anymore i would break up before seeing escorts again. I think cheating is dishonest...

Mike - What makes you think that a girl friend or marriage would lead to you saving any money? I think this is a tremendous myth.
It is like going out and buying a new car because renting from Avis is too expensive. How often do you drive the damn car anyway? Do you drive it everyday?

All these people that say they wouldn't cheat if they could just find a wife or a girl friend are probably right. The fact that you have never had a wife or a girlfriend probably should tell you something. If you are the kind of guy that women find attractive and you developed the confidence and the game that made several women attracted to you than your honorable proclamation would actually mean something. (Sorry - just calling a spade a spade.)

Also, based on my experience, I feel that Ravenazrael is correct about one thing. Montreal almost makes marriage obsolete. Guys, you are not going to find a better girl friend/piece of ass and better love making/sex making from a civilian girl. I for one am glad that I reproduced prior to discovering MERB or I may have never reproduced...(unless the rubber broke and I knocked up my favorite escort.)

I am not so sure about what the OP said about LA service. I go to Brazil and I have had some great luck but a few of these girls may have saw me as a long term Mark and they may have been lining me up for the greatest and most profitable trick of all: Marriage. Please ask EB about how profitable this can be for the girl. However, like Ravenazrael said, I think that the girls that advertise or are advertised on MERB are sure bets for GFE service. My batting average in Montreal is better than anywhere else on the planet. Some of this is due to Iggy's parties but I have only been to one VIP party. I am still working through my TDL from all the GG parties Iggy and Mike threw!!!

 

[EagerBeaver]

Mike - What makes you think that a girl friend or marriage would lead to you saving any money? I think this is a tremendous myth.

It is 100% myth let him find out the hard way when his wallet gets crushed. Some of the financial beatdowns my friends have taken have stunned me. They were forced to learn the hard way.

The only issue is whether there will be money to take. If so it will get taken. My buddies were making serious coin and they got hosed.