For some reason this question came to my mind just now and I thought I'd share it openly with the forum.
How did I get started with this industry? Do you remember the time before you were aware at how much this stuff existed?
Do you remember the first time you got into the hobby or learned about the domain? This question could apply to SPs as well as customers.
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I'll try to keep it short for how I got started.
I remember I was looking at pornography and eventually wanted to find local pornography for some reason. I am ethnically quebecois and I wanted to find quebecois porn stars or something like that and there was a mature porn star lady who was also offering meet-ups.
Somehow from there I ended up on Craigslist "Therapeutic services" and the rest is history. At this point, I was maybe around 20 years old in 2010 and I had had sex with 3 women (had a girlfriend at the time too) and I finally ended up going to see Mirie ***1983 for a foot-wank which cost me $50. In short, before this, I did not know this world existed in the way that it does.
At the time I still didn't realize the depth of this world, that only came later as I learned more about the industry , got scammed, etc... days I look back on quite fondly, really, even though some moments were scary. I never quite liked the talking / wooing / romancing part of those types of relationships with women, so I kind of like how it's business oriented in a sense, but I have always been courageously the first to start dancing when there is music and stuff like that, so in some way I like the thrill of the uncertainty with scams and all. Anyway, that's neither here nor there, just a bit of insight into my perspective on learning the ropes. Needless to say, the difference in my ability to spot real people vs people who use pictures that aren't theirs vs just guys scamming (I guess?) is miles away from where it used to be.
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Another question I think is relevant and interesting, which can also apply to users and SPs :
have your sexual interests changed over time throughout hobbying? Has hobbying changed them in particular or allowed you to explore things that might have taken longer in a setting where you aren't just asking for with payment?
Mine definitely have and I imagine it's the same for most.
How did I get started with this industry? Do you remember the time before you were aware at how much this stuff existed?
Do you remember the first time you got into the hobby or learned about the domain? This question could apply to SPs as well as customers.
--
I'll try to keep it short for how I got started.
I remember I was looking at pornography and eventually wanted to find local pornography for some reason. I am ethnically quebecois and I wanted to find quebecois porn stars or something like that and there was a mature porn star lady who was also offering meet-ups.
Somehow from there I ended up on Craigslist "Therapeutic services" and the rest is history. At this point, I was maybe around 20 years old in 2010 and I had had sex with 3 women (had a girlfriend at the time too) and I finally ended up going to see Mirie ***1983 for a foot-wank which cost me $50. In short, before this, I did not know this world existed in the way that it does.
At the time I still didn't realize the depth of this world, that only came later as I learned more about the industry , got scammed, etc... days I look back on quite fondly, really, even though some moments were scary. I never quite liked the talking / wooing / romancing part of those types of relationships with women, so I kind of like how it's business oriented in a sense, but I have always been courageously the first to start dancing when there is music and stuff like that, so in some way I like the thrill of the uncertainty with scams and all. Anyway, that's neither here nor there, just a bit of insight into my perspective on learning the ropes. Needless to say, the difference in my ability to spot real people vs people who use pictures that aren't theirs vs just guys scamming (I guess?) is miles away from where it used to be.
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Another question I think is relevant and interesting, which can also apply to users and SPs :
have your sexual interests changed over time throughout hobbying? Has hobbying changed them in particular or allowed you to explore things that might have taken longer in a setting where you aren't just asking for with payment?
Mine definitely have and I imagine it's the same for most.
