How do you keep track of your SP encounters?

[TheDon]

I've been hobbying on and off for about 9 years now and have about 100 encounters with SP's. Throughout the years I've kept a virtual black book in word format of the SP's I've seen. Keeping notes on the name of the girl, when I saw her, her vital stats, services she offered, and pics when available. Slowly my virtual black book grew from 1 page to 10 and now over 100 pages of information. But recently I've found it very tough to go through 100 pages of notes and found a better way to keep track of my acomplishments by using Nookist and Bedposted on the internet to better access my information.

I was just wondering if I have too much time on my hands or are there other people out there that share my passion in keeping "black books" on their encounters.

 

[protagoras]

No, I don't have a black book.

For me, part of this hobby is the elusive, transient nature of the "relationships" themselves.

 

[newman1]

Honestly, I find a a bit sick to keep record and i know many poeple do it
I just recall the nice encounters...hobbying is not something I pride of and keep a record of " achievement"...this is something i do until i find a stable and long term decent relation...however, I salut ur honestly in openning this subject and discussing it....

Many poeple feel the more they see girls, the greatest is their ego....fortunatly i got rid of my ego long time ago...

There is nothing wrong with reviewing a lady as it help us make better choices, but by no mean I make it a record of it ....

 

[blakjak]

Honestly, I find a a bit sick to keep record and i know many poeple do it
I just recall the nice encounters...hobbying is not something I pride of and keep a record of " achievement"...this is something i do until i find a stable and long term decent relation...however, I salut ur honestly in openning this subject and discussing it....

Many poeple feel the more they see girls, the greatest is their ego....fortunatly i got rid of my ego long time ago...

There is nothing wrong with reviewing a lady as it help us make better choices, but by no mean I make it a record of it ....

Really well spoken, but I think that there is more ego on the sp's side. Especially with the sps who couldn't touch a man's organ if they weren't sp s, and now get paid to do it.

 

[metoo4]

Kinda weird thinking about a "black book" for me. The ladies aren't conquests or one-night-stands. No glory in remembering I paid to see so-and-so.

I remember, with my mind, who I had a good time with and I try to forget the others, just remembering them enough so I won't book them again, no more, no less.

 

[NathanJ]

Honestly, I find a a bit sick to keep record and i know many poeple do it
I just recall the nice encounters...hobbying is not something I pride of and keep a record of " achievement"...this is something i do until i find a stable and long term decent relation...however, I salut ur honestly in openning this subject and discussing it....

Many poeple feel the more they see girls, the greatest is their ego....fortunatly i got rid of my ego long time ago...

There is nothing wrong with reviewing a lady as it help us make better choices, but by no mean I make it a record of it ....

Unless it is not so for your ego than to think clearly.
Let's face it...if I'm here on this forum is because I LOVE Women.

Problem is with time I realised that I'm the kind who didn't care to pay whatever if I could get my hands on the cutest.

This has put me into situations where it has cost A LOT for some of them...

Since then... I did myself a spreadsheet with each of them (girlfriends, fuckfriends, SP, Strippers, onenighters, teachers, etc...), vs. what I ended-up paying to see & entertain them vs. what they brought to me (in my life).

And since then...my friend who used to think I was an as*hole to pay for an SP... did the same.

Some of my past girlfriends (spouse) ended up costing me 1000times more than some of the SPs who gave me 10times more fun.
While for some, their friendship was invaluable.

It's true also that one SP gave me a nice gift who took me a while to get rid of though...

I'm not into putting details specs as if they were cars or guns or planes...whatever.

To me it's simple : the name, what she looked(to remember), what was the overall cost to be with her, what I got in return (in terms of feeling, souvenirs, fun...).

I suggest anyone who is inclined to pay for getting what you want when other ways don't work... to do it ! You'll see...you'll probably be able to think a lot better.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I do keep track personally... i am just starting BUT i am what people would call "nostalgique" i don't know if its the same word in english. I love memories and im the kind of guy who keep everything.

For exemple i still have bottle of alchool that represent something for me. There is my true first "brosse" or basically the first time i threwed up. I was like 22, been drinking beer and such for the most part of my life, first complete beer was at 5...lol At 12 i was getting beer from the step dad for having help him in some work... So well i had never been sick, and i drinked a lot of alchool sometimes. So i wanted to see if i could puke on alchool, buyed a huge bottle of jack daniels, drink it in 5-6 minutes like it was water... Effects where just crazy, i was hallucinating and i had an awesome hour or so, but i regreted it later... So i kept the bottle per respect for the first time alchool beated me...

I have also kept the stinger bottle of the Slayer/Manson show, because we had a shit load of fun with it.

I keep every stuff i can, i have keep all my tickets of shows i saw, some strippers who gave me there numbers for personal shows, i kept the paper, so when i see an SP, i go to the website, save every picture of her, the stats and such, and i keep a list of the ones i saw. So some day if i have kids, when they are in there teens, i could say "yeah dad fucked this girl" lol

I don't care at all that i paid for them, some of my gamer friends compare this to "glitching" an achievement in the game, the xbox 360 player will know what i mean, but for me its more like a secret password to the last level. Whats the different between giving her 180$ to have sex with her, then pay her drinks after drinks or lunch after lunchs and keep on dating hoping to get something at the end, it may cost you even more...

 

[Dragonatic]

Some of my past girlfriends (spouse) ended up costing me 1000times more than some of the SPs who gave me 10times more fun.

Its not the same things man!!

Yes, maybe your girlfriend cost you 1000 times more than some SPs, but what you got for was 200% more fun than the SP!

Well, thats the case for me (and its supposed to be the same thing for any man I think..). When you are in a relationship with a girlfriend, even if you pay like 10000$ for her, just the fact that you love her, she love you, there is REAL emotions between you, you take care of each other and its SINCERE. With an SP, its a "game". You pay her, you fuck her, she tell you thats its good and she like it but there is no real feelings.... I mean, she do her job and you get the service..... How is this more fun than a real lover that you can wake up each morning with her, take a nice breakfeast, tell her that you love her, have a kiss from her and she say "I love you me too honey" How is this more fun than a couple of hours with an SP!

well, to come back to the topic, I personnally NEVER keep tracks of the SP I see. Simply cause since there is no real feelings like I said, its a game, a fantasy, a fantasm.... so well, I pick one, do my things then bye bye... If I really liked her she will be in my head for a long time and I just have to call her back then...

 

[NathanJ]

Dragonatic,

Don't worry, I am even taking this into consideration.
But I'm no fool either. I'm past the age of thinking 'being in love' is forever.

Unless you're willing to cultivate your love everyday.
Same as for happyness.

So for me for instance 'if it has cost me 15K to be 2 years with a girl and I got x amount of pleasure vs. x amount of stress and BS not to mention 'lies', making me feel cheap and the best part : that her new BF is 'the best ever'.

It's easy to see that with 15k with some SP for exemple.
I will get A LOT more out of our encounters minus the sh*t that happens when love is going away !

I've had girlfriends who gave me 'REAL emotions' both pleasurable and hateful !

As for memories ??? Tell ya ! the helicopter ride I got with one SP, then the dirtyest dinner, the fuckme boots scene and to top it off, asking me for another CIM ??? shit man ! if it ain't real feelings ???

This one I'll never forget !

That's the kinda sh*t that when I'm old enough, I'll be able to say 'at least I had a f*cking good time'.

 

[Dragonatic]

Dragonatic,

Don`t worry, I am even taking this into consideration.
But I`m no fool either. I`m past the age of thinking `being in love` is forever.

Unless you`re willing to cultivate your love everyday.
Same as for happyness.

So for me for instance `if it has cost me 15K to be 2 years with a girl and I got x amount of pleasure vs. x amount of stress and BS not to mention `lies`, making me feel cheap and the best part : that her new BF is `the best ever`.

It`s easy to see that with 15k with some SP for exemple.
I will get A LOT more out of our encounters minus the sh*t that happens when love is going away !

I`ve had girlfriends who gave me `REAL emotions` both pleasurable and hateful !

As for memories ??? Tell ya ! the helicopter ride I got with one SP, then the dirtyest dinner, the fuckme boots scene and to top it off, asking me for another CIM ??? shit man ! if it ain`t real feelings ???

This one I`ll never forget !

That`s the kinda sh*t that when I`m old enough, I`ll be able to say `at least I had a f*cking good time`.

Well, I past the age that ``love is forever`` too like you said....

But, one of my ex-girlfriends, I was with her for 4 years. And each day I was saying to myself ``thank god sh`es still here`` like I was so fucking in love with her (and she was so in love with me too). Each years we were doing 2 trip (europe in the summer and costa rica in the winter). I spent so much for her, more than 15k but dammit all these trip, nice week-end in camping, beach, breakfeast in bed and all those things its much more than a CIM or a ``very nice TC`` from a SP. Yes, my times with SPs was some times VERY nice and I did new sex things that I never did with my gilfriend in 4 years! But in the end, my 4 years with this girl compared with these sexual (or not) services from SP is the day and night!

 

[Dr Edgar Who]

I was just wondering if I have too much time on my hands or are there other people out there that share my passion in keeping "black books" on their encounters.

I have their names tatooed on my dick along with the dates of the encounters (in itsy bitsy writing) but I'm running out of room 2 years into it.

 

[Medic_565]

Like a moron I used to keep a written record of who I saw (Montreal, NY, Berlin, Amsterdam, where-ever) and of course my wife found my notes which started the process of her becoming an EX-wife.

Now I keep it all in my head except for the rare few who allow me to take their pics wearing nothing but my Fire Dept t-shirt. I burn the pics onto disks, delete them from my computer, put a false label on the disk and hide them so deep in the garage that even I have trouble finding them.

I know what you're thinking. If it takes me about a day and a half to get to look at them then why bother at all? Yeah, I don't really have an answer to that one.

 

[orallover]

very simple. check the website and you see what you like then see her

 

[Halloween Mike]

May sound weird but i don't want a girlfriend to be honest. I would like a fuck friend, a girl that would not cost me anything to have sex with her and such, but i don't want any love things at all...

I am an independant person, love to do my things when i want, where i want, so with a girlfriend you have to do things for her and such, and its not my style.

For exemple i sleep at crazy hours, i go to sleep when i am tired, and if i have to work or else, then fuck it i will sleep 3-4 hours then... I sleep when im tired, so if i had a girlfriend i would need to watch out not to make too much noise, and she would probably ask me to come sleep with her, when im not even tired...

Another exemple, i saw my best buddy girlfriend do that numerous time, saying to him "this saturday we have a dinner at my parents place" whitout even asking him before saying yes, even if they live at 60 minutes of car, and that HE pay the fuel...

Somebody taking decision for me, no way, im not interest in that, if i want to game with my friends, then i do it, and not girlfriend could come and say "im tired of seing you play this stupid game, i want to do something" i would be like "do what you want, i want to game..."

The perfect girlfriend for me would be a very independant hot girl, who loves to game, watch hockey and drink beer, then that would be awesome, but it would be hard to find

 

[montreal_monk01]

I was just wondering if I have too much time on my hands or are there other people out there that share my passion in keeping "black books" on their encounters.

Well, it would be insulting to respond that you have too much time ..lol
I see that as you beeing a very well organised person.
You are not alone: lots of my buds have their lifetime hobbying black books on their shelves. Personally, I maintain a very short encrypted list of "current sps" I want to see and every time an sp quits, she is removed from the list. When a new sp who catches my attention comes in, she enters the list and so on...so the list is kept short and regularly updated..and encrypted...so that no one else has access to it! No input kept at of past encounters (they populate my sweet memories when they were great) except for the very bad encounters: those, I keep them at the very bottom of my list, in bold and in red..and believe me, even bad sps I met 6,7 years ago and who come back are remembered!!

 

[rollingstone]

I dont keep any records, but I have to admit it comes in handy some times. My doctor had asked me how many different people I had had sex with (was one of many questions in a questionnaire) and to be honest I was struggling to give an accurate estimate.

 

[metoo4]

Rollingstone, I can imagine...

- I had sex with 25.5 women last year!
- What do you mean, .5?
- Yhea, she started her periods before the FS so she left early!

LOL!! Sorry, overactive imagination!

 

[incognito_NYC]

Here's a thought ....

... if your answer is "I just check my Amex bill" then you're probably doing this way too often.