Hello all,
It's interesting to see the point of view coming from clients on whether real life ladies and/or escorts are attracted to older men and can enjoy being with them, or if it's just a matter of money. It's pretty predictable, since I'm sure the main reason that motivated 90% of guys to go into the hobby was dissatisfaction with girlfriends, wives, mistresses, or women overall and naturally tend to superimpose our dissatisfaction on what we think of them. Not that women are any different. It's just human.
The ironic part of all this is how common it is in the real world for guys to try to impress women with money in some form or another like cars, clothes, expense accounts, gifts, house or fancy apartment, etc. I mean when this is your method why is anyone surprised they got women who make money a high consideration for picking a guy. You used this bait and got the fish that liked it. SURPRISED? Why???
The other irony is that we decide to go and pay escorts for fantasy on purpose, then some seem angry that escorts are acting and only doing this for the money. That is the process you chose, so why is anyone angry when the method worked out as they planned it. The ladies advertised a service for payment, you got good service and paid what she asked. It's the way you chose to handle your intimacy needs instead of sticking with dating, rebuilding your marriage, or other options. Unless her service was sub-par...that's called a successful business transaction. No complaints are warranted.
As for what an 18 year old likes, when I was 18 I liked hot girls my age, but I was still attracted to any appealing women no matter if she was twice my age or more. For me, being hot didn't necessarily mean she had to be beautiful or have a phenomenal physique, and it wasn't about a specific age. Sure I preferred girls my age, but I never let a woman being older get in the way of attraction. If you don't think it's the same for 18 year old women, then I believe you are imposing some personal baggage from past disappointments. I've got those disappointments too, but even though I have my jaded moods I don't let it delude me into believing negative generalizations about all women.
Some 18 year old guys like older men just as 18 year old guys like older women, just as some escorts like their work. It's a fact. No, it doesn't mean they enjoy being jumped on by any older and probably out of shape 40-50 year old guy, but saying it's not possible for young women to like some older men or for escorts to enjoy themselves only shows how much your disappointments and "women troubles" of the past have hurt you and loaded you with jaded baggage.
On the thread subject, if it's an 18 year old who comes to my room, she gets to take a real good look, see what I'm like, then make HER CHOICE to stay or not, just as I choose to keep her or not. If she chooses to stay I don't feel any more guilty than if she was a woman my age.
"...younger guys tend to go all out and work them hard. whereas, older dudes generally are more receptive to their "feelings" and see it more as a date and take their time..."
I must be a blend of both. I like to take my time ...be receptive to her feelings ...treat her tenderly ...then start with some slowly building affection. BUT!!! There does come a time when it's ...GIDDY UP ...yeeeeeeeehaaaaaaaaaa go baby.
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Cheers,
Merlot
