How far in advance are you willing to book? How far in advance do you book?
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The ideal window for me is 24 hours in advance, because longer than that i am unsure about transport, hotel (if needed) and other things. Less than that, same apply but in reverse, may be too late to book all the other things i need.
In a perfect world a schedule would be posted by every agencies, indies, and would be hold to at a 99% rate like any other job (cancelling only for illness or family emergencies) but sadly thats not how this business operate. The number of times i got a text while in the car or bus saying "she canceled" or "she don't answer..." It seem to be worst to handle these days. Not because they cancel more, i think this never really changed, but because the choice for Plan B is extremely harder. Too much day or early evening shift now compare to 10-12 years ago where lots of SPs worked til midnight-2am, so if you get cancelled at 2pm, you likely have half the rosters already gone or soon done (ending at 5 or 6), most of the rest are already fully book (some even fully book right as they open the phone at 9-10 am). Indies are much more expensive now and require much more to book (24h advance notice, screening, deposits etc), honestly nowadays its like you better plan a double booking, like 1 in the afternoon around 2-3, and one in the early evening, and hope AT LEAST one of them make it. Its not even a rare occurance that both would cancel. I assume indies who ask for deposits are more likely to NOT cancel themselves but its a step i am not yet ready to make. Maybe one day. Maybe ill HAVE to one day. But for now, i prefer to stay with good old cash.
Last time i was in Montreal i had about 4 cancellations in 2 days and a string of the worst luck there is, like missing a text from someone i had sent one the day before while being in the movie theatre for TWO FREAKING HOURS. Im not even kidding you. Like at that point i wasn't expecting a reply anymore, and then i finish my movie and boom see the text wich was sent about 15 mins after the movie started, i almost jump in the theatre (on my way out, not in the projection), but then she tell me since i didn't answer fast enough she made other plans.
. I couldn't believe it how unlucky i could be at that point. If i had decided to watch the movie a different time, i wouldn't had missed the text.
I was there for something else and i was not in a hurry to leave (staying at friend's place, so no hotel checkout) but at some point i was not gonna stay there for a week... I eventually got VERY lucky to have a meeting. I didn't review cause she asked me not to (she don't like reviews and it was positive, so i agreed to her wish), but basically it was either i do this booking or i end up going back home with blue balls, so i took a chance, i had a good experience with the agency before, and the SP had a look i like by the pics and was listed as "Full GFE", wich for them mean CIM pretty much, so i was like "ok...at that point, even if she end up facially average, im just hoping service is good. I very rarely go blind into meetings (without at least a few trustable reviews or if not a face pic) but i wanted to have fun... Turned out she was pretty and the service was good. So it did ended well. But the whole point to this brick wall of text is that if you only plan one booking and get cancelled, its very unlikely you manage to see someone else "on your list" from the agencies.
Thinking of it, i do think the incall being so dominant these days really changed the dynamic of the scene. Because when everything was outcall back then, guys couldn't always booked when they wanted, they had to rent hotels or host home (some not liking this). Incall made the whole in and out so easy for business men etc, they can just pretend they have a meeting somewhere or an errand or whatever, go in, spend an hour there, go out, no trace at all. So incall coupled with daytime shifts i think are to blame lol.
Obviously this is trough the perspective of a customer who had to go to the city. I understand for locals and especially SPs its great....
In a perfect world a schedule would be posted by every agencies, indies, and would be hold to at a 99% rate like any other job (cancelling only for illness or family emergencies) but sadly thats not how this business operate. The number of times i got a text while in the car or bus saying "she canceled" or "she don't answer..." It seem to be worst to handle these days. Not because they cancel more, i think this never really changed, but because the choice for Plan B is extremely harder. Too much day or early evening shift now compare to 10-12 years ago where lots of SPs worked til midnight-2am, so if you get cancelled at 2pm, you likely have half the rosters already gone or soon done (ending at 5 or 6), most of the rest are already fully book (some even fully book right as they open the phone at 9-10 am). Indies are much more expensive now and require much more to book (24h advance notice, screening, deposits etc), honestly nowadays its like you better plan a double booking, like 1 in the afternoon around 2-3, and one in the early evening, and hope AT LEAST one of them make it. Its not even a rare occurance that both would cancel. I assume indies who ask for deposits are more likely to NOT cancel themselves but its a step i am not yet ready to make. Maybe one day. Maybe ill HAVE to one day. But for now, i prefer to stay with good old cash.
Last time i was in Montreal i had about 4 cancellations in 2 days and a string of the worst luck there is, like missing a text from someone i had sent one the day before while being in the movie theatre for TWO FREAKING HOURS. Im not even kidding you. Like at that point i wasn't expecting a reply anymore, and then i finish my movie and boom see the text wich was sent about 15 mins after the movie started, i almost jump in the theatre (on my way out, not in the projection), but then she tell me since i didn't answer fast enough she made other plans.
. I couldn't believe it how unlucky i could be at that point. If i had decided to watch the movie a different time, i wouldn't had missed the text.I was there for something else and i was not in a hurry to leave (staying at friend's place, so no hotel checkout) but at some point i was not gonna stay there for a week... I eventually got VERY lucky to have a meeting. I didn't review cause she asked me not to (she don't like reviews and it was positive, so i agreed to her wish), but basically it was either i do this booking or i end up going back home with blue balls, so i took a chance, i had a good experience with the agency before, and the SP had a look i like by the pics and was listed as "Full GFE", wich for them mean CIM pretty much, so i was like "ok...at that point, even if she end up facially average, im just hoping service is good. I very rarely go blind into meetings (without at least a few trustable reviews or if not a face pic) but i wanted to have fun... Turned out she was pretty and the service was good. So it did ended well. But the whole point to this brick wall of text is that if you only plan one booking and get cancelled, its very unlikely you manage to see someone else "on your list" from the agencies.
Thinking of it, i do think the incall being so dominant these days really changed the dynamic of the scene. Because when everything was outcall back then, guys couldn't always booked when they wanted, they had to rent hotels or host home (some not liking this). Incall made the whole in and out so easy for business men etc, they can just pretend they have a meeting somewhere or an errand or whatever, go in, spend an hour there, go out, no trace at all. So incall coupled with daytime shifts i think are to blame lol.
Obviously this is trough the perspective of a customer who had to go to the city. I understand for locals and especially SPs its great....
Unless you are going for an indie I really miss when you can book a month in advance with an agency. That build up and anticipation really made the encounter ever more so satisfying. Not a fan of having to check sites daily in the morning to see who is available and calling all over. Too chaotic. Just want to keep things simple. Adding to the annoyance is when the girl cancels and had to go back and forth to see what is on the menu.
I am all about spontaneity, can't see how I could plan my craving or hornyness ahead. That is a major problem when your fave is too popular. I did book ahead a few times and for me it doesn't bring any anticipation positive build up, sometimes it even does the opposite, I lose interest during the waiting.
I don’t know how you can predict your libido days in advance. While pre-scheduling in Montreal is nice, I think it sometimes defeats the purpose of hobbying in a city renowned for escorts.
I think the Montreal escort scene is trending down, and I long for the days when there were dozens of options on any particular day without a lot of fear of “fully booked” all around. So I understand why guys pre-book these days.
Advance scheduling is good but business deals can go sideways, fatigue can happen, family issue can pop up, etc - these life issues can detract from the mood. This happened to me in NJ just the other day. A client canceled a biz deal about 10 hours before a scheduled appointment, and I went into the appointment not in the greatest mood. I had fun, but I regretted scheduling appointment.
Spontaneity can also be fun. A better option might pop up on a day for which you pre-booked. In short, I rarely pre-book in Montreal.
For one of my fav agencies in NJ, I’ll often book a day or two in advance because they rapidly sell out. But my favorite way of scheduling is 2-3 hours in advance.
I think the Montreal escort scene is trending down, and I long for the days when there were dozens of options on any particular day without a lot of fear of “fully booked” all around. So I understand why guys pre-book these days.
Advance scheduling is good but business deals can go sideways, fatigue can happen, family issue can pop up, etc - these life issues can detract from the mood. This happened to me in NJ just the other day. A client canceled a biz deal about 10 hours before a scheduled appointment, and I went into the appointment not in the greatest mood. I had fun, but I regretted scheduling appointment.
Spontaneity can also be fun. A better option might pop up on a day for which you pre-booked. In short, I rarely pre-book in Montreal.
For one of my fav agencies in NJ, I’ll often book a day or two in advance because they rapidly sell out. But my favorite way of scheduling is 2-3 hours in advance.
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I usually book 1-2 days in advance, especially if I’ll be seeing a popular lady that books quickly. It’s fun to have the build up and anticipation for the appointment as well.
I’ll have a plan B in case of a cancellation, which seems to happen more often these days. If plan B falls thru as well, then I’ll try to book on another day.
I’m a local, so it’s easier to deal with cancellations (I do incalls). Sure it’s disappointing to get cancelled, but I’ll just try to book at another time.
I’ll have a plan B in case of a cancellation, which seems to happen more often these days. If plan B falls thru as well, then I’ll try to book on another day.
I’m a local, so it’s easier to deal with cancellations (I do incalls). Sure it’s disappointing to get cancelled, but I’ll just try to book at another time.
Not a fan of week+ pre-booking. 24 hours is a sweet spot for me, or even same day, like booking in the morning for early evening when i can. Some popular agencies do not publish schedules in advance, at least not to general public, so i guess they are more suited to my style.
By booking a week in advance, i never know what my mood will be when the day arrives. Could be a couple days of bad sleep ruining it, or other issues that came in the way.
Sometimes too much anticipation simply kills it for me. Like in a "too horny before, and not enough when the day comes" kind of way. Risk of cancellation is higher too, i've been let down a few times with long pre-booking, being cancelled the day before or even same day. I guess it's the same the other way.
Sometimes you have one girl in mind so it's worth going the extra mile, but in general i'm more a spontaneous guy.
Even in some popular MP advance booking is required to see the gems, sometimes more than a week, so at some point it feels like trying to set an appointment with the Prime Minister
By booking a week in advance, i never know what my mood will be when the day arrives. Could be a couple days of bad sleep ruining it, or other issues that came in the way.
Sometimes too much anticipation simply kills it for me. Like in a "too horny before, and not enough when the day comes" kind of way. Risk of cancellation is higher too, i've been let down a few times with long pre-booking, being cancelled the day before or even same day. I guess it's the same the other way.
Sometimes you have one girl in mind so it's worth going the extra mile, but in general i'm more a spontaneous guy.
Even in some popular MP advance booking is required to see the gems, sometimes more than a week, so at some point it feels like trying to set an appointment with the Prime Minister
i like booking the minute i feel horny. and seeing someone ASAP.
this used to be very easy. i can get the urge at 3PM, and book a top level popular girl for 6PM no problem.
these days, I need to book 3 days in advance for the popular girls.
covid introduced too many new hobbyists to the hobby, making it very inconvenient.
this used to be very easy. i can get the urge at 3PM, and book a top level popular girl for 6PM no problem.
these days, I need to book 3 days in advance for the popular girls.
covid introduced too many new hobbyists to the hobby, making it very inconvenient.
Before a session, I don’t feel horny often. When it’s the case, I play a little while with my dick and magically I become rapidly ready for action: “Yeah baby, come on down!!!”
Repeat as needed before session without explosion
When the HDH market was in its stride I love to book a month in advance. Why? Then I am inspired to go on a sperm retention spree and always that first girl that I see must include CIM. Imagine not ejaculating for a month or so.
Oh feel the flow. LOL. Also knowing how the story is going to go when you meet an SP that urge to bust a nut is not so consuming anymore.
Well that is just me.
Oh feel the flow. LOL. Also knowing how the story is going to go when you meet an SP that urge to bust a nut is not so consuming anymore.
Well that is just me.
Early on i used to prebook a week in advance. Later it was days in advance. But half the time the appointments kept getting cancelled or by the time of the appointment i was no longer in the mood so i became a same-day appointment guy. It was also more practical since i'd often see more than one girl per day so i never knew until that day if i'd have stamina/need/sex drive to see more than 1 girl on any particular day. I also noticed booking days in advance would increase my anxiety level since i'd always have the upcoming appointment in my mind plus i absolutely hated the disappointment of getting cancelled at the last minute with my plan B's all booked or not working. Of course there were the odd times i'd actually welcome the cancellation. Of course there were exceptions & some regulars i absolutely enjoyed seeing & who were very reliable needed to be pre-booked. Those i didn't mind.
"yes, I will want to have sex next thursday at 4:33 pm"
pre-booking is for suckers....
pre-booking is for suckers....
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