How important is DATY to you?
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i used to love to perform daty, but something changed over the years. I have only performed daty like once in the last two years. I still love looking at a beautiful pussy, and the desire to perform daty is still there, but when i am actually face to face with a woman, in the moment, i dont really want to. Its weird.
I've had a similar change recently.
It only works for me if it's a girl I know and there is a connection.
SP or not, giving my partner at least one genuine orgasm is very important for me. DATY is the most reliable way I can achieve this.
Some SP I met would stay quite dry even with proper fingering technique but as soon as I would use my tongue I would feel their private
area get so warm and wet. Definitely a big turn on for me which is essential on the days when my soldier isnt at its peak operational
status.
No DATY, No Booky
Some SP I met would stay quite dry even with proper fingering technique but as soon as I would use my tongue I would feel their private
area get so warm and wet. Definitely a big turn on for me which is essential on the days when my soldier isnt at its peak operational
status.
No DATY, No Booky
To me, DATY is like the appetizer to the main course.
It's nice & sweet, lol
It's nice & sweet, lol
We don't call it dining at the Y for nothing ;p
Dealbreaker. I asked a former Montreal Angels escort (2014, 2015 maybe?) to leave when I found out it wasn’t on menu. One of two times that happened, I believe. The other time was in NYC. I ended that appointment early as well.
I think one is right to assume GFE means DATY. Even here in NJ - and NYC/NJ guys will likely know what I mean - escorts at a non-GFE agency all offer DATY. Everything else covered.
I think one is right to assume GFE means DATY. Even here in NJ - and NYC/NJ guys will likely know what I mean - escorts at a non-GFE agency all offer DATY. Everything else covered.
Hello everyone, new to the hobby here, had a total of 2 sessions with an SP. I’ve seen the same girl twice and will see her a third time (can’t get enough of her) and I’d love to do DATY with her, but unfortunately I’ve never done it before. Seeing as there seems to be some people experienced in the matter here, could you explain to me how to go about this? Thanks in advance!
Here is in my experience what works well. I am a licensed sex educator (LSEd) and a professional cunnilinguist
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2) slow and gentle up and down motions along the vulva to begin for a few minutes. You can slowly build up the rhythm.
3) start to focus on the clitoris. Up and down and/or in circles around. (Google image search vaginal anatomy to help locate the clitoris if necessary)
4) keep focusing on the clitoris and stay there all the time. No need to go wild with your tongue, but keep going!
5) If the stars align she may get an orgasm. This may take anywhere from 2 to 15 minutes. Don't be shy to ask her what she prefers in terms of technique and for instructions along the way!
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All valid sugestions here! And if i can add, experiment various movements on the clitoris and the vulva. Building up momentum is crucial as pointed above. Light touch with the tip of the tongue, gentle licking, gentle sucking , around in circles, long soft licks from the vagina all the way up past the clitoris, faster, slower…. Keep eye contact with her, see her reactions to your movements and touches. Caress her abdomen below the navel gently with one hand, the inner thighs, breast, her ass, to provide more stimulation, , listen to her reactions to understsnd what works. Use your immagination…. After experimenting for a while and you have found what gets her going, go with this for her pleasure!!! DATY is so much fun to perform. There is hardly nothing better than to have your head squeezed by the thighs of a beautiful woman orgasming and seeing her squirming to your DATY…. As ladies appreciate your DATY your confidence and enjoyment will improve. Enjoy my friend!!!Here is in my experience what works well. I am a licensed sex educator (LSEd) and a professional cunnilinguist
(joking)
1)
2) slow and gentle up and down motions along the vulva to begin for a few minutes. You can slowly build up the rhythm.
3) start to focus on the clitoris. Up and down and/or in circles around. (Google image search vaginal anatomy to help locate the clitoris if necessary)
4) keep focusing on the clitoris and stay there all the time. No need to go wild with your tongue, but keep going!
5) If the stars align she may get an orgasm. This may take anywhere from 2 to 15 minutes. Don't be shy to ask her what she prefers in terms of technique and for instructions along the way!
Thanks to both of you, I’ll definitely try that next time I see her, hopefully sooner than later. Should I tell her I’m inexperienced in this or just fake it till I make it hahah
Hey Captain. No problem. Happy to share insights and help you please a lady IMO No need to tell her anything but you can also ask how she likes it. How she prefers to be touched etc. If you are a newbie at DATY she peobably already realized it anyways…. Ask for her guidance, experience and most importsnt have fun with her cause that is what it is all about. Tell us how it goes!!!!
Will do! On a trip right now but can’t wait to put that in practice. Gotcha, communicate and don’t be afraid to try even though that would be my first time
Please ask your partner what she likes! Some women really prefer if you give attention to multiple parts of their vulvas instead. Stimulating only the clitoris "all the time" can be overwhelming and eventually painful for some people, so this isn't general advice. It can also depend on other factors - hormones, libido, did she have an orgasm that day already etc. I know that personally there are some days or appointments where my clit is more sensitive than others (but I promise it's always quite receptive. Hahahha)
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