How important is DATY to you?

[samadams]

How important is DATY to you?​

I live for it!

 

[AirBo]

I'm pretty much back to health now... that damn flu put me down for a week, which delayed my hobbying by that much haha

Now I'm craving for some DATY Friday can't come fast enough

 

[Dasein]

For some reason, I find DATY super intimate and it really is a gesture of affection/appreciation that I have only shared with two SPs that I knew well... but that's just me!

 

[Kenshiro2029]

Yes, for me daty should be part of the encounter. If not, this is a turn off. If this is extra, turn off to. Same for DFK.

Or when the lady allows Daty but she doesn’t like it. That’s double turn off.

 

[MCTJ]

Or when the lady allows Daty but she doesn’t like it. That’s double turn off.

Here's one thing a lady told me recently that I found very enlightening. I'm not sure if it's true, but I think it is: it's almost impossible for a woman to "not like" clitoral stimulation. The reason some say they don't like it–and in my experience it's a minority–is because they do not want to experience an orgasm with someone they don't have an emotional connection with.

 

[bodick7]

they do not want to experience an orgasm with someone they don't have an emotional connection with.

Very interesting. Maybe you should get some feedback in the "Ask us anything" thread about this.
But then again, maybe it's just because they don't want to be infected by saliva.

 

[Kenshiro2029]

Here's one thing a lady told me recently that I found very enlightening. I'm not sure if it's true, but I think it is: it's almost impossible for a woman to "not like" clitoral stimulation. The reason some say they don't like it–and in my experience it's a minority–is because they do not want to experience an orgasm with someone they don't have an emotional connection with.

With all respect this might be, but I really doubt they mean “emotional connection” as you see it, at least in this business. We might lie to ourselves lol but the SPs don’t.

AnywayI think it’s more about the SP allowing herself to have an orgasm. It’s great to have chemistry but it’s also important to allow both parties to enjoy sex, paid or not. I met not long time ago a SP that told me that she doesn’t like to have orgasms at work. Even when my DATY was very good she only kept it to her girlfriend. That was sad lol.

 

[DouMan]

Here's one thing a lady told me recently that I found very enlightening. I'm not sure if it's true, but I think it is: it's almost impossible for a woman to "not like" clitoral stimulation. The reason some say they don't like it–and in my experience it's a minority–is because they do not want to experience an orgasm with someone they don't have an emotional connection with.

True, and also because many of us are true jerks when it comes to DATY.

- Rubbing a stubly unshaven chin down there is like sandpaper and terribly irritating not to say hurtful

- Flicking the clit endlessly like an energizer bunny with new batteries up his ass going like there was no tomorrow.
Just imagine having our head rubbed non stop just how it feels

- Thinking we're hot when biting the clit

etc, etc

so it's easier for the lady to just say she does not like DATY instead of trying to coach Johnny boy who thinks he's God's gift to her.

 

[MCTJ]

With all respect this might be, but I really doubt they mean “emotional connection” as you see it, at least in this business. We might lie to ourselves lol but the SPs don’t.

AnywayI think it’s more about the SP allowing herself to have an orgasm. It’s great to have chemistry but it’s also important to allow both parties to enjoy sex, paid or not. I met not long time ago a SP that told me that she doesn’t like to have orgasms at work. Even when my DATY was very good she only kept it to her girlfriend. That was sad lol.

I think we're basically saying the same thing.

 

[AirBo]

they do not want to experience an orgasm with someone they don't have an emotional connection with

Some SPs can have a blockage at that level, I can understand that. But in my experience, if you know what you're doing and the atmosphere is right, an SP will gladly let herself go and enjoy the moment.

 

[AirBo]

Well, i appreciate a lady tells me she is more vaginal than clitoral from the get go

I certainly wouldn't mind if she told me what she likes. The more directions, the better. But, my "tongue + 1 finger" technique rarely fails Best of both worlds hehe

My current fav says it's totally unfair that I'm able to make her cum within basically 45 sec as soon as I add that 1 finger to the mix lol

 

[MCTJ]

- Rubbing a stubly unshaven chin down there is like sandpaper and terribly irritating not to say hurtful

Is it just me or the clean shaven look for men is vastly underrated these days? And I'm not just talking with regards to oral sex

- Flicking the clit endlessly like an energizer bunny with new batteries up his ass going like there was no tomorrow.
Just imagine having our head rubbed non stop just how it feels

- Thinking we're hot when biting the clit

Up and down licks across the vulva and circular motions around the clit. As simple as that. There's some dubious advice online (some good one, too)

- Thinking we're hot when biting the clit

No biting

 

[AirBo]

Some SPs also have to deal with guys that might not have the best oral hygiene too which can be really offputting to have his mouth anywhere near their bodies.

I'll always remember one of my first hookups as a teenager, that gave me great directions on how to pleasure her. When she came she told me that I now knew how to make HER cum and how every girl was different and to not just repeat the same routine with every girl as it would be doomed. Best life lesson I ever got.

If she pulls away stop, if she grabs your hair and grinds into you keep doing what you're doing... god I love women.

It's always about listening to your partner and be attentive to how she reacts. Yes, every woman is different, and that's the beauty of it I enjoy finding their weak spot

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

I love DATY

Especially when I get this reaction from them...

 

[AirBo]

I love DATY
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That pic is very sexy I have to make something happen in my office haha

 

[AirBo]

I love when she's sitting and grinding on my face

 

[Mefy]

It's a MUST!
It's the biggest part of the foreplay!
I can DATY the whole session easily!

No daty.
No candy.

 

[Mefy]

I love when she's sitting and grinding on my face

Same here! Sit on my face for 60 mins

 

[kabukicho]

Very important, but even more important is if it's her fav. Some Vs just don't have any nerve endings so I feel like I'm drinking alone (or dining). not as fun.

 

[STAEDTLER]

Very important and enjoyable,

A woman pleasure is like music to my ears. Gently getting acquainted with a new beautiful instrument and learning to play with it, gets my blood flowing