How often do you have sex with your wife/SO?

[chef]

Knowing When to Leave

There is an old Burt Bacharach song entitled "Knowing When to Leave"; one of the lines is, "Knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing that anyone can learn".

Wish I were smart.

 

[General Gonad]

My ex and I literally melt into one another whenever we hug, to this day. We lived under the same roof for 5 years. I slept on the sofa downstairs maybe 5 hours the whole time, why? Because no matter how bad things were, we could not bear to be parted from one another's arms at night. To this day, when we meet and hug, it's the same thing, a mystical pull. We have that chemistry, we have love, and deep incompatibilities about a lot of the rest. Grrr!

Do I wish it would have ended sooner without that bad last period? Who's to say. But I have a beautiful friend for life and will become the North American mentor of her daughter, should she return in later years.

I completely understand what you mean. My wife is my best friend. We are both very close and there for each other, especially when the chips are down. However, in many ways, we're incompatible, especially in our sexual drives. I don't blame her - I am not always easy to deal with.

But I just wish she made an effort once in a while to seduce me like I make an effort to be romantic. Does anyone else feel this way?

GG

 

[General Gonad]

Love is amazing only when you are free to move with nothing holding you back where the only consequence is that it doesn't work out and you go your seperate ways and later looking back that eventhough it didn't work out the way you want them to but it was still worth it. This means no wife and no SO before you entered this game.

Very interesting but I still think that it is a lot tougher "going your separate ways" when you're married. But I like what you wrote because love for me does mean giving it my all and never holding back. Even when I got burned, I still went into my next relationship with an open heart. I would never hold back when I truly love someone...NEVER!!!

GG

 

[General Gonad]

There is an old Burt Bacharach song entitled "Knowing When to Leave"; one of the lines is, "Knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing that anyone can learn".

Wish I were smart.

Me too, me too!

 

[Penelope]

c'est parce que ton épaule à mon épaule
ta bouche à mes cheveux
ta main sur mon cou
c'est parceque dans mes reins
quand ton souffle me frôle
c'est parceque tes mains
c'est parce que joue à joue
c'est pare qu'au matin
c'est parce qu'à la nuit
quand tu dis: "viens"
je viens
je souris
tu souris
c'est parce que je t'aime
que je préfère m'en aller
- Barbara

 

[CryWolf]

c'est parce que ton épaule à mon épaule
ta bouche à mes cheveux
ta main sur mon cou
c'est parceque dans mes reins
quand ton souffle me frôle
c'est parceque tes mains
c'est parce que joue à joue
c'est pare qu'au matin
c'est parce qu'à la nuit
quand tu dis: "viens"
je viens
je souris
tu souris
c'est parce que je t'aime
que je préfère m'en aller
- Barbara

GG,

You're in deep s..., your wife just logged in.

 

[General Gonad]

I feel even better this morning

My wife woke me up with a special gift! She also told me that summer is in the air and that she is horny and will take good care of me. OOAH! I might be able to use this as a spark and build on it. My goal is to gradually move it up to 2-3 times a week. And the best thing about being married? That is easy: no condoms for sex!!!

GG

 

[General Gonad]

It's become quite clear, particularly over the last day or so, that what I learned in San Francisco has put the final nail in the coffin of a relationship that has been unsatisfying and static for way too long. This adventure, undertaken for recreation, has proven life-changing, a real awakening. Four days of joy with a fabulous young woman has made me realize that stability and security without pleasure and fulfillment is not worth the cost, in real human terms.

Regnad,

I do not think San Fran had anything to do with your awakening. As you stated, it has been building up for a while. Gia is an amazing young lady from the way you describe her but be careful when you say "stability and security without pleasure and fulfillment is not worth the cost, in real human terms."

I think stability and security are undervalued. It's not enough for true fulfillment but you need to be careful because you may never find what you experienced with Gia in a new partner. Gia invigorates you, makes you feel young and alive but she will never love you the way a true committed partner will love you. None of us know how SPs would be as wives; the grass is always greener on the other side but most of the time, we end up disillusioned.

GG

 

[General Gonad]

As far as the value of the love of a true committed partner, you are absolutely right. I think that, as well, is a memory.

Regnad,

I am sorry to hear that. Then you know what you need to do but it isn't going to be easy. I think you need to take the steps to move on with your lives.

GG

 

[General Gonad]

I might add, General, that this is not a unilateral decision on my part. It's pretty much a joint conclusion. And I think we're both smart and mature enough to part without rancor, despite the accumulated anger and disappointment.

All the better my friend but it's not worth harboring anger and resentment in life. I see so many miserable men and women that never fogive or forget their ex-spouses....all for what? "Oh, she or he crippled me emotionally!" Well, f_ck em and move on for pete's sake. Life is way too short to sulk for years.

Sorry, but that is a pet peeve of mine - people who sulk for way too long after a breakup.

GG

 

[chef]

Opinions

As much as I have flirted with the idea of visiting an SP, I have never done so, or had any affairs.....really (stupidly?) faithful despite everything, UNLESS spending time at places like Cleo's is still considered being unfaithful...opinions ?

 

[Hornee]

My wife wants to make Sex an Olympic sport...to be held every 4 years!!

 

[chef]

Faithful or unfaithful depends on what is faithful or infaithful in your own couple. Esay testing: does your wife or gilrsfriend knows and accepts the fact that you go to a strip joint? Would SHE see it as unfaithful?


JNJ

Good point - everything is relative.

 

[suikoden_45]

My wife wants to make Sex an Olympic sport...to be held every 4 years!!

maybe she will qualify for the winter games and be the ice princess.

I empathize with the men in this thread. Its one of the biggest catch 22's in life, its like buying a steakhouse but never being able to dine-in. Check this out.... http://www.husbandonstrike.com/ this about a guy in Michigan whose going on strike cuz his life doesn't spend enough "quality time" with him. Poor chap.

 

[chef]

Why do married men die younger ????


Because they WANT to !

 

[General Gonad]

Momentum is with me

Guys,

I might get laid from my wife again tonight (I got it this morning)....and I don't have to (literally) pay for it!Yipee!

GG

 

[General Gonad]

gg -a buddie of minetold me last time he got it from his wife
he went outside bare balls naked
and his wife yelled what the hell are you doing?
his answer
i must be at the wrong address!
he even told me he came home one day and she was on the end of the bed sewing it up with a needle and thread.

Olie,

I love your twisted sense of humor! At least I never thought of cutting mine off!


Seriously, twice in one day...it must be summer time!!!

GG

 

[General Gonad]

Obviously, you must be trasmitting the right kind of pheromones. Enjoy, laugh, love, and learn.

Pheromones? I think she got the hint with my permanent stiff!

 

[chef]

Pheromones? I think she got the hint with my permanent stiff!

Time to change your handle to "Priapus" ???

 

[naughtylady]

Some interestins statistics

compiled from Macleans/CTV polls from 1994

Regional Variations in Sexual Behaviours

Average Frequency of Sex per Month:
Nfld/..../PEI/..../NS/..../NB/..../Que/..../Ont/..../Man/..../Sask/..../Alta/..../BC/
10/...../8,0/..../6,4/.../5,9/..../8,0/...../6,4/...../6.6/.... /5.4/....../7.6/..../6.9/


I will let you guys make your own inferences...

Ronnie,
Naughtylady