How to date an Escort

[starry]

Its pretty much common sense advice, not rocket science. The business is pretty uneven in its offerings. TBH there is some very substandard service out there on the one hand and some rare and really remarkably skilled SPs on the other. The ones that really blow me away (no pun intended) are those who have the unmistakable aura of simplicity, personal modesty and goodness. Sometimes it takes a little time to notice those qualities because accurate "fact checking" is such that the most genuine and reliable clues and indicators are often observed only in the most casual, unplanned, unprompted and ordinary exchanges.
When you find a SP like that you are very lucky and she is deserving of nothing less than the very best in you and that will enhance your shared experience.
As for dating an SP (as opposed to arranging a date with one), that is not impossible but for sure its a very tough row to hoe (again no pun intended lol). You have to realize that if indeed she is that remarkable you are surely not the only guy who has noticed and other clients certainly appreciate the person she is as much as you do. Her service is her profession after all. You have to resist the temptation of selfishly making the experience only about you, even and especially if you are naturally wired alpha. Enjoy what she has generously made available of herself to you and respect her space. Then go about your business with the smile she has put on your face.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Weird question, you are on merb, pick a SP either incall or outcall, set a date and meet the person. Unless you meet an under aged or drug riddled escort all should be safe.
Damn, I could rival Dear Abby with my quality output.

 

[Valdo]

In the same spirit as OP, I liked the following article:

How to Be an Escort's Favorite Client
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-an-Escort%27s-Favorite-Client

 

[Question]

Dating escort tips

I was wondering has anyone dated an escort before ? What to do? I waa probably going to go on a date with a escort, but before saying yes to her was wondering if any of u guys had experience with that before? I wont say her name its confiddntial.

 

[curly]

On a date, she's a normal girl. Forget she's an escort, treat her like a woman. Don't be pushy for sex or intimacy, be your best self and go with the flow and it will all be fine.

 

[exnocomment]

Generally treating people like they’re people is good advice.


Reminds me of a George R Martin quote:
“How do you write your female characters like they’re so real?”
“Well, I consider women as people.”

 

[Valcazar]

What exnocomment and curly said.

You met a nice person and are on a date. Be a good date.

Hope it goes well.

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

Same here . Treat her like s beautiful woman and not a sex object.
In my younger years I dated a few strippers and they don’t really want to be put on a pedestal or be reminded of their current occupation.
Treat her like a friend you want to hang out with . Somebody yiu find interesting to listen and talk to .
And always be a good host and date .

 

[jalimon]

Hey ben tu l’as traite comme n’importe quel autre fille car elles sont aucunement différentes des autres.

Au début c’est les papillons et la folie. Le sexe battra tout ce que tu as pus avoir car tu paye pas haha

Ca dure 7-8 mois a 1 ans. Puis tu vas voir un moment donner toute ses phrases vont commencer avec un mot qui finis en “ent”

“franchement t’as pas d’allure!”
“visiblement t’as rien compris!”
“pareillement m’as sortir avec mes chums de fille a soir!”
“terriblement decu de tes enfantillages..”

Bref l’as seras le moment ou tu dois te demander si tu es avec la bonne

 

[Flyingby]

Like any superficial girl. Make sure you have deep pockets
What kind of car does she have. That will tell you a lot

 

[curly]

Like any superficial girl. Make sure you have deep pockets
What kind of car does she have. That will tell you a lot

That she is superficial because she does escorting is is a pop stereotype, like saying all blondes are dumb. I dated an escort for over two years and she's still one of my very best friend. Over the years I've met socially some of her escort friends also. And it really depends on each girl. Some of them are really sweet while some others are real princesses... What they have in common is to be open minded sexually.

 

[hungry101]

Just like there are all types of men that see escort there are all types of escorts. If it were just about sex I would say keep it professional. If you have really good chemistry and you can see yourself spending time with her outside the bedroom than why not? Just like the commercial for the matchmaking company of the same name "It's just lunch." Why not?
If you can see yourself out in public with this person and not be embarrassed by it or feel out of place, than why not? I know that this is fairly typical in places like Brazil. Escorts there can become girlfriends and then wives. If you don't believe me ask guys like Protagorus or WHoAreYou and ABG. Seems to me that some of these arrangements work out. So...if you both love hockey, fine dining, playing a round of golf and catching a movie together, why would you let something like her profession stop you?

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Just me but I could never date an escort unless she left the business. Old fashioned I guess, would not want to know how her day at work was.

 

[kkrack]

I dated one for 3 years. My only condition was that she leave the business. We lived together until we realized we weren't made for each other.

 

[Bred Sob]

We lived together until we realized we weren't made for each other.

If you don't mind me asking, how do you keep up with a woman who is used to fucking half a dozen guys on any given day? It may sound like fun when you are in your teens / early twenties, but what happens after that?

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

@ Bred Sob
Your monthly VIAGRA bill goes up considerably

 

[kkrack]

If you don't mind me asking, how do you keep up with a woman who is used to fucking half a dozen guys on any given day? It may sound like fun when you are in your teens / early twenties, but what happens after that?

I think a promiscuous woman tries to fill a void. I was fun, moving all the time she fell in love and so did I. I never spoke to her about that and she never asked about the girls I saw before her. We also never talked about how we met.

 

[Fradi]

If you don't mind me asking, how do you keep up with a woman who is used to fucking half a dozen guys on any given day? It may sound like fun when you are in your teens / early twenties, but what happens after that?

Simple try to be the one she actually enjoys fucking.

 

[hungry101]

If you don't mind me asking, how do you keep up with a woman who is used to fucking half a dozen guys on any given day? It may sound like fun when you are in your teens / early twenties, but what happens after that?

Just like a girl I met in Toronto last Spring. I told her the following:

Me: "I wish I had an extra million dollars. I'd make you mine."

Escort: "Are you sure? I have to be fucked a lot."

Me: "OK. Put me down for Tuesdays and Saturdays."

 

[Bred Sob]

Simple try to be the one she actually enjoys fucking.

Sure, the quality is crucial, no question, but what about the quantity?