How to increase the likelihood of getting a good, if not great, encounter...

[Regular Guy]

Affection

That is teasing to me... make me just want to force you to f*ck me - do you know what I mean?

The stuff we did as teenagers, before "sex" was okay? It is hard to explain, but I can say that a groping, kissing and grinding session, makes me as horny as hell! Especially with most of our clothes on. That is teasing... of course, there are many other ways, and each girl is different, but for me, and many women, this takes the cake!

At the risk of stating the obvious, Anik, not all sp's allow such advances. I personally love cuddling, nuzzling, just breathing her in, and so on. Some sp's don't allow kissing at all. I personally confine my quest to sp's who love this kind of "sweet" exchange. Granted, chemistry isn't always there for that kind of "meeting of the souls". It takes a degree of maturity, and the ability to be sensuous varies in both men and women. The key, I believe, is to find the best fit. I still consider myself a newbie but for me this determines repeats. I respect the need for some sp's to keep some part of themselves apart (perhaps to maintain their sanity) but finding the right fit and genuineness is like finding pure gold. I don't think I am revealing any great new truths here. GG has made this point on several occasions as have others. So with these qualifiers in mind, I totally agree with you, actually more than agree with you. Perhaps this is the one true key to any great encounter. And if you will allow me, makes you and the others who feel the way you do, the ideal in sp'ing from my point of view.

but not all men are looking for a sweetheart...

I think that a good attitude comes from a lady being able to relax and enjoy herself - very likely, she is like that all the time, not just in sessions. All the ladies mentioned as girls with great attitudes are like that - Naughty lady, Sam, etc... they all have super attitudes in life, in general

xoxox
Anik

This I also understand and a good attitude makes for a good encounter. Chemistry as well makes for a great one.

 

[breadman]

Never Tip

I never tip unless a girl basically tries to force one out of me. Its always the correct amount unless i dont have exact change...then i wont bother asking for the 5 or 10 bucks back.

Ive seen a good number of escorts and have never had a problem with the no tipping policy. Basically tipping is for fools who think the extra will get them just that...extra's.

You enjoyed your time with the girl, book her again so she knows you had a good time. Ive done this several times. When they are told the hotel and the room number to go to...and they saw someone there the day or two before...they usually know who the person calling for them is.

Had some really great second and third bookings (in the same week)...no tipping was ever required to get the extra services.

 

[General Gonad]

Tipping is up to your discretion

I never tip unless a girl basically tries to force one out of me. Its always the correct amount unless i dont have exact change...then i wont bother asking for the 5 or 10 bucks back.

Ive seen a good number of escorts and have never had a problem with the no tipping policy. Basically tipping is for fools who think the extra will get them just that...extra's.

Tipping is highly personal and has nothing to do with extras. I still believe in tipping after I received a great service from an agency lady. As I stated above, my tipping policy has changed for high priced indies. I basically feel that their tips are included in their rates.

GG

 

[nacho]

Tipping

Some Great Tips here gents and Anik. Personally I hate talking about money and tips during the session. It is a severe turnoff for me. After the cost of the session is settled, usually by e-mail or phone and the fee is in plain sight when she walks in I don't want to hear about it again. Case in point, I had a lady in Lansing this week who suggested a tip when she replied to my e-mail, when I talked to her on the phone arranging the date (even after she raised her fee) and when she picked up the cash before we got started and even once about another clients tips during the foreplay. She finished me off well, but left early without a tip. Every body already gave my suggestions especially one that if I had learned as a younger man I would have done a lot better when I was young single and stupid....... chocolate. cheers all nacho

 

[korbel]

Just trying...JuIcE_Y

Hello Juicy,

I love daty and it pleases me greatly. I hope it pleases the lady, but I have noticed it doesn't always. I often start by asking the lady what she likes. Most of the time she won't say or she just responds with..."whatever you want". How is a guy to find out if the ladies will not respond to the question. You said some don't know. I am sure most do.

So you like a drinking guy who has some porn playing and you enjoy the "dirtiness" of it. WELL...where have you been all of my life...lol. Seriously, You just contradicted most of the rules proposed on this board and many rules posted on agency websites. So you must be a rarity.

When I meet a lady I am trying to make things as comfortable and exciting as I can. But I never believe any of these efforts will go anywhere beyond the bounds of the meeting, unlike some who actually thought they had a girlfriend SP. In the end, though I am trying to do things as respectfully and comfortably as I can...it is still just money for sex...except very, very rarely. All these efforts are great and they make the meeting far more enjoyable. But it is still bye bye when the time is up. So will go far out of your way to make the lady happy really change what ultimately happens during and after the meeting in the end???

Regards,

Korbel

 

[BobKnob]

SP advice

Originally Posted by Just-ass-weet
3) DON'T just focus on trying to get her off... much better to just focus on creating passion, and on exciting one another.

Anik:

Mmmm. Good point, but how do you "create passion" in so short a time?
I always try for 2 hours cuz I need time to 1) find the right chemistry
2) make her relax 3) make me relax 4) have more fun.
I guess you are saying that this is all about playtime, so relax, tease, excite and play with your SP?
Mature adults behaving like adolescents?
Nice to get the SP perspective.
BK

 

[jackyo8193]

On tipping

Though I indulge in Montreal every now and then its to fill in time between my trips to Germany.

There pricing is considered all inclusive. Germans aren't known to tip as their pricing for meals, etc.. are all inclusive. Same goes for their purchases of services.

Tourists who visit though tend to upset the apple cart by insisting on tipping.

This is not a good idea.

If you are happy with her services, the advice given is to book extra time with her or do multiple sessions. This shows you are happy with her and enjoy her company.

It also maintains the integrity of the pricing situation.