I wouldn't suggest this, as you'll meet the SP smelling of alcohol.
I am thinking of getting a SP to help me last longer ? Practice makes perfect right?!
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I wouldn't suggest this, as you'll meet the SP smelling of alcohol.
How long are you hoping to last?
5 minutes is pretty average, not problematic or short. 30min is not going to get you a lot of female fans out there... Lol Just saying. Sure, increase but stay realistic and don't go nuts either. There are a lot of other things to do outside of FS.
5 minutes is pretty average, not problematic or short. 30min is not going to get you a lot of female fans out there... Lol Just saying. Sure, increase but stay realistic and don't go nuts either. There are a lot of other things to do outside of FS.
Well I found the perfect escort for me, most sp's want to finish me within the first few minutes, well I found a gnd type who really likes sex, the first time I took 30 min. and she kept me there about 60 min.
she would prolong my climax because she was enjoying it too much, man this woman can climax like a dozen times. I've been seeing her for 6 years and during the pandemic we were only seeing each other
because she did not want to get covid because she has a young son. Now she literally keeps me hard in her for an hour no complaints, she squirts and climaxes like a nymphomaniac, wait she is a nymphomaniac, please don't ask
because I might just end up marrying her!
she would prolong my climax because she was enjoying it too much, man this woman can climax like a dozen times. I've been seeing her for 6 years and during the pandemic we were only seeing each other
because she did not want to get covid because she has a young son. Now she literally keeps me hard in her for an hour no complaints, she squirts and climaxes like a nymphomaniac, wait she is a nymphomaniac, please don't ask
because I might just end up marrying her!
I would also ask why OP wants to last longer. Like, is it for himself because he finds he doesn't get to enjoy himself long enough? Is it because he thinks he's "supposed to" last longer? Is it because he thinks that's how his sexual skills or performance are judged on? If so, by whom? By women or other men?
Actually it's not really that hard. It just takes paying attention and being willing to try different things to find out what your partner likes. Basically the same thing as for men. 2 people aren't alike so there is no 1 formula or script. If you expect there to be one, then yes I suppose that might lead to believe that women are difficult and hard to please.
Men would be difficult to please if women tried to please them based on what feels good to women.
Or if we assumed every man liked the same thing, was turned on by the same things and had the same level of sensitivity in their genitalia.
Honestly, based on the fact that we're all conditioned (ie not putting all the blame on men here) to view heterosexual sex in very male centered perspective, it's rather unfair to complain about women being hard to please. Like duh. Let's have sex based on what feels good to me only and primarily, then tell me how satisfied you are. Trust me, men would not make it. Lol
Sex should last a Lionel Richie (all night long)
Pornography would lead us to believe sex should last for a long time, but that's just not true, says Ms McKimmie.
"A lot of men are really worried about their performance; I even had a man once tell me had premature ejaculation, but he was lasting about 15 minutes.
"His benchmark was seeing pornography and that is really not what women want a lot of the time — our bodies are not designed for it.
Studies show different results but this regularly cited research found the average time for "intravaginal ejaculation" is 5.4 minutes.
Dr Newman says long sex can be particularly problematic for women.
"Especially if they have orgasmed first or lose interest, it becomes more uncomfortable as time goes on. The vaginal lubrication dries up and the vagina opening is no longer wide open."
Actually it's not really that hard. It just takes paying attention and being willing to try different things to find out what your partner likes. Basically the same thing as for men. 2 people aren't alike so there is no 1 formula or script. If you expect there to be one, then yes I suppose that might lead to believe that women are difficult and hard to please.
Men would be difficult to please if women tried to please them based on what feels good to women.
Or if we assumed every man liked the same thing, was turned on by the same things and had the same level of sensitivity in their genitalia.Honestly, based on the fact that we're all conditioned (ie not putting all the blame on men here) to view heterosexual sex in very male centered perspective, it's rather unfair to complain about women being hard to please. Like duh. Let's have sex based on what feels good to me only and primarily, then tell me how satisfied you are. Trust me, men would not make it. Lol
Sex should last a Lionel Richie (all night long)
Pornography would lead us to believe sex should last for a long time, but that's just not true, says Ms McKimmie.
"A lot of men are really worried about their performance; I even had a man once tell me had premature ejaculation, but he was lasting about 15 minutes.
"His benchmark was seeing pornography and that is really not what women want a lot of the time — our bodies are not designed for it.
Studies show different results but this regularly cited research found the average time for "intravaginal ejaculation" is 5.4 minutes.
Dr Newman says long sex can be particularly problematic for women.
"Especially if they have orgasmed first or lose interest, it becomes more uncomfortable as time goes on. The vaginal lubrication dries up and the vagina opening is no longer wide open."
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Yes, you got "lucky", as most women do not experience orgasm from intercourse alone (that's not to say it's not enjoyable, or that orgasm is always necessary for the sexual experience to be pleasurable).
Some interesting stats IMO:
- 81.6% of women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone (without additional clit stimulation). Only 18.4% of women report that intercourse alone is sufficient to orgasm.
- Women take an average of 14 minutes during partnered sex to orgasm – an average of 8 minutes during masturbation.
- Only 25% of women always have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse (with clitoral stimulation unspecified).
- 30% of women rarely or never orgasm during vaginal intercourse.
- But women orgasm during vaginal intercourse 51-60% of the time with simultaneous clit stimulation.
- For heterosexual women, their partner’s knowledge and enjoyment of their vibrator use is a huge predictor of sexual satisfaction
- 92.4% of women are able to orgasm from masturbation.
And gentlemen, this is why MSOG is not realistic in many cases!!
- Less than 10% of men in their 20s are multiply-orgasmic.
- Less than 7% of men over 30 are multiply-orgasmic.
I think a lot of guys are getting off by the thought of a girl remembering them as THAT guy who fucked them all night to the point where they were completely sore.
I used to be like that.
However, sex for me now is about something different and much more about an intimate connection. These days I will only do this if a girl wants me to. I will admit that it can be a lot of fun every once in a while. Keep in mind that the vast majority of civilian girls have never experienced a non-stop hardcore pounding. And they're also watching porn, wondering what it's like to be fucked like that. I met several girls who just wanted to have that experience at least once in their life. But this is a completely different situation to an SP who is a professional, which is why I wrote this above and would advise against hiring an SP for this purpose.
SP's are not fundamentally anatomically different than non Sp's. You will not find many non sp women who are thrilled about 30-60min of intercourse. Do they exist? I'm sure they do but they're a tiny percentage and part of those are just not comfortable being honest about not finding it enjoyable because they think they're "supposed to".
I'd say we'd be doing ourselves a favor by not taking Porn as a realistic model for sex. Like, we need to stop that. Porn is not real!!! Lol
(was writing my reply at the same time you were posting above comment, so I had not seen it yet, just to clarify lol)
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It’s 100% because I don’t get to enjoy it as long and it’s never enough :/I would also ask why OP wants to last longer. Like, is it for himself because he finds he doesn't get to enjoy himself long enough? Is it because he thinks he's "supposed to" last longer? Is it because he thinks that's how his sexual skills or performance are judged on? If so, by whom? By women or other men?
Actually it's not really that hard. It just takes paying attention and being willing to try different things to find out what your partner likes. Basically the same thing as for men. 2 people aren't alike so there is no 1 formula or script. If you expect there to be one, then yes I suppose that might lead to believe that women are difficult and hard to please.
Men would be difficult to please if women tried to please them based on what feels good to women.
Honestly, based on the fact that we're all conditioned (ie not putting all the blame on men here) to view heterosexual sex in very male centered perspective, it's rather unfair to complain about women being hard to please. Like duh. Let's have sex based on what feels good to me only and primarily, then tell me how satisfied you are. Trust me, men would not make it. Lol
Sex should last a Lionel Richie (all night long)
Pornography would lead us to believe sex should last for a long time, but that's just not true, says Ms McKimmie.
"A lot of men are really worried about their performance; I even had a man once tell me had premature ejaculation, but he was lasting about 15 minutes.
"His benchmark was seeing pornography and that is really not what women want a lot of the time — our bodies are not designed for it.
Studies show different results but this regularly cited research found the average time for "intravaginal ejaculation" is 5.4 minutes.
Dr Newman says long sex can be particularly problematic for women.
"Especially if they have orgasmed first or lose interest, it becomes more uncomfortable as time goes on. The vaginal lubrication dries up and the vagina opening is no longer wide open."
Well that's easy, do other things that make your pleasure last longer. Penetrative sex isn't the be-all-end-all. Also, men tend to last longer when they get more comfortable with their partner.
So I'd say that seeing the same person is a good idea but I don't think going into it with the goal of "learning" to last longer is particularly helpful.
And don't go overboard because even non sp women may not find the experience that great if all they remember is being pounded for 30min. They might be "busy" next time you call. My opinion.
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I actually have this issue that I last way too long and it's not that fun tbh. My ex sure liked it though.
Those stats are really throwing me off haha. 3-7minutes? Damn.
Those stats are really throwing me off haha. 3-7minutes? Damn.
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I generally dont last long, 2-3 mins most times. Every now and then i can go for longer but depends my arousal and when was last time i had sex. I just own it, you will be hard pressed to find an escort that will complain that you nutted too quick.
Alternatively, many providers offer QVs (as 15 mins or under). I have clients that are in and out of my apt in 8-10 mins, that's all they want! Nothing wrong with that.
If one decides to go this route, careful consideration must be taken as taking SSRIs is rabbit hole that should be avoided whenever possible.
Additionally, the SP will definitely not appreciate being used as a piece of meat and can be very unpleasant for them.
For me, giving a lady pleasure keeps me hard, all while i have my face buried in the muff(non existent today) i am rock hard. Its just such a big turn on for me to see the ladies have their fun. The more she squirms, the harder i get. That's my orgasm, i can honestly stop there. Cause as soon as the single digit glove comes out, i can only see disappointment.
I guest I m lucky with condoms I can go for a longer time and I pace myself with different pace I could go 45 mins if I m horny and we both have pleasure
Wait until you get older as I am, lol it will take you a long time have one lol and also you get tired very fast. So no stress even better if you last only 30 to 1 min max then you can go for multiple MSOG in one hour. Awesome!
as I need a good hour to go a 2nd round
Here’s my suggestion that I find has helped me
If you’re planning to have sex that day.
Masterbate 2 times or at least once before.
when it all starts,
Lots of foreplay, I would suggest focusing on her for a while. Caress her body, taste her
Have fun getting her off.
while penetration, here are some of the mistakes that will lead to ejaculating before you want to.
Doggie, if you’re grabbing her ass and looking down at the same time + a mirror.
+ boob grabbing.
All this at the same time is too much to for any man to handle.
CG - her excessive grinding while you grabbing and squeezing her ass.
+looking at a mirror
Mis- she wraps her legs around and locks your ankles this is a woman who knows how to f__k.
don’t try to be Superman,
the combination of visual, her scent, touch, kissing and dirty talk all at the same time will lead to a quicker than desired finish.
don’t forget the difference is she can get off over and over again.
the creation of the woman’s body is truly a work of art!
Here’s my suggestion that I find has helped me
If you’re planning to have sex that day.
Masterbate 2 times or at least once before.
when it all starts,
Lots of foreplay, I would suggest focusing on her for a while. Caress her body, taste her
Have fun getting her off.
while penetration, here are some of the mistakes that will lead to ejaculating before you want to.
Doggie, if you’re grabbing her ass and looking down at the same time + a mirror.
+ boob grabbing.
All this at the same time is too much to for any man to handle.
CG - her excessive grinding while you grabbing and squeezing her ass.
+looking at a mirror
Mis- she wraps her legs around and locks your ankles this is a woman who knows how to f__k.
don’t try to be Superman,
the combination of visual, her scent, touch, kissing and dirty talk all at the same time will lead to a quicker than desired finish.
don’t forget the difference is she can get off over and over again.
the creation of the woman’s body is truly a work of art!
Have you tried indica gummies? I have had good luck with them in the past, about 20mg should do the trick.
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