Incall Appointment Etiquette

[TomH]

I'm a newbie here, but have learned a ton of great information from reading this forum. However there is one area that I've found conflicting information.

For an incall appointment after the shower should you:

1. Come out wrapped in the towel only
2. Put your underwear back on and come out like that
3. Put some/all of your clothes back on and undressing becomes part of the experience

I've seen all 3 options mentioned, along with some posts refuting options #2/#3 and saying they may result in the SP asking you to shower again.

Can anyone offer some clarity?

Thanks

 

[Gazoo64]

After the shower, I come out wrapped in the towel only. I think that’s what most guys do, as I understand!
Good luck!

 

[iONiX]

I've done all three options.

I usually aim to be as dressed/naked as the SP I am seeing when she greeted me.

Never had a SP ask me to shower again if I put back my regular clothes back on (but I dress well and smell good)

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Hello and welcome to MERB. Thank you for your inquiry’s, they are appreciated. In response to your query, I believe that your attire when exiting the shower is not a significant factor when you are paying for the hour. Personally, I typically come out wearing my underwear. The request for clients to shower is likely due to the service provider offering a GFE service and a second service, and wanting to maintain a level of intimacy without encountering bodily fluids from previous interaction.

 

[PAINFULDAYS]

for me It depends...
if i'm just off work, arriving onsite, i will take a shower, and try not to put back my clothes,
but always a towel on.
especially if the bathroom is quite far from the bedroom

 

[MCTJ]

I have occasionnaly seen SPs post on Twitter that they do not like to see clients with underwear after the shower because the underwear they put back on is presumably dirty (to some extent...). Hence, I always enter the room with a towel only, even if it is less comfortable/appealing (another reason why I prefer outcalls)

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

After the shower, I come out wrapped in the towel only. I think that’s what most guys do, as I understand!
Good luck!

That’s what most providers want! They don’t know what you did on your way there, putting back your underwear would absolutely feel gross to them. And if you have to take a leak do it before your shower, that one is good for boys AND girls!

 

[Julia Sky]

And if you have to take a leak do it before your shower, that one is good for boys AND girls!

Thank you for mentioning this! There's nothing sexy about unexpectedly tasting someone's urine.

Another thing I would point out is PLEASE rinse properly - I recently had soap in my mouth... Not pleasant. Also do not use perfume in this area, for the love of god. If you wanna smell extra good, lotion on your inner thighs or lower belly is a better option than straight up spraying your dick with perfume!

 

[ThunderLipps]

Pretty sure a majority of escorts do not shower when they arrive for first appointment at incalls.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Pretty sure a majority of escorts do not shower when they arrive for first appointment at incalls.

I never happened to get a not freshly showered girl at incall but I did not see hundreds of them.

 

[ThunderLipps]

I never happened to get a not freshly showered girl at incall but I did not see hundreds of them.

I am referring to first appointment only, I have seen some who were still wearing their street shoes or wearing a sweater, pretty sure they never put them on again after a shower.

 

[hob12]

Stay in the towel only after the shower. Your underpants might be the cleanest ever, but the SP does not know that for sure. Makes little sense to clean up, then put them back on again.

I screwed up on that on my first appointment, felt kinda dumb coming out naked but it is how it works.

 

[LC18]

1. Put your underwear back on and come out like that
2. Put some/all of your clothes back on and undressing becomes part of the experience

Kind of defeats the purpose of the shower no?

Especially if you came in all sweaty.


I don’t know about other incalls but we provide robes or if they don’t fit, you can just keep a towel on your hips. If you want, you can come out fully naked and scream “surprise!”

 

[TomH]

Thank you everyone for the advice! Sounds like towel is the way to go

 

[LC18]

Pretty sure a majority of escorts do not shower when they arrive for first appointment at incalls.

I always do because I walk and I walk fast. I shower before I leave my place and then I quickly shower when I arrive at my incall, then I set it up for my appointment.

I expect clients to do the same, a proper shower at home and just freshening up at my incall.

“I’ve already showered at home.”
It might be true but since I wasn’t there, there’s no way for me to know it’s true.

“These are clean clothes.”
It might be true but since I can’t confirm, don’t put them back on. My robes are comfortable and they still provide the “undressing/slow reveal” factor.

 

[ThunderLipps]

“These are clean clothes.”
It might be true but since I can’t confirm, don’t put them back on. My robes are comfortable and they still provide the “undressing/slow reveal” factor.

I have only seen a robe at one incall location and that was an indy. Are there actually people who do not put on clean underwear every morning? Rhetorical question.
I shower but always put my boxers back on since they are clean and only on for 1.5 hrs and probably never even farted yet.
Since reading these posts will switch to towels to please people, never had an escort mention it in the past though and have seen many.

 

[LC18]

Since reading these posts will switch to towels to please people, never had an escort mention it in the past though and have seen many.

We usually don’t because we are not trying to get yelled at or worse.

For those that provide references though I believe this can affect whether you’ll be positively referenced or not.

“Client isn’t dangerous but he put his dirty underwear back on after he showered”

 

[bodick7]

We usually don’t because we are not trying to get yelled at or worse.

Are there any yelling client?
They must be mood killers...

 

[DJ big daddy]

Pretty sure a majority of escorts do not shower when they arrive for first appointment at incalls.

I like to be the first most of the time and I find the girls at the Agencies always running for the first appointment but dont have time to properly shower, but if the girl come straight home and drive 30 to 35min its not really an issue for me.

I can recall one time her private part was a little bit sweaty and the usual taste but as a daty lover, I spent less time downtown and let her please me more bbbj.


I usually went in with towel and fully erect, cuz most of the time when the date start the dfk at the door and small chit chat on couch following dfk again, while in the shower I have flash back and playout the scène on my head. Loll
Am I the on the one?

Go in with towels my man

 

[ThunderLipps]

For those that provide references though I believe this can affect whether you’ll be positively referenced or not.

When someone asks for a reference the conversation stops and I move on.