It's your money. Do with it what you please. I sure hope you pay yourself first because the profession you chose is like the NFL. Not-For-Long and you can be sidelined for a multitude of reasons and I don't think the AFLAC duck is going to pay you to sit home because you have a rash or a cold (I could be wrong). I certainly will not see a girl if I find out I'm supporting a drug habit. I will not enable this.
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It's your money. Do with it what you please. I sure hope you pay yourself first because the profession you chose is like the NFL. Not-For-Long and you can be sidelined for a multitude of reasons and I don't think the AFLAC duck is going to pay you to sit home because you have a rash or a cold (I could be wrong). I certainly will not see a girl if I find out I'm supporting a drug habit. I will not enable this.
Yes, I second this. And I mean, it’s not like spending money on escorts was the smartest investment ever either, so who are they to care about other people’s wallets hahah
A dude: Girls really should spend on intelligent things
The same dude: *spends money on a bad blowjob then proceeds to write a bad review*
^^^^^^
Sorry Julia ( and Rosie) I think you both kind of misinterpreted this.
I think most of us, I certainly admire the young ladies who have a plan and are financially wise and can make this lifestyle benefit them in every way possible.
There is nothing better than to see a gorgeous woman who is smart enough to create a lifestyle that can be envied by anyone all on her own.
There are many like that in this profession and I think most of us are more than happy to see that happening.
It is not about wanting to know what you spend on or even how you spend it, it is just nice and gratifying to know that when we spend our money it is going to someone who will know how to use it, other than that you ladies certainly earn it, so it is up to you what you do with it like everybody else that works for a living.
btw for me it was probably the smartest thing I did seeing escorts and especially the ones that I have been seeing.
Sorry Julia ( and Rosie) I think you both kind of misinterpreted this.
I think most of us, I certainly admire the young ladies who have a plan and are financially wise and can make this lifestyle benefit them in every way possible.
There is nothing better than to see a gorgeous woman who is smart enough to create a lifestyle that can be envied by anyone all on her own.
There are many like that in this profession and I think most of us are more than happy to see that happening.
It is not about wanting to know what you spend on or even how you spend it, it is just nice and gratifying to know that when we spend our money it is going to someone who will know how to use it, other than that you ladies certainly earn it, so it is up to you what you do with it like everybody else that works for a living.
btw for me it was probably the smartest thing I did seeing escorts and especially the ones that I have been seeing.
Haha touché!!
Ho well at least us dude we have an excuse because our brains has been high jack by our penis... Not our fault!
I think seeing escorts is a good way to spend money. I did hire two girls until now for my personal care (threesome with the bf and a massage). I think intimacy is wonderful and everyone should have access to it. I just want everyone to respect eachother's choices and agency to choose what they do with their finances. But I do get the point that it can be heart breaking to see someone you like and spend intimacy with making self destructive decisions. I think this public board is not a good place to vent about it as you never know who will read and be hurt by the words! Hey peeps: Have a wonderful jolly holliday time by the way! I wish you all receive money and don't go into debt for your christmas presents. But I will respect you for doing it if that's important to you!
Hey peeps: Have a wonderful jolly holliday time by the way! I wish you all receive money and don't go into debt for your christmas presents. But I will respect you for doing it if that's important to you! 
I don't think that rates have anything to do with ''being open minded and comfortable with what you're doing'' and everything to do with what you feel comfortable charging based on volume, time and experience. For example, when I charged 250$/h, I had so many emails and requests that I kept on refusing appointments and was booked weeks ahead of time. With a regular clientele secured and a good volume of inquiries, I felt confident in raising my rates at 300$/h. When this happens again, I will raise them once more and so on. It's all about getting the number of appointments you desire while guaranteeing the same standard of experience to each client.
^^^ Marketing 101 - Sell out, Sell up. Do you grandfather in your old customers? Maybe you'd rather not answer this? Interesting, I just had an appointment with a girl that I had previously sessioned with twice in the past for 200$/hour. Her price is now $400 USD/hour. Anyway, she cut me a small discount. I appreciated it.
I grandfather(ed) the clients who see me on a monthly basis minimum, but not those who saw me once or twice for example.
You say this like you think expensive lawyers hate their jobs or a Michelin star restaurant owner hates restauration lmfao
I know it's crazy to think that one can love what they do and get paid a lot for it.......
So I should consider my self lucky I guess, eh Rose? Thing is, the girl in question was worth the old fee but probably not the new fee, even with the discount.
It is good you love what you do. We all have to pay the rent. You may as well love it too. I am starting to tire of certain aspect of my job. I stick with it for now because it affords me the means from time to time to see escorts. Certain aspects are great. Soon I will be done...but I digress. When an escort tires of her job, it is best to find another.
I would definitely consider yourself lucky ❤️ I agree with always doing what you love! If it’s not your job then at least make sure you have a hobby to be passionate about. Regarding escorts, it’s hard to go all black or all white. Yes you should stop when you don’t love it anymore but some unfortunately have to do it for many different reasons and “loving it” isn’t part of the equation. However, for me, I invest and buy real estate so that I have the possibility to “get out” whenever I tire of it. I just don’t see that happening any time soon
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