Is “this” for rich people only?

[rudx]

I don't have friends, don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and I don't go to events or clubs. My day consists of working 16-18 hours and then visiting a provider. I do travel occasionally, but it's for work, not sightseeing. I currently meet with providers 2 to 4 times a week, not sure if that qualifies as "High volume client".

HAHAHA We are complete opposites. I have lots of friends, I drink, I smoke, I do lots of drugs & I'm a social butterfly.

However, I also work 72-80hrs a week self-employed. Travel for work & sightsee with the local SW or the woman I've meet from the night before at the bar. I also, see 2 to 4 SW/week.

It's just funny because we are the same, but different lol.

 

[MCTJ]

Je suis "tryst" que ça soit rendu si cher.

 

[CLOUD 500]

HAHAHA We are complete opposites. I have lots of friends, I drink, I smoke, I do lots of drugs & I'm a social butterfly.

However, I also work 72-80hrs a week self-employed. Travel for work & sightsee with the local SW or the woman I've meet from the night before at the bar. I also, see 2 to 4 SW/week.

It's just funny because we are the same, but different lol.

When do you sleep? Are you getting a full 8 hours of sleep every night? I do not work as many hours as you but between work and the amount of time I waste doing the groceries since post-covid, I got very little time to socialize. But I always take my full 8 hours of sleep, sleep before everything else for me.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Cloud man, you don't need to sleep and can work 72-80 hours a week when you take amphetamines. Dude said he did drugs, did you miss that? You never saw any World War II documentaries chronicling the German Blitzkrieg when all the German soldiers were given amohetamines as policy and fought days on end with no sleep? Its doable.

How Methamphetamine Became a Key Part of Nazi Military Strategy

World War II was not only the most destructive war in human history but also the most pharmacologically enhanced. It was literally sped up by speed

time.com

 

[CLOUD 500]

Cloud man, you don't need to sleep and can work 72-80 hours a week when you take amphetamines. Dude said he did drugs, did you miss that? You never saw any World War II documentaries chronicling the German Blitzkrieg when all the German soldiers were given amohetamines as policy and fought days on end with no sleep? Its doable.

How Methamphetamine Became a Key Part of Nazi Military Strategy

World War II was not only the most destructive war in human history but also the most pharmacologically enhanced. It was literally sped up by speed

time.com

No I missed it. RyanVsEverybody said he did but I did not read that rudx but I guess he must have also. You do make a good point, it is doable with amphetamines.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

No I missed it. RyanVsEverybody said he did but I did not read that rudx but I guess he must have also. You do make a good point, it is doable with amphetamines.

I never been one who needs 8 hours of sleep every night. And I can attest that, yeah, some drugs will keep you going for extended period of time.
Working for a public service company in the 80s, we were a bunch of young guys in our early 20s and we were offered to do double shifts almost every day. It didn’t take long for most of us to start using cocaine in order to be able to make as many hours as possible.

 

[rudx]

When do you sleep? Are you getting a full 8 hours of sleep every night? I do not work as many hours as you but between work and the amount of time I waste doing the groceries since post-covid, I got very little time to socialize. But I always take my full 8 hours of sleep, sleep before everything else for me.

I sleep between 3-5am or 3-7am. I get to the gym from 7-8/9. I don't need much sleep.

If for some reason, I have big contracts to fill in a timely manner. I will ease up a bit on the drugs & just drink coffee that week only so I can get more sleep. Tbh, yes the drugs keeps me running. I work because I enjoy it, I am unable to sit around & do nothing. I took 3 days off to act like a normal person & I was anxious.

 

[rudx]

Ha! Memories this brings back

I was in IB out of college for 2 years. burned out and went PE. Stayed for another 2 and quit the industry completely.

Hobbying was the least of the debauchery that happened. During my analyst days, it was worse than what Wolf of Wall Street depicted. 14 hour days, then most of us went to a club, dropped 10K on table service, coked up, and went back to the office. A lot of the other guys called escorts while they had the energy to get some release before heading back to the office.

I only participated in the drinking, but not the drugs/escorts til later on.

And yes, all of it was absolutely expensed.

And now I have given way too much detail about myself.

Problem with this... How are guys calling escorts after a full night of coke???
I'd be coked out going limp & keep on giving the girl more money to stay because I think I can get it up this time.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I sleep between 3-5am or 3-7am. I get to the gym from 7-8/9. I don't need much sleep.

If for some reason, I have big contracts to fill in a timely manner. I will ease up a bit on the drugs & just drink coffee that week only so I can get more sleep. Tbh, yes the drugs keeps me running. I work because I enjoy it, I am unable to sit around & do nothing. I took 3 days off to act like a normal person & I was anxious.

Wow okay. To each their own I guess. No way I can do that. I prefer a much slower paced lifestyle.

 

[S.S neo]

Well known song : J’fais de la poudre, pour travailler plus, pour faire plus d’argent, pour faire plus de poudre pour travailler plus, pour faire plus d’argent, pour faire plus de poudre pour travailler plus, pour faire plus d’argent, pour faire plus de poudre...

 

[T'storm]

To be in this lifestyle you need to have your priority straight. I'm in my late 50's and have been doing this for about 20 years now, it started slowly and at $120/hr then it was hard. Now that all my house payments are done and only have a car payment bi-monthly I can afford the $300+/hr once a month. I'm not rich but I'm not poor, you know what they say "Carpe Diem" seize the day.

 

[Marty087]

Is meeting a sex worker an activity reserved for rich people?

Do you feel like booking an escort is a luxury? I know it isn’t cheap as most people charge a lot more than minimum wage per hour yet we have clients from all backgrounds (more modest jobs and very well paid).


Can you afford your needs or do you need to save a little before finally being able to book someone?

Do you wish you had a bigger budget?

Do you wonder how other people afford to book multiple people every month?

I am asking all those questions because I am curious. Please stick to your own experience and do not mention anyone by their name. Sex workers are allowed to charge whatever they want.


For SW:

Do you consider yourself a luxury?

Of course it's a luxury, just think about it ! You book the girl of your dream and she does almost everything you want ! Unless you're a sicko.these girls deserve every penny they earn, it's not an easy job, clients are not always nice with them and not always freshly showered. For me i only book a girl every 6 or 8 weeks so it stays something I'm enjoying. Too much is like not enough.

 

[Marty087]

Je trouve que c’est maintenant du luxe de rencontrer une escorte, je dois contrôler mes pulsions sexuel sinon cela finirais par coûter cher $$. Une chance que j’ai encore quelques demoiselles que le prix est raisonnable, j’ai jamais payé plus de $200/Hr pour le moment. Quand je vois l’annonce et que c’est indiqué $350 - $400/Hr je n’essai pas de faire baisser le prix, si dans l’annonce il n’y a pas de prix et que la demoiselle est jolie je demande le prix si elle me dit $350 /Hr je répond merci sans plus, parfois elle va me demander à quelle heure tu viens me voir BB, alors là je répond c’est pas dans mon budget et il m’arrive de me faire répondre que je suis CHEAP, pardon je me lève à : 5 :30 tout les matins fait mes 40 hrs de travail et pour voir une demoiselle je devrais travailler 2 jours pour une rencontre de 1hr et je suis CHEAP, j’ai quand même un revenu qui me permet une gâterie de temps en temps mais les rencontres ont diminué.

Alors oui c’est maintenant du Luxe, il faut quand même mettre nos priorités à la bonne place, on a tous des paiements et des membres de la famille à aider (enfants).

Si je peux me permettre, le prix est en fonction du service et de la fille, essaie le une fois tu vas voir la différence.

 

[LC18]

Of course it's a luxury, just think about it ! You book the girl of your dream and she does almost everything you want ! Unless you're a sicko.these girls deserve every penny they earn, it's not an easy job, clients are not always nice with them and not always freshly showered. For me i only book a girl every 6 or 8 weeks so it stays something I'm enjoying. Too much is like not enough.

While I agree with what you said I’m trying to understand the correlation.

We do deserve the money we charge but is that the reason it’s a luxury?

 

[Ckhunter]

An interesting perspective change that happened to me after starting this hobby was that I no longer value expensive supercars (Ferraris, BMW, etc), unless you’re really into cars and that’s your thing.

Because let’s be honest, most of us want expensive car to increase our Sexual Market Value, but the end goal is to get laid or boost their ego. So why spend on car when I can direct that $ straight to the final goal.

And that’s how I save for part of this hobby.

 

[LookAlike]

An interesting perspective change that happened to me after starting this hobby was that I no longer value expensive supercars (Ferraris, BMW, etc), unless you’re really into cars and that’s your thing.

Because let’s be honest, most of us want expensive car to increase our Sexual Market Value, but the end goal is to get laid or boost their ego. So why spend on car when I can direct that $ straight to the final goal.

And that’s how I save for part of this hobby.

I do not understand your point of view. I am the owner of an amg Mercedes and I do not see nor feel what is has to do with my sexual market value.

 

[MCTJ]

An interesting perspective change that happened to me after starting this hobby was that I no longer value expensive supercars (Ferraris, BMW, etc), unless you’re really into cars and that’s your thing.

Because let’s be honest, most of us want expensive car to increase our Sexual Market Value, but the end goal is to get laid or boost their ego. So why spend on car when I can direct that $ straight to the final goal.

And that’s how I save for part of this hobby.

with all due respect I think you need to set your priorities straight, because neither expensive cars nor escorts are key to having a fullfiling life.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

We do deserve the money we charge but is that the reason it’s a luxury?

Mais non ça n’a rien à voir avec ce que vous croyez mériter pour accepter de faire ce métier. Seulement vous, pouvez déterminer où se situe ce barème.

La raison pour laquelle c’est un luxe se trouve uniquement, comme tout les autres produits dits "de luxe", dans les pourcentages de la population qui, de façon raisonnable, peuvent se permettre d’avoir accès à ces produits.

L’exemple le plus concret pourrait être celui-ci:

Le salaire moyen d’un ouvrier qualifié et expérimenté au Québec aujourd’hui se situe autour de $35/hr. Donc avant impôts, $1400.00 par semaine. Disons qu’une fois toutes les charges déduites(impôts, assurance collective, assurance emploi, RRQ etc.) Il lui(elle) reste un gros $850.00 dans ses poches.

Avec ce montant il (elle) doit, comme nous tous, subvenir à ses besoins essentiels, et probablement à ceux d’autrui; enfants, épouse etc. Combien coûte un loyer pour loger une petite famille? Ou une hypothèque pour une maison? L’électricité, la bouffe, les frais scolaires, l’auto… pas nécessaire d’aller plus loin, notre bonhomme/bonnefemme est déjà dans le rouge!

On peut donc, d’ores et déjà, avancer que, dans l’absolu, tout les cols bleus de ce monde ne peuvent se permettre ce genre d’activités. Ça fait un gros pourcentage de la population, pour qui, ce n’est pas accessible donc, c’est du luxe puisque ce n’est pas essentiel.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

neither expensive cars nor escorts are key to having a fullfiling life.

Of course not but, if it’s something you have been dreaming about and you have reached the financial stage where you can finally afford it why not? Treating yourself every now and then also plays a part in happiness.

 

[Rebaynia]

Is meeting a sex worker an activity reserved for rich people?

No. It's just less visits for those who need to save up to be able to afford it.

Can you afford your needs or do you need to save a little before finally being able to book someone?

I am flattered when I know someone can only see me once every few months because they need to save up to be able to see someone. Some of these are the sweetest souls, but just don't have much to their name.

For SW:

Do you consider yourself a luxury?

I find it a luxury.

Kind of like getting your nails done. Sure the more fortunate can just go ahead and get them done as often as they want. And can afford the designs and gems, while some just don't have money for it and have to either save up for it, or pass on the expierience.
Sure we all have nails. But it is a luxury to have a professional do your nails for you, instead of doing them yourself.
Same goes for SW. It is a luxury to be serviced professionally, otherwise your left with your hand or toys and do it yourself. You don't need to have a woman there to cum.
It is a luxury to afford to have a professional come in to help make the expierience better than doing it alone. And for some they want to cuddle and feel the closeness too, not just aim for the ejaculation.