I grew up and learned of sex through very softcore porn. Talking like love scenes from movies and stuff. When i was young i was too scared to go on porn sites cause i was afraid of getting a virus on my parents computer so i masturbated exclusively to like pg-13 sex scenes on youtube and google images of beautiful actresses and singers. Once I finally started watching porn I was quickly turned off by all the weird camera angles, the fake moaning, excessive body fluids and over athletic positions. I pretty much conditioned myself to only enjoy watching very vanilla missionary lovemaking for the longest time. Something about two nude bodies pressed against eachother with lots of kissing and passionate thrusting always excites me to this day. When I fantasize about sex I think exclusively of making love in missionary. Still to this day, my go to masturbation material is primarily from r rated tv shows and movies. Things like erotic korean movies or shows with lots of sex scenes like game of thrones, spartacus ext. imo most hollywood actresses are more atractive than pornstars, the sex itself is shot with better camera angels, the backround music is better, the sex looks more passionate, overall just more of a turn on for me.
My taste for porn has pretty much translated into both my taste of women and what i enjoy in bed. I tend to go for girls with the typical GND look with fit, natural looks and more slender physique as suppose to fake breasts and excessive enhancements like overdone makeup, overly long nails ext. Regarding sex my go to position is almost always missionary. With escorts I would finish exclusively in missionary, never busted in a girls mouth or in another position with escorts (although I have with my SO). I busted once on my gf’s tits but I can easily go the rest of my life without doing it again. When I do do other positions it’s more just to break up routine than anything else. If a girl has a great body cowgirl can be fun just for the view and being able to play and suck on her breasts but I have never been able to finish in cowgirl, I just never reach orgasm, even though it feels nice. Doggy feels good but the position itself is a giant turnoff, I hate looking at buttholes, I love myself a great butt but generally the view is not as good as seeing a butt from afar or from the side. Also more than half the time you can smell the butt even if they are clean and that is a massive turn off. Doggy is also an uncomfortable position and is extremely limited. You can’t see the girls face, her body, you can’t kiss comfortably ext. i’ve tried lazy doggy and yeah it’s more comfortable but it is essentially missionary without the best parts of missionary. Spooning is too complicated to start and is uncomfortable to maintain. Everything else is just inferior/more uncomfortable variations of doggy, cowgirl and spooning.
That being said, missionary can be boring. If a girl is just laying there taking it then obviously that is no fun. But a girl who is passionate, kisses, touches you, uses her legs, lets you try different variations like legs on shoulders, changing angles ext, it is alot of fun. The best missionary sex I ever had was with Ruby red, she had her legs spread just the right amount with one leg over my arm and she was playing with my balls as I drilled her and made out with her. Easily one of the most powerful orgasms of my life.
So if you ended up reading this far, you might be wondering why I am writhing this? The simple answer is i’m bored, but the other answer is I am also interested, because after reading many reviews, talking with friends and learning more about sex I realised most people don’t seem to enjoy regular vanilla sex. My first indication of this was after I saw an escort who worked at xo at the time named Miley. The session was literally basic missionary with some kissing for 10 mins. When I was done she told me « that was quite nice but very unusual ». I asked her to elaborate and she said that most guys would pound her in like 5 different positions and try a bunch of kinky stuff, but that I was just really laid back and sweet. She was the first to make a comment like this to me, but not the last. It never really fazed me but now i’m wondering, am I really that vanilla? Does anyone else client or sp get more enjoyment out of vanilla sex than the more kinky or porn type fucking that seems to be so popular?
My taste for porn has pretty much translated into both my taste of women and what i enjoy in bed. I tend to go for girls with the typical GND look with fit, natural looks and more slender physique as suppose to fake breasts and excessive enhancements like overdone makeup, overly long nails ext. Regarding sex my go to position is almost always missionary. With escorts I would finish exclusively in missionary, never busted in a girls mouth or in another position with escorts (although I have with my SO). I busted once on my gf’s tits but I can easily go the rest of my life without doing it again. When I do do other positions it’s more just to break up routine than anything else. If a girl has a great body cowgirl can be fun just for the view and being able to play and suck on her breasts but I have never been able to finish in cowgirl, I just never reach orgasm, even though it feels nice. Doggy feels good but the position itself is a giant turnoff, I hate looking at buttholes, I love myself a great butt but generally the view is not as good as seeing a butt from afar or from the side. Also more than half the time you can smell the butt even if they are clean and that is a massive turn off. Doggy is also an uncomfortable position and is extremely limited. You can’t see the girls face, her body, you can’t kiss comfortably ext. i’ve tried lazy doggy and yeah it’s more comfortable but it is essentially missionary without the best parts of missionary. Spooning is too complicated to start and is uncomfortable to maintain. Everything else is just inferior/more uncomfortable variations of doggy, cowgirl and spooning.
That being said, missionary can be boring. If a girl is just laying there taking it then obviously that is no fun. But a girl who is passionate, kisses, touches you, uses her legs, lets you try different variations like legs on shoulders, changing angles ext, it is alot of fun. The best missionary sex I ever had was with Ruby red, she had her legs spread just the right amount with one leg over my arm and she was playing with my balls as I drilled her and made out with her. Easily one of the most powerful orgasms of my life.
So if you ended up reading this far, you might be wondering why I am writhing this? The simple answer is i’m bored, but the other answer is I am also interested, because after reading many reviews, talking with friends and learning more about sex I realised most people don’t seem to enjoy regular vanilla sex. My first indication of this was after I saw an escort who worked at xo at the time named Miley. The session was literally basic missionary with some kissing for 10 mins. When I was done she told me « that was quite nice but very unusual ». I asked her to elaborate and she said that most guys would pound her in like 5 different positions and try a bunch of kinky stuff, but that I was just really laid back and sweet. She was the first to make a comment like this to me, but not the last. It never really fazed me but now i’m wondering, am I really that vanilla? Does anyone else client or sp get more enjoyment out of vanilla sex than the more kinky or porn type fucking that seems to be so popular?
