Is it possible to befriend an escort?

[KingRonSanders]

I have a handful of friends who used to escort and we remained friends, some got hitched and have kids, you know the whole real life thingie.

 

[Skym]

Friends outside the SP business? From my experience, I'll say no.

 

[urquell]

yes.

 

[masmasak]

I guess the issue has mostly been in the large amount of conflicting experiences I had spotted while I was searching the internet for anything concerning the escort life. Some just tell you not to bother them at all with small talk and hit them with the hour, the price, the session, goodbye and farewell. Others say they appreciate the company, the care, the humanity, but that evidently they're worried the person may have some less than savory ulterior motives, so it is best not to overdo it or even attempt it.

I won't lie that perhaps I'm speaking from a point of desperation, but I do genuinely wish to get acquainted and perhaps even connect with girls in the escort business. Mostly to befriend them, maybe even find my lover there. It's too much hopeful wishing, I know, but I do believe strongly that it's there where I can tempt my chance. But I wish to do it correctly.

How old R U &what U do in life. Yr chance is at the bottom of the ladder ,This is hobby not even a wish,just a leisure thing even less than finding a parking in centre Ville never mind other hustle bustle ,jostle of life !

 

[Fradi]

Again, we're humans. Not mythical creatures lol.

No there is one that I know who is a total angel an actual Dream Princess, fairy tales don’t make them like her.

 

[Ttimmons222]

It is possible but it would require time and personalities would have to click. Having a friend with no ulterior motive is not always so simple. It is best to keep in mind that the SP is there to offer a service with expected compensation.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

So, before anyone comes rushing at me with the pitchforks, I'm not posting this thread for the sake of having free sessions or some other opportunistic garbage. I understand fully that it is, first and foremost, a business; it would be like asking a handyman to fix your broken pipework for gratis, simply because you're friends. No matter what, they still need money to sustain themselves.

With that out of the way, the reason I'm posting this thread is due to my genuine wonder if it is ever possible to befriend an escort, or perhaps even fall in love with one outside the boundaries of a session. It sounds silly, but I have been wondering, and hoping even, to meet and get to be acquainted with some women of the profession, simply to enjoy their company or get to know them better. I don't know how to go about it because I understand trying to bring small talk to an escort through their job line is rather annoying, and so I was hoping to get some advice on how to do it properly.

Your age says you’re only 22. If that’s accurate, I think the answer for you is no. I believe you should invest your time and energy trying to make friends organically outside paying for sex and companionship. Why do you want to be friends specifically with escorts you’re seeing? Do you already find it hollow to just have sex with a complete stranger?

 

[Xtreme]

Run.
Run for your life.
Seriously you could use you effort to find real love instead.

 

[vanhamm]

I text mine everyday, but then again i don't call her friend.

 

[butser]

Very possible.If you feel comfortable with someone then yes, possible.

 

[jmioffe]

 

[envelopes]

Why do you want to be friends specifically with escorts you’re seeing? Do you already find it hollow to just have sex with a complete stranger?

Read his first post. He hasn't even seen an SP yet.

 

[DanilusVulpes]

Your age says you’re only 22. If that’s accurate, I think the answer for you is no. I believe you should invest your time and energy trying to make friends organically outside paying for sex and companionship. Why do you want to be friends specifically with escorts you’re seeing? Do you already find it hollow to just have sex with a complete stranger?

It's the fact I've not been able to even formulate many friendships due to the ongoing conditions of my life. Mostly been introverted, not having been sure how the hell I can make new acquaintances when I never actively sought them; they just simply happened.

I don't know how to find friends with benefits, nor do I really know how to make friends in general. It just seems to be out of tangible control, and from the looks of it, the only people that seem more proficient in the sexual side are escorts. Or SPs, whichever the term.

 

[DanilusVulpes]

Run.
Run for your life.
Seriously you could use you effort to find real love instead.

Haven't found any so far, sadly. In terms of romantic experiences, mine have been rather bad, if nothing short of abusive and traumatic due to who I ended up with.

 

[DanilusVulpes]

I think your self assessment is prescient. This lifestyle is not for you.

Perhaps not, maybe certainly not. But I wouldn't wish to pass it up without trying first.

Of course, it may also be doomed from the start if I try. I simply don't know.

 

[GundamWing31]

So, before anyone comes rushing at me with the pitchforks, I'm not posting this thread for the sake of having free sessions or some other opportunistic garbage. I understand fully that it is, first and foremost, a business; it would be like asking a handyman to fix your broken pipework for gratis, simply because you're friends. No matter what, they still need money to sustain themselves.

With that out of the way, the reason I'm posting this thread is due to my genuine wonder if it is ever possible to befriend an escort, or perhaps even fall in love with one outside the boundaries of a session. It sounds silly, but I have been wondering, and hoping even, to meet and get to be acquainted with some women of the profession, simply to enjoy their company or get to know them better. I don't know how to go about it because I understand trying to bring small talk to an escort through their job line is rather annoying, and so I was hoping to get some advice on how to do it properly.

If you're not attractive enough and dont have a big D then friendship is as far as you will get and even that is rare.

 

[Julia Sky]

If you're not attractive enough and dont have a big D then friendship is as far as you will get and even that is rare.

Spoken like a man, lol. Women generally care less about looks than personality and being treated right. Looks do matter but they aren't everything. And most of us really don't care about dick size as much as you guys do. The idea that you need a big D to charm a woman comes from other men. Many women prefer an average dick. Size queens exist but they are not the majority... And for an escort, it matters even less. A big D does not really impress us.

That being said, this thread is unhinged. Escorts are offering a service, this isn't a dating app. I do consider some of my clients like friends, but this would never happen with somebody like OP who makes it a goal from the beginning. No thanks.

If you can't make friends in the real world I'm not sure what makes you think an escort will befriend you - we aren't that different from other women. The only difference is we get paid for intimacy/companionship.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

If you can't make friends in the real world I'm not sure what makes you think an escort will befriend you -

That! That!
It seems, from reading the threads on merb, that a lot of johns(of course not all) are totally awkward and socially unfit, or deeply unconsciously misogynist. I regularly get flabbergasted and speechless when I read some comments expressed openly on the board, I find it scary.

 

[Alphabeta666]

Impossible? No. But very rare IMO.

It happened to me though. We even dated and are still friends today.

 

[DanilusVulpes]

That! That!
It seems, from reading the threads on merb, that a lot of johns(of course not all) are totally awkward and socially unfit, or deeply unconsciously misogynist. I regularly get flabbergasted and speechless when I read some comments expressed openly on the board, I find it scary.

I feel rather hurt that I appeared as anything close to misogynistic; that was never my intention. I genuinely am just an introverted fellow that has difficulty reaching out to people, especially when it comes to something as more brusque as sexual services and such.

Again, I wish to reiterate that by no means did I come here hoping to score free nights with an escort, nor do I wish for anything malicious or second-handed. It was actually a genuine question of whether or not it was possible to befriend an escort, simple as.