Is it possible to befriend an escort?

[envelopes]

I am envious. You are probably an exceptionally good-looking guy and very entertaining. I also heard rumors that some guys manage to get free BBBJs in strip clubs.

Hey, if it makes you feel better thinking that it's impossible to be friends with an SP without paying (to be friends) (lol) and anyone who says they do is lying, then ok, carry on.

I heard rumors that some clients spend the entire session just talking because they have to pay to have that, I guess... that rumor's true.

 

[kkrack]

Why would you want to be friends with an escort? I find it hard to be friends with someone I just fucked. She either wants a bit more or I do. It's unhealthy for both.

 

[Gambling Fool]

Why would you want to be friends with an escort?

For the same reason I would want to be friends with anyone. They are also human beings you know. If it works, go for it. If not, move on.

 

[Gazoo64]

Why would you want to be friends with an escort?

Because I clicked with some SPs, they’re nice people and we got to know a bit about each other. As the previous reply says, I’d want to be friends for the same reason as I would want to be friends with other people.

Sometimes there is chemistry and it’s nice to keep in touch and know how we’re both doing. I’m not talking about an SP that I just saw once. But if I saw an SP multiple times and there’s good chemistry, it’s possible to befriend an SP.

Of course, we both know where the lines are drawn and we each have our private lives.

 

[DouMan]

The answer is possibly in the question ...

Do not try to befriend the escort with expections, but rather the woman behind, with discoveries.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Of course, we both know where the lines are drawn and we each have our private lives.

Thats the most important part, after all these years,I can say I am friend with 1 SP, and even if we, sometimes, agree to « play »
It is not to be taken for granted, I always clear that with her.

 

[Fradi]

Nah. I'm friends with a couple of SPs. We always split everything. In fact, one SP was in my city and we went out for dinner and she actually offered to pay for it since I was showing her around. (She's visited a couple times since that first time and we still split everything)

You can totally be "actual" friends with SPs.

I agree that you can be friends with an SP, I am but, I don’t split things I don’t think I could ever let a lady pay for lunch or dinner it just goes against everything I believe in.
I have a hard time letting my children take me out to dinner even on birthdays, I prefer to pay for things, I just feel better about it that way.

 

[kkrack]

I don't believe in friendship between men and women. Unless there is zero sexual attraction involved for both parties.

So, if you book her to have sex and like having sex with her then it's not manageable. I was friends with an old woman who I like to talk about life and how it waa back in her days

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Imagine being me, a bisexual, and being unable to have any friends.

 

[Fradi]

Why would you want to be friends with an escort? I find it hard to be friends with someone I just fucked. She either wants a bit more or I do. It's unhealthy for both.

I actually wouldn’t mind being friends with all the women I have sex with, it makes it so much better.
Just having sex with someone for a physical release I guess is ok but being with someone who you connect with who you actually care about and look forward to seeing each time is way better, at least for me it is.
Yes it is not easy and doesn’t happen often as for most SP it is a job, a way to earn a living and they do not want to form any kind of friendship or attachment and they set up this barrier in their mind I guess to keep themselves sane and I can understand and respect it.
However we are all human and on rare occasions you do form a friendship and I for one am so glad and happy to be able to call a couple of young ladies I see as friends they are not only gorgeous but fun, caring and kind human beings and so nice to be with.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

If you like a provider why would you want to take income from them by stopping seeing them for their services because you expect freebies? I dont understand the mentality. Is it because its sex? Because I pay my friends service providers their full price and extra tip when I use their services. I befriended my nail girl and my eyelashes technician when I was having them (I dont have fake eyelashes anymore) and I never asked for discounts? I want them to thrive so I can continue seeing them.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

If you like a provider why would you want to take income from them by stopping seeing them for their services because you expect freebies? I

Maybe I missed a post somewhere, where did you read this?