I don't drink, but I partake in marijuana. I've never seen an SP while high and don't intend to. What I am wondering is if you think it's wrong to see an SP while high? What about drunk or high on some illegal substance? Where do you draw the line?
Is it wrong to go see an Escort high or drunk?
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I have done it very tipsy, like in a very good mood drunk, and it was fun, it was relaxing, to be completely drunk I would never. Being high well the SP asked and we smoked and it was amazing, just the dry mouth sucks. But high is fun when both of you are high.
As a general rule, I never consume any substances prior to intimacy with any woman. I find that alcohol has an extremely negative impact on my sexual performance both in terms of erectile function and energy level. Apart from that, I become too sloppy and chatty when drunk, and lose focus. Guys who were part of my escort mini parties in Montreal felt a strong compulsion to get wasted at the parties and although I try not to be judgmental about their behaviors, in several cases this impacted on their decision making during the evening and caused problems. So I am generally not in favor of it.
Sex while being high on weed/hash is the most awesome, euphoric feeling that I have ever experienced, especially when I blow my load, I do it all the time and I always recommend it to my friends, the mistake that people make is they consume too much alcohol before the encounter which counter acts the effects as alcohol is a depressant, moderate amounts of alcohol is okay, nothing beats sitting naked in bed with a beautiful lady while receiving Shotguns from her.
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Sex while being high or drunk (the effect is different) can be even more pleasurable due to lack of inhibitions... but... I would never go see an SP while in this condition. It's not respectful. I would want my wits about me, and I would expect her to be sober as well.
I would never see an escort while drunk, drugs I have never taken so that is a non starter.
In my opinion it is totally rude and disrespectful to be high on either.
I do however enjoy sharing a bottle of wine with the lady which most seem to like as much as I do.
There are many that enjoy sharing some weed during the session so I guess that is fine also.
In my opinion it is totally rude and disrespectful to be high on either.
I do however enjoy sharing a bottle of wine with the lady which most seem to like as much as I do.
There are many that enjoy sharing some weed during the session so I guess that is fine also.
Drunk or high, sure. But completely blitzed or stoned out of my mind, not so much. I draw the line when it goes from being in control and not being in control. I had a massage the last time in Montreal and smoked a little bit of weed just before. It was one of the most memorable massages of my life! Every inch of my body was ultra sensitive to every sound, touch and feeling making it quite enjoyable. Looking forward to doing that again.
I always smoke a joint on the way to a meeting, on occasion I offer and 50% say yes. Am thinking about micro dosing mushrooms in the future ( friends spouse teaches yoga and says a high percentage micro dose for classes, gives them an euphoric feeling )
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I know what you mean, I have been in similar circumstances when I was in my late teens not with escorts but with civilian women I don’t think I was ever in a state when I didn’t t remember or didn’t know what I was doing, at least I hope so.
I would never do that now.
Having a drink with them is fine but going there loaded is not and the same goes for an SP there are very few things I would walk out on an SP for but being drunk or totally high for sure I wouldn’t stay there.
I know what you mean, I have been in similar circumstances when I was in my late teens not with escorts but with civilian women I don’t think I was ever in a state when I didn’t t remember or didn’t know what I was doing, at least I hope so.
I would never do that now.
Having a drink with them is fine but going there loaded is not and the same goes for an SP there are very few things I would walk out on an SP for but being drunk or totally high for sure I wouldn’t stay there.
LOL. You reminded me of one bad outcall encounter I had in Montreal. When the girl arrived, I offered her a glass of wine and she replied "No thanks, I brought my own." She then pulled out a pint bottle of whisky which she put next to the nightstand and took frequent sips out of as the hour progressed. I could tell that she had a few belts before she arrived. Needless to say the experience wasn't pleasant because she was less than coherent. Being as this was outcall, I couldn't walk out on her.
About 5 minutes after she left she came back looking for her coat. I told her she was wearing her coat. She said she thought she wore her other coat. No sorry you were only wearing one coat. So having been on the other end, I would never be drunk or high. I would not want my senses to be dulled when meeting someone special.
Its not like your meeting the president of a country they all have their issues they have the right to refuse you .i dont go to see a service provider with the though they are takin notes or actually care about me -sex for money very simple don't try and complicate it.
I do dabs on outcalls but I never offer them to the lady because one simple dab can get you blazed out of your mind and very paranoid if you aren't experienced. The last thing I want is a paranoid escort... Sometimes I bring a bottle of jager with me so we can drink a bit between rounds on long incalls but that's about it. Nothing wrong with yourself being high or a bit tipsy but be very careful about getting her to a level she isn't comfortable anymore. That's a quick way you can ruin your night.
I guess I must try that new legal CDB stuff. Last time I smoked hash all I wanted to do is melt in a sofa and listen to the doors lol.Sex while being high on weed/hash is the most awesome, euphoric feeling that I have ever experienced, especially when I blow my load, I do it all the time and I always recommend it to my friends, the mistake that people make is they consume too much alcohol before the encounter which counter acts the effects as alcohol is a depressant, moderate amounts of alcohol is okay, nothing beats sitting naked in bed with a beautiful lady while receiving Shotguns from her.
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I personally like to split a bottle of white. Gets me a bit happy but in complete control of my lowered inhibitions:-D
If u drink a lot and go limp and pass out and girl can take $$ and leave, sure. But otherwise no
A little weed... yes all the time. Fantastic experiences. Trick is not to do too much. I do maybe half to 1 full (sqdc) joint. My performance is through the roof. I find I enjoy all the sensual sensations so much, that I don’t have any urgency to cum... so I am able to stay hard forever. Sometimes the lady partakes... sometimes not. Marley Green is my go to choice now.
Flying high... I won’t say never... but it is limited to a few...actually only one... lady. We have had cosmic experiences. But this is over the course of some time... like 2-3 hours. We both partake.
a little drunk... sometimes... just depends on the circumstances. If I was out for a few drinks then decide to visit... sure. Different feeling. Very relaxed. Trick is not to do too much. I prefer weed. Usually just me being drunk.
wasted drunk... never...After being out with the boyz and getting wasted... I wouldn’t be able to perform and it will just be a regrettable, forgettable, embarrassment. However it has happened...and I keep saying I’ll never do it again. But judgement goes out the window when the big brain is drunk and the little brain takes over.
Edit... the original question was whether I thought it was wrong to do so. I think going to a NEW SP flying high, drunk, or wasted, is disrespectful. I do not think it’s a problem going to one of my regulars. She knows what she’s getting into. We will have fun. She knows she’s safe with me. That being said, I have gone to new SPs in that condition and mostly regretted it.
I don’t have a problem going to new SP a little high.
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Flying high... I won’t say never... but it is limited to a few...actually only one... lady. We have had cosmic experiences. But this is over the course of some time... like 2-3 hours. We both partake.
a little drunk... sometimes... just depends on the circumstances. If I was out for a few drinks then decide to visit... sure. Different feeling. Very relaxed. Trick is not to do too much. I prefer weed. Usually just me being drunk.
wasted drunk... never...After being out with the boyz and getting wasted... I wouldn’t be able to perform and it will just be a regrettable, forgettable, embarrassment. However it has happened...and I keep saying I’ll never do it again. But judgement goes out the window when the big brain is drunk and the little brain takes over.
Edit... the original question was whether I thought it was wrong to do so. I think going to a NEW SP flying high, drunk, or wasted, is disrespectful. I do not think it’s a problem going to one of my regulars. She knows what she’s getting into. We will have fun. She knows she’s safe with me. That being said, I have gone to new SPs in that condition and mostly regretted it.
I don’t have a problem going to new SP a little high.
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Do you like dealing with drunk or high people?
Personally, I hate dealing with drunk or high people, especially when I'm doing my job.
And don't fool yourself, escorts are doing work when they're with you.
It took me awhile to understand why I thought this is a dumb question. I think it's in the same nature of "is it wrong to try to marry my escort?" or "is it wrong to see my escort when I have the flu?"
It confuses liberties you might take in a personal relationship and imposes them on a professional one in the name of selfishness and self-indulgence.
Personally, I hate dealing with drunk or high people, especially when I'm doing my job.
And don't fool yourself, escorts are doing work when they're with you.
It took me awhile to understand why I thought this is a dumb question. I think it's in the same nature of "is it wrong to try to marry my escort?" or "is it wrong to see my escort when I have the flu?"
It confuses liberties you might take in a personal relationship and imposes them on a professional one in the name of selfishness and self-indulgence.
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I've always smoked a little weed before a session, but these last 6 months I found the perfect escort for me, we smoke hash & weed together, I have never seen any woman come as many times as her sometimes as many as 20 orgasms not to mention the water falls ( she squirts ) of course the bed is all wet, but the orgasms with this woman is unreal, she doesn't advertise any more so please don't ask.
Jmioffe- your question is a good one and made me reflect back on the times I have had to do it in my own career, and it mostly came with clients who had addictions. I had several worker's compensation clients who developed addictions and both frequently called me when high. One of them was mostly nonsensical when he called, and sometimes his wife would pick up the phone for him and communicate to me whatever else he was trying to communicate. Sad and pathetic. The other fellow was a bit more diabolical and aggressive and started making threats about what would happen if he did not get his meds, and eventually when the threats started becoming directed at the firm, we told him to come in, pick up his file, and hit the road.
The people in this thread do not have the prism of having observed their own behaviors when high- seen themselves in a mirror or from an escort's viewpoint. The one person posting in this thread whom I have seen high is JoeT. I am going to give JoeT a pass because I have seen him at many Iggy parties and even accepted a ride home from him from one of them (yikes! but made it back to the hotel in one piece), and he was pretty much high at all of them, but he never embarrassed himself or created an issue at any of the parties (that I know of). JoeT may be a rare example or poster boy of the well behaved drunk, but he is not the norm.
I think I previously related the story about what happened at one of our escort miniparties due to one of the guys getting shitfaced stoned. At the party, he was consuming gin or vodka in copious quantities and I am fairly certain cocaine afterwards. He (his nickname is Mr. Blue Balls) and the escort fell asleep or unconscious in his hotel room at the Hotel W. The agency owner through whom I booked the party- who shall remain nameless- called me up saying the escort had not called and demanding to know where she was. When the escort agency owner called my cell, I was at a different hotel, in bed and asleep at 1 am (party had been from 9 pm to 12 midnight), and he woke me up from a sound sleep. I told him she was with Mr. Blue Balls at the Hotel W as far as I knew and in his room, which is where they had been headed at 11 pm when the private session of the party kicked in. He demanded I wake up the others who were at the party and have them go bang on Mr. Blue Balls's door. I did. They banged on his hotel room door 3 times, no answer. I reported this to agency owner and he then started yelling at me and also started making noise about calling the cops. Finally, around 1:30 a.m., the escort woke up (she and Mr. Blue Balls had both fallen asleep/unconscious after 1 hour of drunken sex, or so he said). She reported in to the agency and they sent someone to pick her up at Hotel W. I was beyond livid. It was the most angry I ever felt in my life, almost. The next morning at breakfast I was spitting fire at Mr. Blue Balls, because I felt he had exposed all of us at the party to a possible police investigation over his own stupid nonsense behavior. He was making me more angry by claiming he did nothing wrong, and it was all on the escort, as she had gotten shitfaced and fallen asleep as well, and it was her problem that she had not called in or responded to her phone. I looked him in the eye and said, "is this fucking Kindergarten? What do you not fucking understand about the fact that she is on the clock and was supposed to call at 12 midnight and did not and she overstayed the bell by 1.5 hours in YOUR ROOM on YOUR FUCKING TIME. You are lucky we did not get charged for that time because frankly we should have been." I then said some other angry words to him and communicated to him through a 3rd party that he was on thin ice as far as being invited to any other parties in the future. I also did not speak to him on the ride back to the USA, although we later resolved the issue.
This is what you sign up for when others at your party, that your ass is on the hook for, get irresponsibly high and drunk.
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Thanks for sharing, EagerBeaver. This anecdote to me is more evidence of how astonishingly nice the Montreal scene is and how I find it hard to believe that organized crime is involved, but I don't doubt it is.
I mean, the agency owner basically got money stolen from him for this incident, or the girl did, and everyone was like "nah, 's cool." Other places, goons would have been called, beatings would have been administered, or at the very least serious threats! Maybe this was a business cost for sustaining a whale, but man, y'all are so nice!
Another agency girl once told me a similar story -- drunk client showed up for an appointment. They messed around for a bit but nothing else before he fell asleep. Turns out he had no money on him. She called the booker, he told her to march him to an ATM. She's a sweet girl, I understand why she didn't want to do that.
He woke up, insisted that he paid. The girl and the agency basically ate the cost. I told her she should have taken his shoes or watch or even a credit card to hold for ransom. She was like, "nah, it's the past." I feel like I was white knighting, but man, I was pissed on her behalf.
I mean, the agency owner basically got money stolen from him for this incident, or the girl did, and everyone was like "nah, 's cool." Other places, goons would have been called, beatings would have been administered, or at the very least serious threats! Maybe this was a business cost for sustaining a whale, but man, y'all are so nice!
Another agency girl once told me a similar story -- drunk client showed up for an appointment. They messed around for a bit but nothing else before he fell asleep. Turns out he had no money on him. She called the booker, he told her to march him to an ATM. She's a sweet girl, I understand why she didn't want to do that.
He woke up, insisted that he paid. The girl and the agency basically ate the cost. I told her she should have taken his shoes or watch or even a credit card to hold for ransom. She was like, "nah, it's the past." I feel like I was white knighting, but man, I was pissed on her behalf.
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Big difference between being high on weed/hash and being drunk and for the record Beav I don't drink very much and when I do it is in moderation as I do not like alcohol that much, you are right that I was always high at those parties but that was from smoking weed with a few shots of alcohol(which is an awesome combo), I have seen a few people that got shitfaced drunk at those parties which caused an embarrassing and sometimes very sad scene but there was never any issues with people who were high on weed or hash, also a big thank you to the many people who came to the parties and as soon as they saw me approached me and gave me some awesome weed, miss those parties.
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