At one of the MERB parties at Rue de La Montagne, pre-Iggy, there was an Indy escort there who was drunk. I realize that showing up or becoming drunk at parties is, generally, more acceptable for an escort than it is being drunk on the clock of your date. However, the Indy, who knew me only from an introduction at the party by my board handle, started hanging on me at the party. She was reeking of whiskey. This hanging on behavior started with whispering sexy talk in my ears and eventually developed into a one way makeout session with my ear. She essentially gave my ears, both of them, a blow job or "ear job." This was completely one way, I did not kiss her back or lick her ears, nose or throat. Was an interesting marketing attempt. I did see her once in session after that.
Another time, at one of the Iggy parties, I saw a high end Indy who I had seen on multiple occasions get drunk. All her drinks were being purchased by me and one other guy who was clearly interested in and attracted to her. I had already met her and seen her and she hung close to me in the early part of the party, because I believe it was her very first MERB party, she was relatively new at the time and did not know many of the other guests besides me. So I basically let the other guy talk to her for a while and was not keeping track of how many drinks he was buying her, vs. how many I was buying her. She was at the bar at the old Lord Berri, now demolished.
At some point I was distracted by some other lady and eventually my attention returned to the bar. I then saw that the lady I had been buying drinks for was now rip roaring drunk and the guy I left her with was dry humping her ass, with her active and quite voluntary, but drunken, participation in that act. I was surprised at this, because outside of the bedroom she had a very reserved, taciturn demeanor. That obviously changed at some point after she had a bunch of drinks.
I then lost track of her again as I got lost in conversation with someone else. I then returned to the bar and we all realized she was gone, and so was the dude who was dry humping her. I was berated by another MERBite for not getting her a taxi, because she was drunk and someone might find her in a gutter. Truthfully, I felt terrible, but I did not actually see her leave and did not have the opportunity to call a taxi when she did, plus when I had last seen her she was with another guy who was also buying her drinks. I protested to the member admonishing me that the dry humper had at least the same responsibility as me as he bought at least half her booze.
I still felt badly the next day, and I had her cell #, so I texted her. She said she had left on her own and made it back home safely. I suspect she left with the guy dry humping her for some real live action humping, but she did not say that. Anyway, after that incident, I was very careful about how much liquor I put into any one woman at the MERB parties. I think I discussed it with Iggy at the time as well, as that party was one of his, and I wanted his perspective on the issue.