This makes sense.I'm just saying, meeting someone for the first time drunk or high is pretty dumb imo. It could be a escort, friends of friends, etc. First impressions are everything, so even if the main intention is to bang, just have a little respect for the SP. Why not ask her to have a drink together or smoke a J together instead of showing up like a mess.
I will say I have had a few sessions where I had a decent buzz (not excessive) and the sex was fantastic. I am open to try it again. It would be nice if more providers and agency girls would indicate if they are 420 friendly. Otherwise, show up normal, make a good first impression and find out your common interests.
The massage scene is probably a bit different, and presents some interesting opportunities for really zoning out while the girl takes care of you.