funny story about the coat. Ever just tried cbd? You're mentally alert, just relaxed and a bit of a body buzz. So much better in my opinion
Is it wrong to go see an Escort high or drunk?
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I know that I am not a fan of smoking indica marijuana, as it renders me kind of useless. However I have tried micro-dosing with cbd recently and its pretty damn good. I had a few drops in a tea, haven't tried having sex on it.
How are you taking your cbd?
I agree with this post, and am intrigued by the concept of micro dosing. I would experiment with doing this, if it were legal to do so where I live. We are a medical marijuana only State.
I use a spray. Two sprays under the tongue, absorbs fairly quick. Good for anxiety or help trying to sleep and amazing before sex
I want to try mushrooms in a small dose, but I don't trust dealers to not mix or somehow find a way to put some junk into the mushrooms. I know you can get legally try peyote and it's pure, but it's too wacky and unpredictable.
Ive read this several times and every time I read it I crack up. I just had a thought. Was she dressing in layers? I used to do this when I was elk hunting in Colorado. Like Montreal, the weather was so unpredictable so you would wear a lighter coat or vest under a heavier coat which you could remove and put in your back pack. You could put this heavier coat back on when you were sitting or the weather took a turn for the worse. Could this have been it?
At one of the MERB parties at Rue de La Montagne, pre-Iggy, there was an Indy escort there who was drunk. I realize that showing up or becoming drunk at parties is, generally, more acceptable for an escort than it is being drunk on the clock of your date. However, the Indy, who knew me only from an introduction at the party by my board handle, started hanging on me at the party. She was reeking of whiskey. This hanging on behavior started with whispering sexy talk in my ears and eventually developed into a one way makeout session with my ear. She essentially gave my ears, both of them, a blow job or "ear job." This was completely one way, I did not kiss her back or lick her ears, nose or throat. Was an interesting marketing attempt. I did see her once in session after that.
Another time, at one of the Iggy parties, I saw a high end Indy who I had seen on multiple occasions get drunk. All her drinks were being purchased by me and one other guy who was clearly interested in and attracted to her. I had already met her and seen her and she hung close to me in the early part of the party, because I believe it was her very first MERB party, she was relatively new at the time and did not know many of the other guests besides me. So I basically let the other guy talk to her for a while and was not keeping track of how many drinks he was buying her, vs. how many I was buying her. She was at the bar at the old Lord Berri, now demolished.
At some point I was distracted by some other lady and eventually my attention returned to the bar. I then saw that the lady I had been buying drinks for was now rip roaring drunk and the guy I left her with was dry humping her ass, with her active and quite voluntary, but drunken, participation in that act. I was surprised at this, because outside of the bedroom she had a very reserved, taciturn demeanor. That obviously changed at some point after she had a bunch of drinks.
I then lost track of her again as I got lost in conversation with someone else. I then returned to the bar and we all realized she was gone, and so was the dude who was dry humping her. I was berated by another MERBite for not getting her a taxi, because she was drunk and someone might find her in a gutter. Truthfully, I felt terrible, but I did not actually see her leave and did not have the opportunity to call a taxi when she did, plus when I had last seen her she was with another guy who was also buying her drinks. I protested to the member admonishing me that the dry humper had at least the same responsibility as me as he bought at least half her booze.
I still felt badly the next day, and I had her cell #, so I texted her. She said she had left on her own and made it back home safely. I suspect she left with the guy dry humping her for some real live action humping, but she did not say that. Anyway, after that incident, I was very careful about how much liquor I put into any one woman at the MERB parties. I think I discussed it with Iggy at the time as well, as that party was one of his, and I wanted his perspective on the issue.
Another time, at one of the Iggy parties, I saw a high end Indy who I had seen on multiple occasions get drunk. All her drinks were being purchased by me and one other guy who was clearly interested in and attracted to her. I had already met her and seen her and she hung close to me in the early part of the party, because I believe it was her very first MERB party, she was relatively new at the time and did not know many of the other guests besides me. So I basically let the other guy talk to her for a while and was not keeping track of how many drinks he was buying her, vs. how many I was buying her. She was at the bar at the old Lord Berri, now demolished.
At some point I was distracted by some other lady and eventually my attention returned to the bar. I then saw that the lady I had been buying drinks for was now rip roaring drunk and the guy I left her with was dry humping her ass, with her active and quite voluntary, but drunken, participation in that act. I was surprised at this, because outside of the bedroom she had a very reserved, taciturn demeanor. That obviously changed at some point after she had a bunch of drinks.
I then lost track of her again as I got lost in conversation with someone else. I then returned to the bar and we all realized she was gone, and so was the dude who was dry humping her. I was berated by another MERBite for not getting her a taxi, because she was drunk and someone might find her in a gutter. Truthfully, I felt terrible, but I did not actually see her leave and did not have the opportunity to call a taxi when she did, plus when I had last seen her she was with another guy who was also buying her drinks. I protested to the member admonishing me that the dry humper had at least the same responsibility as me as he bought at least half her booze.
I still felt badly the next day, and I had her cell #, so I texted her. She said she had left on her own and made it back home safely. I suspect she left with the guy dry humping her for some real live action humping, but she did not say that. Anyway, after that incident, I was very careful about how much liquor I put into any one woman at the MERB parties. I think I discussed it with Iggy at the time as well, as that party was one of his, and I wanted his perspective on the issue.
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It was early Spring, so one coat was O.K. but no need to layer. No she was just out of it. Most of the conversation I had with her was bizarre. At one point she said that she hated the French in Montreal. This struck me as odd since she was most definitely a Quebecoise . Not only did she have that classic look, but her primary language was French. I mentioned this and she said that her parents wanted her to go to the English schools, but she was forced to go to French schools. Now all her friends were French and they only wanted to go to French language movies and concerts. This made no sense but I gave up at this point because it is so hard to have a conversation when one person is sober and the other one is not. But after she left the second time I did hope that she wasn't driving.
I often smoke a little weed (usually sativa) before seeing an escort but its not like “reefer madness”. I am probably just a little more talkative and engaging after i smoke and even my best friends cant tell that i am a little high. However the extent that it enhances my sexual experience is amazing. I never thought that in my late 60s i would be having the best sex of my life.
I tend to surrender to my impulses more after a few drinks (never smashed tho). If a person is an asshole when they are drunk... it isn't because they're drunk right?
As per M. Dean Martin
As per M. Dean Martin
(didnt read the thread, just answering about the title)
I personally don't mind if someone smokes a joint before seeing me. That being said, no hard drugs and don't arrive drunk : it invalidates your consent and I am not a rapist so I'm just going to have to send you home if you smell like booze and/or are incoherent and acting weird...
But sharing a glass or 3 together and smoking a joint together is always fun!
I personally don't mind if someone smokes a joint before seeing me. That being said, no hard drugs and don't arrive drunk : it invalidates your consent and I am not a rapist so I'm just going to have to send you home if you smell like booze and/or are incoherent and acting weird...
But sharing a glass or 3 together and smoking a joint together is always fun!
Wait a second. I see this another way. 1.) the escort made a decision to show up at the party. 2.). A guy bought her drinks and she accepted those drinks. 3.) The escort made a decision to leave with the guy. All of these decisions she made were by her own free will. So she left with the guy and probably had sex with him and you felt bad? This to me is not a tragedy. She’s not a Girl Scout that wandered into the Lord Berri to try to make some cookie sales and somehow lost her way. This was a grown woman that chooses to be an escort. She used free will to make all these decisions. She may of had the night of her life? Why are you beating yourself up about this one?
I would not say I am "beating myself up" about it, but at the time of the party I was criticized for allowing a lady I had helped to get intoxicated leave on her own in a so-so neighborhood of Montreal. It is not known that she left with a guy, that is my speculation. Other speculation was that she left alone. Probably if I had a do-over on it I would have told her to check with me before she left and then I would have assessed her condition and decided if she needed a taxi or uber or would have taken her home myself.
This does remind me of one other funny story from the GG parties. I brought an attorney friend of mine from CT to one of the GG parties. He and I were talking to one of the GG girls, forget her name, but she was a blonde, and she was drinking heavily. My friend was attracted to her and told me so. Later in the party, a raffle was held for a free half hour with one of the girls, and assorted other prizes. My friend won the raffle's free half hour prize, a $120 value. He wanted to use his free half hour with that girl but by the time the raffle was over, we both observed she could not stand up straight. So he did not use his free half hour and ended up giving it to me. I then traded it to another guy. I can't even remember what the trade was, but it was not cash for the free half hour, he gave me something else of value that he had won at the raffle.
This does remind me of one other funny story from the GG parties. I brought an attorney friend of mine from CT to one of the GG parties. He and I were talking to one of the GG girls, forget her name, but she was a blonde, and she was drinking heavily. My friend was attracted to her and told me so. Later in the party, a raffle was held for a free half hour with one of the girls, and assorted other prizes. My friend won the raffle's free half hour prize, a $120 value. He wanted to use his free half hour with that girl but by the time the raffle was over, we both observed she could not stand up straight. So he did not use his free half hour and ended up giving it to me. I then traded it to another guy. I can't even remember what the trade was, but it was not cash for the free half hour, he gave me something else of value that he had won at the raffle.
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ahahah... noooo. did you see her another time after this one? lady wanting to chill with you, and you passed. the thought of a 240 plus a $30 pizza for two didn't fly. shame
yes. and i have experienced girls with meetings AFTER our first... open up and surprise me with their ability or should i say, desire to help finish the bottle, esp. if you buy decent wine. They've shared their experiences of cheap wine
to me.its funny to observe them take polite sips in the past, to taking big gulps.
weed during the session is fine. before? only possibly if you both arlready know each other. NOT the first.
but if it's the other way around, say the girl has already consumed some weed, it doesnt bother me unless she cant even think straight and it's wasting my time away.
Some providers state on their website that they are 420 friendly. Please ask the provider before showing up drunk/drugged. It can be VERY scary for us to meet with an intoxicated individual. Please remember that sex workers need to feel safe to enjoy your company and that we are all humans with different boundaries and likes. Communication!
An SP told me that one of her clients had been out on the town with the boys and had a few beers before he called her. He arrived drunk as a skunk and in a short time he was barely conscious. Without warning the guy sends his used beer across the room. She grabbed his clothes and threw it on top of him.
In my early adult years partying was the thing to do when not working or sleeping, so yeah I've had lots of sex while being under the influence of booze and all kinds of drugs. In those times I wasnt seeing SPs, had no need to. Most of the girls I was seeing then knew me very well and could blindly trust me.
When I started seeing SPs, in my late forties, I already had strong opinions on the mutual consenting concept, wich exclude any "altered state" before the meeting, I agree 100% with Julia on this part. I would never drink booze before meeting SPs, but I can enjoy sharing a bottle of wine with her. Personnaly ingesting half a bottle wont get me anywhere close to being tipsy! And as I only get high for very specific tasks involving arts and creativity, besides that its a total turn off for me and it makes me antisocial, ( I smoke hash, the smell of weed makes me sick, litteraly). I dont mind if the SP feel the need to smoke a little weed before we meet but she has to get rid of the smell before I get in, and if she is high as a kite when I show up its a no go for me.
When I started seeing SPs, in my late forties, I already had strong opinions on the mutual consenting concept, wich exclude any "altered state" before the meeting, I agree 100% with Julia on this part. I would never drink booze before meeting SPs, but I can enjoy sharing a bottle of wine with her. Personnaly ingesting half a bottle wont get me anywhere close to being tipsy! And as I only get high for very specific tasks involving arts and creativity, besides that its a total turn off for me and it makes me antisocial, ( I smoke hash, the smell of weed makes me sick, litteraly). I dont mind if the SP feel the need to smoke a little weed before we meet but she has to get rid of the smell before I get in, and if she is high as a kite when I show up its a no go for me.
I've had 8-9 ladies show up to an outcall appt at my place before, visibly drunk\stoned. I think it's rather unprofessional on they're part and it makes me feel uncomfortable. What they do on they're own recreational time is they're business but when this becomes a regular habit showing up to work in that condition it becomes an issue. Agencies are aware of this kind of behaviour in most circumstances and unfortunately it often gets overlooked because of greed on they're end. I won't rebook any girl that shows up inebriated to an appt I book with her.
I tend to be socially anxious with people I don't know well, so I take a little bit of weed to help me out.
As I've not been a regular user of weed prior to legalization, my tolerance is low and 5~7mg of THC seems to be the sweet spot where I can still be in control of my actions with more pleasurable sensations and toss out inhibitions.
The best sex of my life was while on weed that also made me last longer without stopping to change positions or do foreplay some more.
As I've not been a regular user of weed prior to legalization, my tolerance is low and 5~7mg of THC seems to be the sweet spot where I can still be in control of my actions with more pleasurable sensations and toss out inhibitions.
The best sex of my life was while on weed that also made me last longer without stopping to change positions or do foreplay some more.
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