"I've never been with a black girl"

[EagerBeaver]

In my experience CIM is a YMMV service, meaning many ladies will say no to most clients and yes to regulars or clients with whom certain comfort level is achieved, and none of that has anything to do with skin color. Extra $ may or may not matter.

The posters who seem to think that SPs robotically and uniformly perform the same menu of services for all clients are misinformed. Comfort and connection levels, hygiene, money, and age or looks all play some role in the YMMV distribution of services.

In my own experience black ladies have been much more liberal in services than white, and this was true of both SA friends with benefits and professional escorts. My own opinion is that this was partly for social/cultural reasons.

 

[ShyMan]

Comfort and connection levels, hygiene, money, and age or looks all play some role in the YMMV distribution of services..

That's why I shave, shower thoroughly, floss and brush teeth, chew gum, and put on some light cologne before I see an SP -- I treat it like I'm going out on a date with any lady: hope for the best, but do not expect anything.

Hey, EB, it's nice that you're back posting regularly. Montreal misses you, EB. I know you've shared your experiences about being with SB's who happen to be black. Perhaps you'll have the pleasure of meeting Kyla.

 

[AdeleBeaumont]

YMMV works both way a ome people might give you a different vibe. Some men will allow me to be all flirty and cuddle a lot because I know they're receiptive while other men won't even kiss me because that is not the experience they're looking for

 

[CLOUD 500]

Hard to imagine any man not wanting to kiss you.

Some people are just very conservative that way and consider DFK only for their GF/wife.

 

[dapiaoke]

this kind of scares me a little since as a Chinese man(not asian Canadian) myself who is on the fence of diving into this hobby and only had one girlfriend before. no matter who I choose, caucasian/African/latino/etc, is gonna be my FIRST and honestly it is kind of exciting to me, haha. does that really turn people off?

since we are on this topic, I'm a little curious about how client's background would cause some troubles? this is a sincere question and I'm not insinuating anything. I understand some people would feel weird around a foreign person(not the US foreign, but about 9000 km away foreign, lol). Besides, I'm not a smooth guy at all, so if the girl feels weird, I'm gonna feel weird and this will lead to an awkward situation that will definitely destroy my mood if you know what I'm talking about. Any insights to share?

 

[hungry101]

Don't worry. She is paid to make you feel comfortable. But it goes both ways. There are lots of tips on this site to help you to make your date go smoothly.

SPs that make the statement "I don't want to be objectified and fetishized" are just whining and looking for something to bitch about. Most are going to feel like Kayla. I don't pay women 200$/hour to put them up on a pedestal...If I do it is so I can look up their tight black dress. LOL I treat them nice. I remember being a bit nervous my first time and girls settling my nerves. I have done the same for girls new to the business.

 

[jalimon]

Besides, I'm not a smooth guy at all

What does that mean?

If it can help you Asian represent the majority of client for Montreal agency so unless the girl is brand new to the biz she will have seen a couple of dudes your type before

Cheers,

 

[Flyingby]

Jalimon. It means he’s hairy. Lol
No it means he is lacking in the charm department
Don’t worry about it daplaoke
Just be polite. Well groomed. Make sure your dick don’t stink. Bring chocolate. And let the lady do the rest.
Oh and do not toft.
And. Ask the booker who he recommends for your first time
This is not pretty woman. You are not saving her. You are getting laid

 

[gaby]

Some people are just very conservative that way and consider DFK only for their GF/wife.

Perhaps BUT most of the time it is the sp qui trouve le DFK trop engageant---too intime et personnel.......it could seem strange mais c'est souvent la réalité....that's why many are more in LFK.....even if they enjoy DATY and doing BBBJ.

 

[Flyingby]

Really, they don’t mind cheating on their GF/ wife but won’t kiss.
This is about as ridiculous as an escort who won’t DFK but will do anal and everything else.

Yeah I know I am going to get all kinds of commments how it’s too personal, sorry sucking someone’s dick is also personal.
Too me it is mental BS.

A friend once told me. The best way to get dfk is to tell the girl. Look if dfk is for your personal life. I am cool with that. I just came here to bing bang boom
Works like a charm. Dfk in abundance every time
But i do get that kissing is intimate. Not all girls want to and we as gentlemen need to respect that. As long as she puts my dick in her mouth the rest dosen’t matter

 

[gaby]

Interesting reading.....don't forget for many many women DFK---intense and passionnate kissing---is the more POWERFUL symbole de l'engagement amoureux--it means for them real love and passion .....that's why souvent comme on dit elles se gardent une petite gêne....BUT very often in the heat of the moment elles vont succomber.....pour notre plus grand palisir.

 

[Flyingby]

Ok. Back to black girls. Black girls anybody?

 

[Flyingby]

Black girls....anybody...? Or brown

 

[AdeleBeaumont]

I'm a little curious about how client's background would cause some troubles? this is a sincere question and I'm not insinuating anything. I understand some people would feel weird around a foreign person(not the US foreign, but about 9000 km away foreign, lol).

I know some of my colleagues refuse to see black, indian gentlemen. Personally I don't mind and do not discriminate.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Really, they don’t mind cheating on their GF/ wife but won’t kiss.
This is about as ridiculous as an escort who won’t DFK but will do anal and everything else.

Sorry sucking someone’s dick is also personal.
Too me it is mental BS.

I completely agree with you on this 100%. But it is how they think. For myself No DFK = No booking for me. I had girls that did DFK and BBBJ but did not want DATY they reserved that for BF only.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Yes back to black girls.
Yes love black girls especially the ones that offer DFK.

Me too. I only see Black girls or Latina girls. DFK and BBBJ is a must for me.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Now what is this about first time seeing a black woman? I have seen two in my life, as I said before color makes no difference it is looks when it comes down to who I prefer. If Scarlett Johansson was black she would still be near the top of my list.

 

[hungry101]

Now what is this about first time seeing a black woman? I have seen two in my life, as I said before color makes no difference it is looks when it comes down to who I prefer. If Scarlett Johansson was black she would still be near the top of my list.

You mean if she were Mulatto/Bi-racial or if she had African features? I tend to gravitate toward the former. I think that the mix is the best of both worlds and I find myself running to them in Brazil. But somehow I feel like this is cheating.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

You mean if she were Mulatto/Bi-racial or if she had African features? I tend to gravitate toward the former. I think that the mix is the best of both worlds and I find myself running to them in Brazil. But somehow I feel like this is cheating.

No, if just her skin color changed and all her features stayed the same... That look is what I prefer. Halle Berry is an excellent example also of outstanding but not many Halle Berrys around and lots of Scarlett Johansson types.

 

[hungry101]

To Sol Tee - Spoken like someone who has not been to Brazil. There are so many to be had there. The closest in Montreal would be Gabrielle Garnier. I think there are a few others but she comes to mind. Do you feel like you are with a black women if you are with Gabrielle? Yes, I realize it doesn't really matter but for the original topic of the thread, is a girl like this considered black/ ebony? I'm not sure. She's obviously a little of both...and I love it.