Just curious is everyone a regular "hobbyist"? Or any occasional SP users for fun lik

[Johnny]

Is everyone here a serious "hobbyist"?

Or is there anyone else here like me who calls SP's just occasionally say after a break up/time apart with a girlfriend as I am doing, a divorce, or just once in awhile when you're really horny & single & don't feel like going out looking for women to date?

My girlfriend & I are taking a long over due break or what some might call time apart.

I was going through a dry spell before I started dating this girl & from
2000-2002 I was a regular of 4 sexy ladies a Grand Prix (I wonder if any of them are still there or at neighboring FS clubs?

& then I dated this almost 6ft brunette with big strong legs & round, large firm butt that I was just nuts over. But she moved back to Pittsburgh as she was only here for 4yrs for school & had graduated so I called the Internationals agency & hooked up with this tall sexy European lady more than a few times as she helped me forget the girl who moved back to Pittsburgh.

Just wondering if I'm the only one like this here?

This is why I don't post much regarding experiences with ladies as I am a loyal guy to the person that I may be dating at the time.

 

[breadman]

Guess im right in the middle of 'regular hobbyist' and 'occasional user'. I only do this when im on vacation, might be tempted to do it more while at home....but the cost and quality isnt anywhere near the same as Montreal and Toronto. So i make anywhere from three to five trips a year....so what i miss out in terms of trips i try to make it back with numbers.

Personally ive never done a trip while i was seeing someone, if i happened to be in a relationship or even just seriously dating id vacation with the girl i was seeing at the time.

The real question is does the hobby hurt future relationships that might happen. You see some totally hot chick and then pass on a possible good relationship cause your looking for something more....

 

[Johnny]

breadman

Guess im right in the middle of 'regular hobbyist' and 'occasional user'. I only do this when im on vacation, might be tempted to do it more while at home....but the cost and quality isnt anywhere near the same as Montreal and Toronto. So i make anywhere from three to five trips a year....so what i miss out in terms of trips i try to make it back with numbers.

Personally ive never done a trip while i was seeing someone, if i happened to be in a relationship or even just seriously dating id vacation with the girl i was seeing at the time.

The real question is does the hobby hurt future relationships that might happen. You see some totally hot chick and then pass on a possible good relationship cause your looking for something more....

I totally agree with you.

I think this is why I keep it on the occasional level.

 

[dummy]

Same here. Only when I'm in business trips .

 

[Johnny]

Well I'm certainly an occasional user but in my home town.

As you know I've been dating a girl for the last 2.5yrs that I relly care about, but she thinks we need time apart.

So I'm ready to have some fun.

Being the loyal guy that I am, dating her has refrained me from calling anyone here.

I even met 3 hotties at my gym in the summer who wanted to have some fun (non SP girls) but I turned them down even though things were bad.

It's been a year that things have not been good. Not a lot of intimacy which is a great deal of the problem. She used to be really into it, say 2-3 times a week & now for a long while once a month if I'm lucky & there's been nothing for the last 5-6 months.

Pretty crazy eh?

So I think I deserve some fun.

 

[naughtylady]

Johnny, I think you need to talk with your girl. Point out how long it has been and ask if it is over (some girls have a very hard time breaking up and just wait for the guy to end it) Try to stick with "I" statements. You don't want to put her on the defensive. If she insists it is not over then, ask what is wrong and what can be done to change it. That is if you want to keep this relationship.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[Johnny]

naughtylady

Johnny, I think you need to talk with your girl. Point out how long it has been and ask if it is over (some girls have a very hard time breaking up and just wait for the guy to end it) Try to stick with "I" statements. You don't want to put her on the defensive. If she insists it is not over then, ask what is wrong and what can be done to change it. That is if you want to keep this relationship.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

Well it's been an on going thing for almost a year now.

She wants time apart, & just last night she said she's not sure if she want to continue period.

She says even though she said it wouldn't bother her if I went out & had fun, went out with friends & so on, but now she says it would bother her.

It's been almost 6 months since our last encounter. We argue frequently, she's always on the defensive & becomes critical & hurtful towards me b/c I'm going back to school so I won't be earning enough.

We're not married or living together, she's 23 & living at home while I'm 27yrs old.

Don't get me wrong, I care about her a great deal, but it just doesn't seem to work any more.

There's no more closeness, intimacy or fun mostly on her part as I take her out to dinner even though I'm not rich, I used to pic her up at Concordia all the time, & I had very often picked her up at cote vertu metro when I had a chance during work, & helped out her parents quite a bit like giving them rides & other things around the house.

I feel like I haven't been getting a lot in return this whole past year as it's now been just over 2.5yrs together.

& believe you me, I've tried this whole year talking to her & it always winds up in a defensive argument with a he said she said game.

Her sex drive used to be 2-3 times a week on average & more if time permitted, it's now been almost 6 months since we've done anything like that together.

She has had for a long time a stomach condition that she's had to take weekly injections for the past year which she says plays some part in her change of personality, I've been totally supportive to her in that regards, but a person can only take someone giving soooo much & receive not much in return for a whole year.

So I am ready to have some fun.

I will talk to her today, but as of last night she says she's ending & probably won't change her mind.

She's very stubborn & usually thinks she's right all the time as she's in psychology.

So I'm just looking for the right moment to have some fun, I think I deserve it after all of this.

 

[B1G]

Johnny...

I've had such a similar experience that if I was to tell you the story someone might think I was just repeating your story.

I don't want to get you down but.... it ended up in a divorce after four years

 

[Johnny]

B1G

I've had such a similar experience that if I was to tell you the story someone might think I was just repeating your story.

I don't want to get you down but.... it ended up in a divorce after four years

I feel for you man.

But we can't let women take advantage of us.

Not trying to be mean here, but I've always said that women already have a pussy, they don't need or want to be with another one LOL




As of Sunday my "GF" says she wants out & there's nothing I can say to change her mind.

She blames me for our problems go figure when I was nothing but good to her.

All I can say is whatever.

I'm ready to have some fun LOL.

 

[naughtylady]

Sounds to me that it is time to end the relationship, seems like you are being used.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[Studgrade]

Is everyone here a serious "hobbyist"?

Or is there anyone else here like me who calls SP's just occasionally say after a break up/time apart with a girlfriend as I am doing, a divorce, or just once in awhile when you're really horny & single & don't feel like going out looking for women to date?

My girlfriend & I are taking a long over due break or what some might call time apart.

I was going through a dry spell before I started dating this girl & from
2000-2002 I was a regular of 4 sexy ladies a Grand Prix (I wonder if any of them are still there or at neighboring FS clubs?

& then I dated this almost 6ft brunette with big strong legs & round, large firm butt that I was just nuts over. But she moved back to Pittsburgh as she was only here for 4yrs for school & had graduated so I called the Internationals agency & hooked up with this tall sexy European lady more than a few times as she helped me forget the girl who moved back to Pittsburgh.

Just wondering if I'm the only one like this here?

This is why I don't post much regarding experiences with ladies as I am a loyal guy to the person that I may be dating at the time.

To the original question of this thread, I started this hobby in august 2004. And I have been a regular user of SP's in my home town of Sherbrooke since then. And I also go to Montreal to live the trip of seeing new girls at MP's. It's been a wild ride since the beginning. Some good and some bad. I've been single with no regurlar girlfriend for a year now, so I don't hurt or go behind anybody's back when I indulge.But the moment that I will have a girlfriend, I will put this hobby on the back burner.And it wont be a problem for me to do that. I'll tell you thow, in the past 8 months in this hobby, I've met a lot of very nice and interesting girls. It's just incredible.

Johnny, What was the names of the 4 girls that you saw on a regular basis at Grand Prix? Maybe I can help you to find out if they are still around.

 

[hobby11]

regular

i go to fs club 1 or 2 a week and i use outcall 1 or 2 a week too
i guess i am a regular user...