Just got turned down

[Lily from Montreal]

Careful muffin, remember some Merbites has no sense of humour and are going to think you are ugly and unpleasant ...I promise I will testify for you...no charge lol...hum, I wonder if it would qualify as freebies as per some other thread I read lately? xxx

 

[muffinbuffer]

Careful muffin, remember some Merbites has no sense of humour and are going to think you are ugly and unpleasant ...I promise I will testify for you...no charge lol...hum, I wonder if it would qualify as freebies as per some other thread I read lately? xxx

But, with very few exceptions such as your lovely self, I'm not going to be seeing any other MERBites...

 

[PMikey]

From the way you describe things, I'd say it was more to do with the lady herself (and the way she was feeing at that time) than with you, so I wouldn't take it too hard.

My worst experience: Finishing up and having the Lady in question look at me with a look of derision and say "That was it?"
I don't think I've ever felt fully relaxed with an escort since that night. And that was a looooong time ago.

It's amazing how some silly little thing like your encounter or mine can actually undermine one's confidence for years to follow.

 

[EagerBeaver]

From the way you describe things, I'd say it was more to do with the lady herself (and the way she was feeing at that time) than with you, so I wouldn't take it too hard.

My same reaction. This thread is essentially a whole lot of drama over nothing. For all we know the girl had too much to drink and was sick/out of it and that's why she was uncomfortable. Since she is not named, there is also a layer of fictional drama to the thread. I would say we are better off reading John Grisham's latest novel.

 

[Red Paul]

Muffinbuffer -- Eager's literary criticism aside, is there a reason you'd rather not name the girl and agency?

My worst experience: Finishing up and having the Lady in question look at me with a look of derision and say "That was it?"
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Wow, talk about no class. And if it was such a non-event, she should have been grateful to get money for minimum work.

 

[Merlot]

I just got turned down by an escort for the first time.

Wow,

I have to agree with HJ. Didn't a lot of you get into this to avoid the Wife Experience.

This has never happened to me but I wish it had once or twice. One gorgeous HDH thought the view was worth most of a two-hour meeting, then said I had 15 minutes for sex. I was robbed for about 85% of $500. Never again.

You got lucky MB.

...there is also a layer of fictional drama to the thread.

Even if that is possible, why the need to cast doubt on a highly respected member, especially when neither the lady nor an agency was made accountable. I have faith in MB's honesty.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[wasisname]

Finishing up and having the Lady in question look at me with a look of derision and say "That was it?"
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Better than her asking "Is it in yet" Not that has ever happened to me.

 

[Numerati]

I got rejected once. By Caroline of FKS on my second dinner "date" with her. This was in March of 2009 from what I remember correctly. First encounter was in October 2008 at the Vieux Port for a 4-hour dinner date. Date was awesome and we got along great. Then around March 2009 she went indie as Lilly Pearl. During the day time of our scheduled rendezvous she called left a message and stated she could not make it because it was too late in the evening. From the sound of her voice I sensed there were some major hesitation. Hmmm... was it something I said? Then emailed her if we could meet two hours earlier and she immediately got back to me that the change would be great. So it was still a go. Then around by mid-afternoon while I was in the middle of my meeting with Veronika I got another voice mail message from Caroline that she changed her mind and once again she has to cancel. Oh well. No point of beating a dead horse. Then two hours later I got a pretty long e-mail from her explaining her reason. She got a boyfriend and felt really guilty of escorting so not long after she pulled to plug altogether and left the game.

Flash forward a year and four months later, she was back in the game with FKS. This was around July of 2009. This time was able to see her again and listened as to why she came back and why she broke up with her 40ish manchild of a boyfriend. After hearing her story I realized she was better off sucking cock for money.

This whole thing is a game really so I didn't take the rejection personally. Also this is a fantasy and we most likely would not give each other the time of day if this was under real life regular circumstances. Plus there are other girls out there but I just didn't like the hee-hawing that wasted my time/resources and had me scrambling for a change of plans at the last minute.

 

[muffinbuffer]

This thread is essentially a whole lot of drama over nothing.

I guess I really don't see "a whole lot of drama". I was thinking more "bemusement" than anything else, although it did toss a spanner into my carefully-crafted scheme.

Is this on the list of forbidden topics? There have been threads in the past about clients refusing escorts and vice-versa. It didn't occur to me that this one would offend anyone's tender sensibilities.

Since she is not named, there is also a layer of fictional drama to the thread.

Eager's literary criticism aside, is there a reason you'd rather not name the girl and agency?

I really don't see the point. It's certainly not the agency's fault. They're deservedly popular and I've used them many times before and plan to use them often in the future. They contacted me immediately to see about supplying a replacement, which unfortunately didn't work out.

As far as the girl goes, she's got generally good reviews and I suspect I looked like her father or something. Maybe I said or did something that triggered her. Maybe she felt ill. I just can't see how naming her would help anyone.

If anyone can make a case for how identifying the girl could be useful, I can do so.

 

[muffinbuffer]

he was lame ... that one was a pity fuck

Umm... my feet are sore and really tired from walking around so much this week...

Does that inspire sufficient pity? :eyebrows:

 

[EagerBeaver]

It didn't occur to me that this one would offend anyone's tender sensibilities.

I don't think anyone is offended. The fact that the thread is based on possibly inaccurate speculation needs to be emphasized, but on the other hand most of the threads on this issue in the past were also started based on some level of speculation. This one seems to be a little higher than normal level of speculation, meaning it does not deserve as much attention as it has received. That being said, there is nothing wrong with or offensive about the thread per se.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

No muffin, I could list you a number of feeling you evoke but pity doesn't make the cut loll..hum I really watched to much golf this season...I even start to use the vocabulary loll

 

[Red Paul]

If anyone can make a case for how identifying the girl could be useful, I can do so.

It would just be this: her behavior sounds a bit flaky, and most clients would like to avoid flaky SPs if possible. After all, if you go the trouble of setting aside time and renting a place, it's better not to have the girl back out for no discernible reason.

But if her behavior struck you as a oneoff not likely to be repeated, so be it.

 

[evillethings]

Muffin Man, i think your rep proceeds you... the girl probably knew she had nothing left in the gas tank for ur patented routine (+2SOG, cocktail of kama sutra MPOS, + face/mouth/chest finish) all in a 50min window. i mean ... i'm afraid of you. :hail: ... but probably even more so of your wife's ability to pick your girls.

 

[evillethings]

btw, i'm looking fwd to your trip report... i've been in need of some muffinbuffer inspiration/Rx.

 

[muffinbuffer]

Ok, this is getting odd now...

Since I posted this I've seen two girls who were initially just certain they'd seen me before, and none too happy about it. One wouldn't go into much detail but noticed my eye color and realized I wasn't who she'd thought. The other demurred at first but later said she was relieved since the person she remembered was "not gentle... not gentle at all" and became convinced I wasn't who she'd remembered based on my behavior. Both were quite clear that their restrictions included not having their hair pulled and not being hit, which gives me a hint of what "not gentle" means.

I'm quite sure I've not seen either of those girls before (though it turns out one of my other appointments was an unintentional repeat), but it seems there's some other fat, old guy that resembles me out there who needs to quit this hobby before things turn ugly.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Maybe the 1st girl rejected you because of your resemblance to the same bedroom bully?

 

[muffinbuffer]

Maybe the 1st girl rejected you because of your resemblance to the same bedroom bully?

I'm certainly wondering about that now.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Maybe its the age :lol:

Not nice jnutz..unless of course you were refering to the age of my favorite friends ? I love golf to watch on a rainy Sunday afternoon...not to play...i am not into sports...i do my cardio in bed loll

Evil: muffin wife is my idol...a kindered spirit!

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Can we agree to disagree ? My reality is others fantasy my dear beaver... Or shall I say one of my realities...I do agree that some of my lives are as boring as others...