Life of a retired SP?

[curly]

Ladies here, I'm curious....

Although I realize those of you who visit the forum here are likely presently active in the industry, I've always wondered what it was like for you to quit once and for good.

There may be many reasons for you to do so (life moving on, love, burn-out or boredom, move), but I'm wondering how you deal with the following:

- less money or having to earn it at common citizen's salary rates?
- less partners or a single partner. Mind you, you may not like all or even most of your partner in the industry, but can you or do you see yourself capable of being the woman of a single man for your life?
- Regular 9-5 work hours
- less sex maybe? Good or bad? Boredom?
- the aftermath of having done this as a work for a period of your life? Was cool? Guilt? Been there done that?

Is it a difficult transition or to the contrary a welcome relief? Was it a difficult decision to make? Any other aspcects I'm missing?

 

[gaby]

Many of those i met were students and doing that to pay school and expenses...as soon they graduate they found a real job qui répond à leurs aspirations ....ont elles aimé leur expérience ou non.....bien difficile de répondre...elles seules pourraient nous le dire.....mais j'en doute....elles sont vraiment passées à autre chose.

 

[minutemenX]

I know and sometimes communicate with several SPs after their retirement. Most of them are married with kids and don’t miss their SP years. Though they don’t regret it either considering a valuable and interesting experience. Their husbands/boyfriends I believe have no idea about wife SP history and this is probably the key for continuous relationship. Otherwise it is a time bomb that can eventually go off anytime.

 

[ssj3]

You ask a lot of interesting questions curly. I've kept in contact with one retired SP and she could not be happier with her decision. Towards the end, it was getting really stressful for her to the point that it was affecting her health. She has told me numerous times that she can't believe she even was an SP and couldn't imagine ever going back to it. I for one am really happy for her as she is doing so well now.

 

[curly]

Thanks so much SolidSnake for sharing with us details about your post-SP life. Most informative!

 

[westwoody]

Two of my best friends are retired ladies. One is a soccer mom the other an empty nester with adult kids.

One escorted when family disaster happened, it was a quick buck, and turned into a good career. Eventually she might the right guy as a client and her retirement was carefully planned.
The other worked in a service industry. She constantly had guys propositioning her. One day she took a guy up on his offer. She did it a lot for a few years and tapered to under the radar and a few select clients. Again, the right client came along. When the time was right she quit.
Both husbands know everything. This is too big a secret to hide. Keeping it secret would be very stressful, and eventually it would come out.

Neither of them worries about money much. Neither really cares much about designer clothes or jewellery. I gave one a Louis Vuitton bag a few years ago and she told me I was foolish to waste my money. Of course both had very good candidates from which to choose a husband.

Both are very loyal to their husbands. Although I was a good customer the subject of sex never comes up. One is still drop dead gorgeous but I don't think she even realises it. Also they look so different now none of their customers would recognise them, still good, but different. One said to me that "having sex for a job was a good way to take all the fun out of it".

Neither of the husbands treat them as hookers or trophy brides or arm candy.

They are both very happy and satisfied that they made the right decisions. From what I see both enjoy the normality and security of daily routines and steady jobs. No more having to constantly adjust their schedule to fit in "appointments", no more dropping what they are doing because a Tier 1 customer wants to see them in half an hour.

They both have a very sensible outlook on life. I am happy for them.

 

[curly]

Any views from any ladies here?

 

[tincan]

The lovely Chloe Milan now helps SPs run their business websites.

In general the money drys up very fast and they go back to being girl next door. Normal life, job, and salary. Hopefully they left with a bit of money in the bank and a plan. But essentially they are no different to any other lady you walk pat on the street.

 

[Halloween Mike]

There so much different options.

I know one of my former favourite got herself a sugar daddy, billionaire from her words. She was living THE lifestyle if i can say including parties and all it include, and i am sure she couldn't had lived without this, she couldn't had get herself a regular job as a waitress or whatever. Yet when that dude came in the picture, she was gone. She probably has an unlimited source of funds now, and she only have to sleep with him instead of 13 different guys in a week. Maybe she actually grew to love him too, who knows, or maybe she just use him. I dunno. All that matter is she is happy this way. While me i can only dream of seeing her again.. wich is VERY unlikely now. I did actually dream of her recently... lol

 

[jalimon]

Its not retirement, its moving to something else. Most stop before their 30's. I myself went to university in my late 20's and made it very good since. They can do the same.

I suggest these girls to carefully plan their exit and never look back on it.

And actually I suspect the best one (the wise one who put all money aside and stay away from drugs...) will be able to achieve great career. Being a great escort is to adapt to any client in a matter of a few minutes. It's being able to turn any situation into a positive one. Things that also work perfectly in any work related situation.

Cheers,

 

[Cruiser777]

I know and sometimes communicate with several SPs after their retirement. Most of them are married with kids and don’t miss their SP years. Though they don’t regret it either considering a valuable and interesting experience. Their husbands/boyfriends I believe have no idea about wife SP history and this is probably the key for continuous relationship. Otherwise it is a time bomb that can eventually go off anytime.

There are few who married to clients and are doing very very well, kids and everything...

Knowing and putting aside their past and moving along is the key for those relationship, no time bomb scenario in
these particular cases.

Its not retirement, its moving to something else.

I suggest these girls to carefully plan their exit and never look back on it.

Cheers,

Good points, as I have discussed and suggested few pointers to few girls, the ones who actually
made it to university, so far haven't returned back to this business.

(Also "Coincidentally", very few / minimal tattoos on these girls).

 

[Julia Sky]

(Also "Coincidentally", very few / minimal tattoos on these girls).

Wow that's kinda rude and judgemental. It IS a coincidence. Maybe '''''coincidentally''''' you just like girls with less tattoos and therefore you don't know that many girls with tattoos ? I know inked successfull billionaires who went to university and did something amazing with their life. More than you'd think. Believe it or not.

wow people sometimes.... This is 2017. Maybe you were born in 1612, but in 2017, tattoos do not mean piece of shit, nor do they mean mentally disabled, or lazy, or stupid. A tattoo really just means what the person wearing it wants it to mean. It's a piece of art, not a symbol of being a failure who will never go to university or have a life, lol.

 

[jalimon]

(Also "Coincidentally", very few / minimal tattoos on these girls).

Agree with your post below except this. Older dudes should learn tattoos are not a tramp mark or representation of rebellion anymore! Tattoo is art. It's an art that you put on your body. Why not? Like any art you can like it or not, but need to stop seeing it negatively. It's beautiful!! Even on girl that has many.

Cheers,

 

[Julia Sky]

Thank you Jalimon. I think you said it better than me

 

[Cruiser777]

Wow that's kinda rude and judgemental. It IS a coincidence. Maybe '''''coincidentally''''' you just like girls with less tattoos and therefore you don't know that many girls with tattoos ? I know inked successfull billionaires who went to university and did something amazing with their life. More than you'd think. Believe it or not.

wow people sometimes.... This is 2017. Maybe you were born in 1612, but in 2017, tattoos do not mean piece of shit, nor do they mean mentally disabled, or lazy, or stupid. A tattoo really just means what the person wearing it wants it to mean. It's a piece of art, not a symbol of being a failure who will never go to university or have a life, lol.

Well...I didn't want to push any button here or upset anyone, merely stating the facts, just an observation.
(And there is no reason to be rude) (NO I wasn't born in 1612, maybe 1712).

Based on what I see, clubs, nightlife, strip joints, etc...tattoos all over, go to work, highly skilled engineering environment and
non of the girls in those positions have any tattoos (Is it coincidence ?).

Agree with your post below except this. Older dudes should learn tattoos are not a tramp mark or representation of rebellion anymore! Tattoo is art. It's an art that you put on your body. Why not? Like any art you can like it or not, but need to stop seeing it negatively. It's beautiful!! Even on girl that has many.

Cheers,

Most of my MERBites friends over here they know this fact that, the girl who I have seen the most that goes way back few years
and still see her these days is the Most Tattood girl of any SPs in the business today.

 

[Titilleur]

Tattoos are like bumper stickers on a ferrari...

Sorry, I don't like tattoos... and bumper stickers.

 

[jalimon]

We are a bit off track. Let's get back to thread subject.

I was a barman up to my late 20's when I decided to do something else. Went to university, founded a few companies and some did well. Did I retire from bartending? Not really, I just moved on. Hopefully same with these girls they move on to what they think is a better life.

As for sex it's a non issue. The beauty of being a girl is that you can decide when you want some.

Cheers,

 

[Julia Sky]

''There is no reason to be rude'' You're being rude to an ENTIRE category of human beings simply because YOU don't like tattoos.

Based on what you see... Well what you see isn't exactly 100% of humanity. Hello there. Welcome to planet earth where people exist out of your sight and life.

If YOUR boss doesn't hire inked girls, up to him. It doesnt mean others don't. Do you think your work is the only high skill job in the world, darling ?! I know lots of inked up people who have GREAT jobs, who make good money, some of them own their own companies, I know inked lawyers, inked doctors, inked police officers, inked businesswomen/men, I know inked nurses, inked engineers, inked girls working good jobs in mechanics, accounting, psychology, teachers, inked all-you-want. I know a lot of inked people. A WHOLE fucking lot. Hundreds, thousands of them.

What you see actually depends a lot on your own self, experiences, and the type of people you like. You seem to hate tattoos, or at least you judge people who wear them. Therefore you probably don't hangout with a majority of inked people. Who the fuck are you to take a guess on what these people do for a living ? I love ink and therefore know plenty of inked people. ''based on what I see'', My experience towards inked people probably has more solid bases than your judgemental experience lol.

Some women have been escorting for 20 years and dont have tattoos by the way... But you don't exactly notice or talk about them the same way you mention inked escorts simply because you don't hate them as much. Ever thought about that ?

Okay thank youuuuuu

 

[jalimon]

Trouble is they do tend to lose their appeal once they get into their fifties and sixties but I guess that happens to all of us even without tattoos.

haha true who cares! When was the last time you saw a 70 year old woman down in a bikini on the beach and screamed 'fucking tight!!!!'

Have and assume your tattoo has piece of art, as they are.

And Julia, before you last post, you should just have an extra glass of red wine and chill out

Cheers,

 

[curly]

Guy, could you start a tattoo thread? Ans in the mean time get back on track talking SP retirement here?