Long term arrangements

[The Nature Boy]

J'aime beaucoup cette approche en fait. Cependant, mon hypothèse était que, comme dans la vie civile, vous ne pouvez avoir qu'une idée partielle de la façon dont deux personnes s'entendent via la messagerie texte et FaceTime. La vraie idée de savoir s'il y a ou non une bonne chimie est une réunion en personne. s'il n'y a pas de chimie, les deux parties peuvent se séparer. Tout ce que vous avez perdu, c'est d'acheter à quelqu'un une tasse de café ou quelques verres. Avez-vous déjà été dans une situation où quelqu'un est venu dans votre appartement et vous n'avez simplement pas cliqué avec lui?

 

[moliere]

Avez-vous déjà été dans une situation où quelqu'un est venu dans votre appartement et vous n'avez simplement pas cliqué avec lui?

La réponse est non. Il faut dire que les filles qui acceptent de rencontrer un inconnu chez lui sont généralement ouvertes d'esprit et fonceuses. En plein mon genre !!

 

[The Nature Boy]

compris mon ami. point bien fait

 

[oobe]

Sauf que pour obtenir un #tel, la plupart des filles veulent avoir une idée de ce que on a à offrir. Anyway, c'est comme ça à Québec

(à Mtl) si la fille te pose la question, tu peux lui répondre que SA n'aime pas trop les discussions d'argent et lui proposer de continuer avec un autre mode de communication. Évidemment après tu te retrouves à installer whatsapp, insta, kik, snap et 2-3 autres pour t'adapter aux goûts de tout le monde, mais bon... la plupart du temps je propose rapidement de switcher "parce que ça sera plus pratique" ou "parce que SA perd des messages", et je n'ai jamais eu une fille qui refusait

 

[moliere]

proposer de continuer avec un autre mode de communication. Évidemment après tu te retrouves à installer whatsapp, insta, kik, snap et 2-3 autres pour t'adapter aux goûts de tout le monde, mais bon... la plupart du temps je propose rapidement de switcher "parce que ça sera plus pratique" ou "parce que SA perd des messages", et je n'ai jamais eu une fille qui refusait

Ça donne quoi de plus ces app par rapport aux simples textos??

 

[oobe]

Ça donne quoi de plus ces app par rapport aux simples textos??

Juste s'adapter à ce que chaque fille préfère!

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Sorry to contradict EB,

I have been on SA for what, 4 years? Maybe 5 years?... I have almost always talked about he financials directly on the site. Never been banned.

It's an instant ban if you are being reported by a woman who didn't like you and is kinda "bitch" (sorry for the expresion), not only the fact of talking about money. But I agree with you that it's more risky.

I've been on the site for even longer than the Beav and I would agree with him. I never discuss particulars other than face to face.

Unfortunately, I'm back on the site, my lover of the last 4 1/2 years having returned to BC this past September to help take care of aging relatives. I'll be receiving her potential replacement this evening.

 

[EagerBeaver]

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[EagerBeaver]

allocation per month in Montreal? I heard it's usually around rent of 1 bedroom apartment in your city.

I have never had a monthly arrangement in 6 years on the site- including having met girls in Montreal. Pay per meet (PPM). Girls disappear on you when you do monthly arrangements. Most women warm to PPM if you do not have to have sex on the first date and show some interest in getting to know them. This is the mentality you have to have on the site or you will not be successful or your success rate will be poor.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I never had any credit card transaction with SA blocked. Try a new credit card or bank.

 

[slow&steady]

I got booted after 1 year there...... anyone ever get banned?

 

[lovemilf]

I got booted after 1 year there...... anyone ever get banned?

Is there any way to buy a membership without a credit card?


Did the ashley madison thing site was hacked and kept getting ransom emails for payment in bitcoin. Ignored never answered went away. Not willing to risk it again

 

[CaptRenault]

Is there any way to buy a membership without a credit card?

No.

 

[blakhouze]

Is there any way to buy a membership without a credit card?


Did the ashley madison thing site was hacked and kept getting ransom emails for payment in bitcoin. Ignored never answered went away. Not willing to risk it again

U can try gift cards to avoid names.

 

[lovemilf]

U can try gift cards to avoid names.

Visa gift card works?

 

[CaptRenault]

Visa gift card works?

You can try but I don’t think a gift card will work to pay the membership Fee. But if you are so worried about using your credit card, then Seeking may not be for you.

 

[blakhouze]

Visa gift card works?

Both visa and mastercard worked before. Just make sure you have enough money in it.

 

[CaptRenault]

I have been seeing an escort who is local to the area of the U.S. where I live off and on for a few years. She is an attractive, shapely latina milf and we get along great. During the time that I have known her I have also met a few women from Seeking and I saw one of them regularly for a year.

My regular escort friend is semi retired but she still sees me and a few other clients on an occasional basis. She has been busier with her fulltime job, so it has been harder to find time to meet lately. So I decided to renew my Seeking membership and test the waters again.

My experience has been OK but the two get-to-know-you meetings that I had were big disappointments. The fault is partly mine and partly the fault of the ladies.

Both women had great personalities, pretty faces and seemed like good candidates to strike a deal with. At least they were until I met them in person. Oh, their personalities and faces were as advertised but both women were significantly overweight.

How could I miss this? Well, neither one had a clear full body shot in their profiles and both of them listed their "body type" as "average." To me, they were anything but "average" but I guess if you consider the sad data on the problem of obesity among American women (and men, but I am not at all overweight), then maybe they could be considered "average."

I see many women on the site who list themselves as "average" and looking at their full body photos, they are not what I would consider to be overweight. I am generally pretty forgiving about a woman's weight and I kind of like women who are slightly overweight as long as they have somewhat of a nicely proportioned hourglass figure. I like other types too-"slim," "athletic" and what I would consider to be 'average." Some women who list themselves as "curvy" are much better proportioned than the two "average" women I met.

It's partly my fault--I got sucked in by their pretty faces and nice personalities. But I should have taken the lack of full body photos as a warning sign and from now on I will.

 

[Christian32]

This has been working well for me. Its like Tinder but the numbers are in favor of men. The different is that you have to pay for your dates. But then you can also do what you want on a "first date". For me:
They come to my condo, we play video games, then we go in the bedroom (at that point its up to them, what they are ready to do, it has been varying a lot), then if they want to stay longer, we can eat dinner together.
Total: 300$ (around 2 hours)

I met 5 so far, here's what we did in the bedroom:
1: BBBJ
2: She didn't even want to remove her clothes
3: BBBJ, FS + CIM
4: B2B Massage
5: FS

I am repeating with 2 of them (the CIM one is not among those ). One is actually an ex-masseuse, a very cute and fun girl. I spent the whole evening with her yesterday (3-4 hours), there was not much of sex but it will come and it was still very enjoyable. Its really the ultimate "GFE experience".

The main downside of this site is that, indeed, there's a lot of "not very valuable" girls and its hard to filter... I wish there was a MERB for SA For now I can recommend one for a good bedroom time (the CIM one) and not recommend one (in PM)

 

[LeBoudoir]

How do you buy credits on SA/SB using your cc without the transaction being flagged and declined by the bank? I was buying for the first time as I was interested in this type of arrangement but the transaction got blocked. I was on SB by the way. Also can anyone let me know what is on-going average allocation per month in Montreal? I heard it's usually around rent of 1 bedroom apartment in your city.

I can confirm the ThePerfectGift prepaid Visa cards work on SA