I’m sorry if this post goes completely against what would normally be talked about here but I don’t know where else to turn.
im a 21 year old male and have been getting services from massage parlours and independents for over a few years now. Been probably dozens of times and obviously have spend thousands of dollars.
I don’t think there is anything inherently wrong with this, my problem is just that I feel as though I’m physically dependent (as crazy as that may sound) to these services. I get strong almost irresistible urges every month to go to a parlour or incall and the only way to make these urges go completely away is to get the service done and then I’ll generally have a couple weeks of peace until the urge comes back. I feel this might not be the healthiest thing, most importantly because I’m relatively broke at this stage in my life, barely have any savings and don’t really have the income to justifiably pay 100 bucks or so per month just to get this specific kind of addiction temporarily calmed down.
ideally I’d like to get to a place where I’m only getting a massage as a celebratory event a couple times a year or maybe even not at all until I can comfortably afford it without it having to even be a second thought from a financial point of view. Does anyone have any advice to help me reach that point and beat this addiction?
im a 21 year old male and have been getting services from massage parlours and independents for over a few years now. Been probably dozens of times and obviously have spend thousands of dollars.
I don’t think there is anything inherently wrong with this, my problem is just that I feel as though I’m physically dependent (as crazy as that may sound) to these services. I get strong almost irresistible urges every month to go to a parlour or incall and the only way to make these urges go completely away is to get the service done and then I’ll generally have a couple weeks of peace until the urge comes back. I feel this might not be the healthiest thing, most importantly because I’m relatively broke at this stage in my life, barely have any savings and don’t really have the income to justifiably pay 100 bucks or so per month just to get this specific kind of addiction temporarily calmed down.
ideally I’d like to get to a place where I’m only getting a massage as a celebratory event a couple times a year or maybe even not at all until I can comfortably afford it without it having to even be a second thought from a financial point of view. Does anyone have any advice to help me reach that point and beat this addiction?
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