Sure money is the main reason for women to get into this stripper profesion. Some of them really "get it" how to make big $$$; re: Roxanne, Cindy. With their $1000 plus /shift there was no reason for those two to deal with $200 take-out, despite liking you or not. You really want to target the mid-level earners for affordable take-out.
Now for another approach. There are certainly a fair number of strippers with low to very low self-esteem. Maybe all of them. Playing on the self esteem may get you a long way towards getting some of that prized take-out. Being a regulare, respectful clean cut long time customer is the 1st step. Like previously mentioned, being a good spender who tips is important as well. But I think that pumping up the stripper with well worded and well timed complimentsmay provide the esteem boost that the woman is lacking in her personal life. Be careful though. These women are street wise and can see right through insinsarity. Build up your friendship and avoid superficial compliments like "you have great tits".
Who knows, you might get free take-out like I unintentionally did years ago. I was a regulare of this one particular girl. We hit it off great and I would dance her once a month for about a year. Our pre booth socializing was up to 90min after the 5th visit. Then one springtime late afternoon after about 20 min of chatting, she told me that she wanted to leave her shift early to enjoy the sunshine. So I said ok lets go now to the booths and you can get out of here. Then I almost fell off my chair twice. 1st she says that she is feeling particularely horny and has not had sex in nearly a year and she wanted to know if I would be interested with having some fun for the rest of the day. Rest of the day? Before I could respond she interupted me to further state that under no circumstance was I to pay her. She said that despite her lapdance profession she was no whore, just a woman with needs. What could I possibly say to this fantasy cum true. We had fun for the rest of the day at her plateau apartment no less. I never even tried to bring this up with her and our dances in the booths had zero extras. No kissing, Hj, Digits etc. Just straight normal grinding. This led to a one year once per month friends with benefits arraingment that made me 5 years younger. My self-esteem was pumped.
My second experience was totally intentional. It has not led to take-out yet but I am at the stage where under the right conditions it will happen and by her prompting, for free. She tells me that it would be free because we would probably hook-up in "real" life if not for this strip club setting. My goal is not to fall in love and I make that clear. I just want some variety (sex) with someone who I have a conection. I am willing to pay. Not any price though.