Newbie introduction with a few questions

[longtimers]

ElToro,

Rarely I'll help anyone that ask question that are already answered here. I feel that you are a genuine nice guy. Here's my advice.
Do the search, it's part of the fun and anticipation before the meeting so why not make it last longer than the actual meeting itself. You'll see on the long run that moments before that door open it's a rush!!!

I suggest you to follow EagerBeaver and UncleBob advices for the first year or so depending on the frequency of your hunt.
Then when you know what is really available on the market and you want to hunt on uncommon ground go to annonce123, humpchies, annonceintime and backpage. You need to invest time and money before really meeting a raw gem on these website... so it's not for tourist visiting Montreal for a weekend.

Unclebob is so right about hygiene. Even if you took a shower 30 minutes before the meeting, just get in that bathroom and do a 2 minutes cleanse anyway to have that impression of out of the shower for the girl. They really appreciate the gesture and will give you more in return for a two minutes shower trust me.

Happy hunting in the best city.
Longtimer

 

[ElToro]

Thank you so much for you insights! Some amazing answers in here for sure.
I will read them all very carefully as soon as I return to Montreal in a few days. Will definitly stick to the advertisers until I am more comfortable that is certain.

 

[neverbored]

I'd also like to add that even when dealing with a known agency or indy, there could be a time (very rarely if you read the reviews) when the girl you see really isn't what you're looking for. You rarely see the face and sometimes the pics can be quite photoshopped or worst you just don't like her vibe.

Don't freak out, and understand you can turn a girl away. But there are ways in doing so... undestand that she has nothing to do with it. So just politely let her know and she will most likely call her booker. You can also talk to him and just be frank about what's bugging you. He might even send an alternate up if you're interested. But you should consider giving the girl a tip to at least cover the the driver fee (20$-40$).

Just be realistic and you'll be fine. Good bookers will also help you out and there are great bookers working for the popular agencies.

As others have said... stick to those until you get your feet wet.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Don't freak out, and understand you can turn a girl away. But you should consider giving the girl a tip to at least cover the the driver fee (20$-40$).

I would not be in the habit of turning away girls, because you will get a rep for that, and guess what, girls will not want to take the call, especially if they are otherwise busy. Not worth it. Especially not worth her time if you try and tip $20-$40 which BTW $20 only pays the driver. Then, you would have this newbie working on a rep for being fussy and a cheapass, when he has no rep at all with the agency starting out.

There is a separate thread on this subject in which it is encouraged to turn girls away. If it is a bait and switch situation that is one thing, but with the top 3-4 agencies they don't want or need clients who send girls away with nothing. You do it a few times, either the agency pulls the plug on you, or the girls just tell the driver they don't want the call. Clients who are regulars at any one agency do develop reps, both with the girls and the agency. I have heard of clients getting banned for pushing the envelope on this.

In 15 years I have never turned away a girl in Montreal. If you do your research and know what you want, it probably shouldn't happen except in rare cases.

 

[luvdozer]

Agreed

A new hobbyist should really try to never turn a girl away. Develop a reputation as a good customer towards the girls and the bookers and you will reap rewards later on. If a girl shows up and it is clearly a bait and switch that is a different story, but that just won't happen with a reputable agency or a merb advertising indy.

 

[neverbored]

I din't exactly mean it as finding a reason... but I can't be the only one that went to a reputable agency and had an ugly situation happen?
I won't name the agency in question, but I've had a girl so high on ketamine walk in barely able to walk... she was fired that very instant.

Shit happens...

 

[EagerBeaver]

Never bored,

Those situations are very rare. And yeah, a girl should be refused if she is high regardless of where she comes from. But most of those reliable agencies quickly can girls who have substance issues. You probably got that lady early on in her career before the agency realized she was a problem. However for this newbie those kinds of things (although they do happen) are rare with the top agencies. It's more likely on Craigslist or the equivalent and less likely with a top 5 agency.

 

[UncleBob]

Writing BAD or SO-SO Reviews:

Should you decide to share by doing reviews as suggested by many members, you may end up eventually writing a less than stellar review...

Doing bad or so-so reviews is IMHO more delicate than doing positive reviews.
Some guys are pretty rude and they write bad reviews driven by a strong frustration I guess.
Maybe you better wait to cool down a day or two before writing such reviews...

I still strongly encourage the writing of reviews no matter they're good od bad.

 

[neverbored]

Never bored,

It's more likely on Craigslist or the equivalent and less likely with a top 5 agency.

FYI, this happened with a current top 3 agency... my point wasn't to set him up to expect it and not to fold under the pressure of embarrassment should it happen knowing that any reputable agency will deal with any negative situation with professionalism.

Still... a very unlikely situation with the better agencies and indys for sure.

 

[luvdozer]

Absolutely if a girl shows up high you should refuse her - or ask her if she has any to share. But seriously, that would never be a problem and I think consensus is that it is exceedingly rare.

As for writing bad or so so reviews I agree that it is delicate. First of all, I try to separate looks from service. If I don't find a girl hot, that is my taste, but others will always disagree. As long as her appearance matches photos, then I don't say that I find a girls face unattractive. If it was covered in warts and she was missing teeth, that might be a different story. When it comes to service I try to be objective. I try to describe what I like and whether her service matched that. Just because jane from agency X doesn't give head the way I like, doesn't mean she won't do it the way you like.

I also try to keep personality different from looks and service. Your friendliness and engagement are it the same as how well you do cowgirl. Again I try to be objective and describe what happened in the context of what I was doing. If things are less than perfect, I do look for reasons why she might be a good fit for others. Maybe this girl didn't like kissing me because of my facial hair; maybe things didn't click with that girl because she was waiting for me to direct her and I wasn't doing that. I try to give the benefit of the doubt while also giving readers accurate information to help them find the best matches because the reviews on this board have been so helpful to me.

I never see any reason to be mean or personal. I have written one review the was totally negative because the session was horrible, but I still tried to keep it professional. Since I visit from out of town, I write all my reviews immediately after the session, but I do not post until I return to boston. I re read everything and make edits before posting all reviews at once. It helps to make adjustents after a day or 2

 

[reko8]

Hello all,

First time poster and I had some newbie questions too. Didn't think it warranted a whole new thread and this one seems active. Like El Toro, I'll be going into the Montreal escort scene for the first time in a few weeks. I've been reading (a lot) regarding all of the etiquettes, but I am also seeing some out of date information. Everyone in this thread has been providing some great information. I had a few questions that seem basic but couldn't find a correct answer to.

Do the women accept Canadian or US dollars? I assume CAD, but because every agency uses the dollar sign, just wanted to be sure.
When booking, do you book only the same day or ahead of time through an agency like XO? It seems the women are fully booked frequently and not sure if they are being booked ahead of time or just early in the day.
I'll be staying at a hotel downtown, but will be doing incalls. Where are the incalls generally located? Are they in downtown Montreal or further out?
How are the escorts generally with newbies? I don't want to offend or not do something I'm supposed to when meeting for the first time. It seems it's best to dive in and I should get a feel for it.

 

[ssj3]

Welcome! They accept CAD. The dollar sign is used by Canada as well. With XO you can prebook, but since you’re brand new I would probably give them your merb handle as well just so they can know you’re serious. With Euphoira it would be same day booking. Some agencies only do outcalls but XO and Euphoria both have incall locations that are close to downtown. The girls are pros so in general they will be just fine with newbies. Just tell her you’re brand new at this and she will most likely take the lead.

Tips:

Impeccable hygiene is a must to get good service. If the girl asks you to shower when you arrive go ahead and do it even if you just showered prior to arrival.

If she tells you something is a restriction, don't try to convince her otherwise. I've found that some SPs will lift their restrictions only after you've seen them multiple times and she likes you though.

Never ever ever try to get BBFS. You will get kicked out and the agency will ban you.

Be respectful and kind to the girl. Don't treat her like you own her just because you're paying.

 

[jalimon]

And do like me, say to the girl you daty just like SSJ. Even if your miles from him in daty the girl will get so excited you will win her over

Be early. Have a plan B (tell the booker other free time you have) as change and cancellation happens. Be fun and have fun you are about to enter wonderland

Ho and like SSJ said keep the rubber on the pole!

Cheers,

 

[luvdozer]

All good tips: pay canadian, be clean, be nice, have fun.

Do the first 3 and the girl will almost certainly make sure you experience the fourth.

 

[ElToro]

Wow, leave the board for a few days, and back to pages of info. You guys are real gentlemen and I thank you for the great tips.

I think I've set my mind to start with Amy at Elite. I will see what the schedule is like and take the plunge and will be sure to report back here. I have a lot of catching up to do following my divorce.

Again, thank you so much for the wonderful tips. Will most definitly help me not feel like the nervous newbie walking in.

 

[reko8]

Thank you guys for answering my questions and the tips! Very excited to visit! I'll be sure to post reviews too even though my reviews won't be based off that much experience haha

 

[neverbored]

Thank you guys for answering my questions and the tips! Very excited to visit! I'll be sure to post reviews too even though my reviews won't be based off that much experience haha

I don't think "Hobby" (i hate that term) exprience has anything to do with it. Its your experience as a man we're interested in in the end.

I can only speak for myself, but I love reading reviews, short and long about a guys experience with a girl. The more positive the better of course.
But to read about why a girl made it so amazing is a turn on for me. You can read so many different perspectives from various guys... especially since everyone can have such different experiences with so many of the wonderful women we have around us.
Every voice ads an extra dimension to a provider.

So don't be shy, write anything you wanna write, and there will be a fellow reader that will be thankful you did.

Enjoy your partying gents! Life is too short.

 

[hungry101]

In fact, American $ is generally accepted, but at par.

Do not make the mistake of paying with American at Par. And do not make the even greater mistake of changing money at the airport. You just need $10 Canadian for the 747 bus that takes you downtown from the airport. Then you can go to Calforex and change your US cash to Canadian and make a 25% premium. I see an extra girl just because of the exchange rate. Also, do not make a mistake of renting a car when the hotels will charge you 30-40$/day to park it. You can take a lot of cabs/Uber for that. Do not try to save 20-40$ bucks by using BackPage or Announce 123. Save this for the locals like UB and Snoodle that know the ropes. You need to use the established agencies and indies that advertise in this forum.

Also, be prepared. When the girl comes to your room she is not going to give you the third degree and ask for your plane ticket etc. and the money up front and act like she is ready to bolt. I'll never forget the first two girls I ever saw in Montreal. Both said "let's order a bottle of wine." My experience in the US up to that time was so different than Montreal. The US girls would not drink anything that you offered for fear that you were going to drug them. Today, my first stop after Calforex is the SAQ wine store and buy a bottle of wine for each dates. You can ask for wine glasses from the hotel if they do not provide them or you may have to buy a couple. I lug a wine opener in my luggage.

 

[EagerBeaver]

If you paid in American $ at par for Canadian at $220 for a one hour outcall date, you would actually pay, in equivalent Canadian $ at the current $1.25 exchange rate, $275 in Canadian. That's $55 pissed down the toilet like all your combined urinations today. With $55, you could probably buy a very good meal at a downtown restaurant, with drinks, apps and dessert.

 

[luvdozer]

I am similar to hungry101. The first thing I do after checking in to my airbnb is to go the saq to pick up some wine. I come prepared with bottled water, wine, plus some nice cheese and crackers. Not only do the girls think it is sweet, it's also a conversation starter.

It always comes back to this: be a good client and the providers will make you happy. Nothing guarantees that every single session will be like a trip to valhalla, but in montreal, friendliness is generally well rewarded.