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Of sexuality and gastronomy: an allegory of the evolution of essential human needs

Foodie

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PART 1: Introduction

As individuals we all need to eat. If we do not feed ourselves we die. Eating is a basic essential human need.

As members of the human race we also need to reproduce. If we do not individually have sex, the human race would disappear. Sexuality is also a basic essential human need.
These two basic needs drive survival and modulate animal and human behaviors. They are deeply encoded into our DNA and, despite evolution of the species and the capacity of humans to technologically control both, they remain at the root of our existence. Contrary to other species, humans no longer need to dedicate all energies on survival. The pleasures associated with eating and sex however remain driving behavioral forces shaping human actions and psychology. Our analytical and emotional capacities have however shaped our relationships to both food and sex and introduced “human” refinements and complexities that vary according to gender, age, race, geography, religion, health status and many other factors. Despite this, a very simple fact remains: we need to eat and have sex, they are basic human needs.

In north America and developed countries in general, the past decades have witnessed increasing refinements and variations both at the table and in the bedroom. We no longer eat only to survive and not longer have sex merely to reproduce. The abundance of food and increased life expectancy enabled the development of gastronomy and culinary arts. Humans love to eat, discover new foods and new recipes and share this pleasurable social experience. Similarly, humans have developed a better understanding of their sexual behavior (thanks in part to Masters and Johnson) and developed the art of sexuality, enabling new and recurrent pleasures independent of reproduction. After all, life is a deadly sexually transmitted disease and we might as well make the most of it and seek happiness through our basic pre-programmed pleasure mechanisms, including eating and having sex.

Humans have elevated gastronomy and sexuality to new heights, but not all humans share similar relationships to food and sex. There are eating disorders and sexual disorders, and the normality of some behaviors is sometimes difficult to judge. Some are happy with very little food, others are binge eaters. Anorexia-boulimia alternates between both extremes. Some are allergic or intolerant to some type of foods, some are perfectly happy if you serve them the same meal repeatedly with little variations. Some never eat-out and prefer home cooked meals. We all enjoy the reassuring sensation of traditional comfort foods. Some thrive on discovering new restaurants, on tasting new foods and new recipes. They are open to discovery and unafraid to try new exotic cuisine.

]Personally, I prefer to eat natural foods. Foods that have not, or minimally been altered. I truly enjoy eating out and discover new sensations. I prefer independent and experienced chefs that elevate the art of cooking to a new level, chefs that value the experience of their customers and thrive on creating the best experience possible. I enjoy establishing a human and mutually respectful connection with the chef. There is nothing more pleasant than sharing a meal you both enjoy. Sometimes it is not only the quality of the food that makes a culinary experience memorable, it is the ambiance and context, the little attentions.

The allegory of sexuality and gastronomy is truly multifaceted.


Foodie (also known as F.C.)
 
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cloudsurf

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The only F.C. I know is Florence Champagne.
I know that she loves food and sex.....
 

Julia Sky

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Julia I know that this is your alter ego: foodie! But how did you change your writing style?

That is not me lol but foodie definitely is the word that describes me best.

Btw - I could write a gazillion different ways and you wouldn't tell. I've had blogs and different personas on the internet for years haha !
 

jalimon

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FC do I get a rebate on your hourly rate if I cook you a gourmet meal?

Thinking about red white beets carpaccio (goat cheese and fresh mint) for appetizer and then a fish seafood soup bisque style for main course? Not good at making desert but I do know how to make an excellent raspberry chocolate mousse.

White Sancerre for wine + my irresistible charm and incredible sense of humor of course.

Do we have a deal?

Cheers,
 

Gabrielle Laliberté

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That's probably the most mysterious and original thread I read here for a while. You reminds me of something. Before I step into courtesan universe, when I was a delicate 18 years old flower, a gentleman who invited me for a diner date told me something who changed my life '' The way that the people eat and play with food is a good indication about how they are under the sheets''.
 

cloudsurf

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Hmmm.....I always found that the way people dance is a good indication of how the act in bed.
No wonder Flash Dance with its combination of erotic eating and dancing is one of my all time favourite movies.
 

Cruiser777

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I intended to eat my desert out of her pussy, does that count?

No kidding here...

There was an SP couple of years ago (Who became one my regulars / top ATF) was a sushi model.

After I found out that, all our encounters were full of sushi, at the end of the encounters, sushi was coming
out of everywhere imaginable...LOL
 

Foodie

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I think I need to met that new alter-ego. La personne en question a vraiment réussi a piquer ma curiosité.....

Il s’avère ici primordial de distinguer entre “besoin” et “désir”, entre “ I need” et “I desire”. Cette distinction s’applique tant à la gastronomie qu’à la sexualité. Elle est aussi omniprésente face à notre relation aux biens matériels . Le besoin est une envie interne née de la nature, comme le besoin de manger pour survivre. Le désir est une inclination, un vif souhait.

La problématique se pose lorsque l’humain confond désir et besoin. Éventuellement, il peut se convaincre que son désir est devenu un besoin.

Je crois que l’on éprouve généralement du plaisir lorsque l’on désire. Les besoins sont cependant parfois générateurs de souffrance.

Désirer et être désiré. Quel plaisir!

F.C.
 

Noah Weber

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The book Sex at Dawn has an interesting perspective on humans as sexual beings. The authors contend that “like bonobos and chimps, we are the randy descendants of hypersexual ancestors.” They postulate that our ancestors had more open sexual practices, leading to shared sense of responsibility for children. Anthropological studies of the Ache people indicate the recognition of four different kinds of fathers for each individual child. Miare: the father who put it in, Peroare: the fathers who mixed it, Momboare: the fathers who spilled it out, and Bykuare: the fathers who provide the child’s essence. One an see the idea of monogamy as arising out of repressive morality, rather than being natural. The wish for variety, both in food and sexual experience is probably more natural, and more valuable for the survival of our species. Developing taste for variety of foods both protects us from eating foods that are poisonous, as well as providing us with more food availability. The standard scientific view of human sexuality has been that men are driven to spread their sperm, but that female orgasm primarily serves to enhance fertility. The idea that female pleasure in itself serves a purpose has not been strongly considered. Anthropological evidence does indicate that women wanting multiple sexual partners has an evolutionary advantage in in promoting genetic diversity and providing better protection for their children.
It does seem in many ways that variety is the spice of life.
 

Foodie

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PART II: “De gustibus non est disputandum”

At the table as in the bedroom, practices vary widely. The end-results, satiety and orgasm, last but an instant. It is the journey that brings excitement and pleasure. What and how we eat and make love is a matter of personal taste, and in matter of tastes, there can be no disputes.

]Montreal epitomizes the diversity in gastronomic and sexual possibilities. The many threads of this site represent a vivid example. One can easily find a shoe that fits, assuming that there is no misrepresentation. The offer varies from street foods to luxurious five-star establishments.

Established restaurants and providers with a regular clientèle no longer need to advertise, except for opening hours. They often take advance reservations and refuse clients to maintain their high standard of service. They develop a customer-client relationship than can evolve into a true friendship.

I do not like fast food. I prefer quality over quantity. I do not need to read the menu before I enter, I prefer the last minute spontaneity of the encounter. I like to establish a prior connection with the chef and determine our compatibility. I am open to the discovery of new tastes and I am nostalgic of past sensations that I like to rediscover anew.

I am allergic to seafood. If I eat them, I develop edema with swelling of my body, akin to a generalized but unpleasant whole-body erection as it excludes the parts between my legs. I therefore developed a psychological aversion for everything that swims, walks or crawls in the sea. There is but one exception to that marine intolerance: I will gladly devour a mermaid if I meet one!

Do you know a mermaid?

F.C.
 
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