Outcalls - where do you go?

[lalado]

I have been using mostly Incalls in this hobby, but it has been increasingly hard to find quality. So I'm starting to consider outcalls, but am hesitant to bring them into my own flat.

So my question is, do most of you have no issues with bringing SPs to your houses? Are there any concerns about privacy? Do you ever feel insecure about the neighbors noticing, or the SPs stealing from your home (or making it a target for robbery)?

Or do you rent a hotel room instead whenever you use an outcall service?

I'm a bit paranoid about outcalls in case you haven't noticed, so I'm just curious if you guys actually bring outcalls to your own homes.

 

[Regular Guy]

I have been using mostly Incalls in this hobby, but it has been increasingly hard to find quality. So I'm starting to consider outcalls, but am hesitant to bring them into my own flat.

So my question is, do most of you have no issues with bringing SPs to your houses? Are there any concerns about privacy? Do you ever feel insecure about the neighbors noticing, or the SPs stealing from your home (or making it a target for robbery)?

Or do you rent a hotel room instead whenever you use an outcall service?

I'm a bit paranoid about outcalls in case you haven't noticed, so I'm just curious if you guys actually bring outcalls to your own homes.

Well I once had an escort steal my watch at the Chablis. Look, like anything else in life try to read the reviews, get a handle on the reputable agencies. Stick to them. Then on top of that do not leave anything of value lying around. This is not only for your protection but for hers as well (Why put her in a compromising position?) If you have issues of privacy then perhaps pursue your interests away from home. Imagine the neighbours with their keys in the door watching you open your door to a young lady especially if they are on chatting terms with you and you have a career which may be compromised (like teaching for example). Personally privacy is not an issue with me. I have had escorts in my apartment. They're just girls not monsters.

 

[evillethings]

I have been using mostly Incalls in this hobby, but it has been increasingly hard to find quality. So I'm starting to consider outcalls, but am hesitant to bring them into my own flat...

I have a place in town but use Hotels. Book thru online sites to control hotel exp. and ensure a quality room + location (drop 90-100$Cdn for a 4-Star room, but you can easily do a 2.5 star downtown at 60$Cdn or a 3 star hotel for 75$Cdn). Bring some supplies in an overnight bag, set it up, enjoy my sessions and pack it all up + go home to sleep.

Your Hobbying expenditure goes up a little but you will sleep better at night by not using your place to host AND you've got a better selection of outcall SP's.

 

[MontrealDarlings]

I would consider reading reviews and looking for girls/ agencies who people actually see. Why take a dark shady alley when you can take a boulevard?! You know what I mean?
Indy groups (such as French Kiss Connection) are always a good option. They maybe pricier then your average montreal gal, but the service is great and the girls are hand picked.

Just my 2cents

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I love hotels...there is something to be said about taking a shower and dropping it on the floor and someone (not me) will be picking up ...mm...luxury ...
Also for me there is a security factor being an indy has its drawback:no driver and no matter how much screening I do there is always a possibility of a mistake... I did try the outcall at people house when I started this..hum..sideline,but a few not bad but not nice experinces,the one that made me decide to go the motel or hotel route was the following: I went to this guy place ,it was a house not an appartment or condo and in the bedroom there was a baby crib (no baby inside loll)and a pile of laundry to fold next to the bed...sooo not sexy...and a very ,shall we say live-in state in the rest of the house?
That's when I had this epiphany:no more house when housekeeping could be problematic...I like the concept of maids loll hence hotel or motel for first meeting..once I know and like you if you tell me you live alone in a condo downtown...I will consider it but not if you live with your wife and kids...I have no inclinaison to be part of a drama where the wife show up at the door thank you very much

And for those who tells me they find hotel not discreet? My take on this is that it is way more discreet than having a stranger,be honnest here ,at your real life place,for me this is funlife,I do not mix my lives and I rather meet you on a neutral ground to enjoy our moment together,hotel make there living on discretion so unless you are a criminal why would you end up in trouble going to a motel?

 

[CubanPete]

This is an interesting subject. My hobby activities have almost always been outcalls, while on business trips. I stay in nice hotels and NEVER hobby in the city where I live. (If I lived in Montreal, I might make an exception, but then again, the beautiful girls in Montreal would bankrupt me!!!)

As a client, I think it's hard to beat a hotel. I pick the hotel 3 stars and above, I pick the location, and the room is always clean and neat. No muss, no fuss.

Hotwire.com is hard to beat when you need a hotel room.

I've played in the game in Canada, Brazil, Thailand, the Philippines and Mexico. I have to say that Quebec (Monteal and QC) are my favorites...

 

[evillethings]

I love hotels...there is something to be said about taking a shower and dropping it on the floor and someone (not me) will be picking up ...mm...luxury ...

So true! I don't have to make the bed + dump the trash either... simple convenience!

And for those who tells me they find hotel not discreet? My take on this is that it is way more discreet than having a stranger,be honnest here ,at your real life place,for me this is funlife,I do not mix my lives and I rather meet you on a neutral ground to enjoy our moment together,hotel make there living on discretion so unless you are a criminal why would you end up in trouble going to a motel?

LOL
That's a great attitude Lily! That line "I do not mix my lives..." intrigues me.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I mean that I would never want to receive at my house and do not really understand why someone would want to have a girl see him as a hobbyist in his real life house,this hobby is about creating a magic bubble OUTSIDE real life mundane activity...why meet a dream in real life setting?
Sadly I get the feedback that some who wants to see me in their house wants not so much to be in the comfort of their house but more wants to save 40$...honey if 40$ makes a difference you cannot afford the hobby...

 

[anon_vlad]

I mean that I would never want to receive at my house and do not really understand why someone would want to have a girl see him as a hobbyist in his real life house,this hobby is about creating a magic bubble OUTSIDE real life mundane activity...why meet a dream in real life setting?
Sadly I get the feedback that some who wants to see me in their house wants not so much to be in the comfort of their house but more wants to save 40$...honey if 40$ makes a difference you cannot afford the hobby...

It may not be the money, but the time, comfort and assurance of cleanliness.

Suppose one lives alone. One can wait there for an SP to arrive with lots to do. If she doesn't show up or comes late, the only thing wounded is one's pride.

The alternative is the hassle of finding a hotel, preparing a bag with mouthwash etc., getting in and out of the car in possibly inclement weather, waiting at the desk, waiting in a room with possibly no internet access. Also, one's home need not have any hidden filth (To put it crudely, I know there is no dried jizz embedded in my bedspread.) and may be roomier and more comfortable than a $200 hotel room much less than a $40 room.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

You are right of course some private house are nicer than hotel..maybe I was just bad lucky with the few exemples I experiences...of course the sample is not great I accepted 5 times (twice a the the same place ) and only that repeat (hence the repeat lll) was really clean enough for me...what finally tip the balance for me to my rule of no private house for first meeting was more the safety factor ...

 

[sergejean]

I for one usually rent a room at Le Chablis Cadillac or St-Jacques for 4 hours. It cost anywhere from $45 to $60. I prefer this as it provides a neutral area for both the lady and myself. Of course, when you meet 2-3 girls a week, the cost adds up but it's the price to pay imo to have your mind clear and avoid any unwelcomed situation.

As I mentioned in another thread, I'm considering renting an appartment for the hobby but the more I think about it, the more I realize that might not be a good idea. Rent at Le Chablis or any similar type of place and you're assured of a nice room, no fluff but no hassle. I also have a "hobby bag" I'm carrying in my suv that ensure I have what's required anytime I want to indulge in my favourite activity.

 

[evillethings]

... I also have a "hobby bag" I'm carrying in my suv that ensure I have what's required anytime I want to indulge in my favourite activity.

Glad to hear someone else has a Hobby bag in their car.

sergejean, I don't think renting an apartment would be a good idea since you'll have to clean a 2nd place and furnish it... unless you get a pre-furnished place. And as Lily mentioned above:

this hobby is about creating a magic bubble OUTSIDE real life mundane activity

 

[sergejean]

Well, I think you're right Evillethings... As I mentioned in my post, the room you rent provides a neutral area -- or a bubble outside real life -- that in my experience makes both my date and I more at ease.

As for the bag in the car, I had read your previous post and though about mentioning it as well since I believe it's one of the must have for any serious hobbyist.

 

[Gordon's Gin]

I prefer the Chablis motels.

 

[evillethings]

...the room you rent provides a neutral area -- or a bubble outside real life -- that in my experience makes both my date and I more at ease.

As for the bag in the car ... I believe it's one of the must have for any serious hobbyist.

I think if you're at a certain income level, renting or even owning a Hobby pad is a great option. I had a rental condo near my place that I left empty for over 1yr because I seriously considered using it as a Hobby pad. In hindsight I'm glad I didn't do that, hotels are just way more convenient and the amenities provided to you, pool, housekeeping, internet, pay-per-view channels, simple conveniences that take zero maintenance on my part. AND if I get bored at one hotel, I can always change hotels.

 

[evillethings]

I prefer the Chablis motels.

Gordon's Gin and all the Chablis faithful... I thought about that chain until I read the Tripadvisor reviews which totally turned me off. Apparently you guys are high profile there. You gotta love the revu titles:
“Never again!!!”
“Not for families!”
“Welcome to Le Chablis' sex room!”
“Unpleasant”
“The most expensive unfriendly and disgusting place in MTL”
Mmmmmmmm, no thanks! Sorry, Tripadvisor is my bible for hotels.

I prefer discreet and linens that haven't seen as many hrs of use.