Care to elaborate?This thread is funny. People refusing to pay extra for CIM and refusing to repeat if there is a charge but not considering the total cost being paid.
Care to elaborate?This thread is funny. People refusing to pay extra for CIM and refusing to repeat if there is a charge but not considering the total cost being paid.
Let's say it's 280/hr and 20 for CIM, so CIM is extra. Now if the exact same provider charged 350 for an hour including CIM, you'd repeat, but not under the former, lower, pricing.Care to elaborate?
Agree with you totally. Total cost is the only thing to be considered.This thread is funny. People refusing to pay extra for CIM and refusing to repeat if there is a charge but not considering the total cost being paid.
Gotcha i don’t see indies. Only agency so usual cost 240-250Let's say it's 280/hr and 20 for CIM, so CIM is extra. Now if the exact same provider charged 350 for an hour including CIM, you'd repeat, but not under the former, lower, pricing.
Agree, nothing else matter.Agree with you totally. Total cost is the only thing to be considered.
Exactly, at 400-600 with the indy , i hope they don't ask us for extra! I will repeat only with indy give me better services . For me, it comes naturally the CIM or Greek when i become their regular client ! It depends really on mood and vibe.It is mostly the turn-off factor.
Nothing kills a boner like having her remove your dick from her mouth and inform you of the additional fee for CIM. I actually had that happen once. I think she expected me to truly find my pants and fish out the extra cash.
Same with anal sex. Sometimes it works perfectly, at least for me. And sometimes it doesn’t, either for me or for her. Once she makes you drop down those extra 80 loonies, you feel obligated, and what is worse, she does too. The last thing any of us should be doing is forcing that particular act. That is how it gets removed from her offering list.
While I prefer to have CIM available, if she says she just does BBBJ, it isn’t that big of a deal to warn her. But if she does CIM for some, why not all? Sex workers talk a lot about respect, boundaries, communication, and repeat customers. But an anal surcharge is the opposite of that. If you see her regularly, isn’t it much better for both parties to see if she us up for anal sex and see how it goes, instead of “pay me $80 more and it will be okay”?
That is why I prefer a higher price, regardless of what services occur, instead of pricing for each activity.
No, it is how the lady treats you that matters.Agree, nothing else matter.
All she needs to do is be clear with the dos and donts, then fix her rates according to what makes her happy and not having to show an endless extras listing.What’s a girl suppose to do? Mind read which school of thought this client subscribes to?
Well, we already know some of them won't provide anything with enthuriasm!Do all GF provides BBBJ with enthusiasm?
Exactly, and the John also should be mature enough to clearly state, when booking, what he is looking for instead of whining after the fact that "duh, she didn't tell me".All she needs to do is be clear with the dos and donts, then fix her rates according to what makes her happy and not having to show an endless extras listing.
So how does that work in practice? When does/should she state her do and don'ts and when does/should she communicate the rates for the extras? I'll referring to a agency girl and no fee schedule published.All she needs to do is be clear with the dos and donts, then fix her rates according to what makes her happy and not having to show an endless extras listing.
One of many reasons I prefer seeing Indy’s and repeating with themSo how does that work in practice? When does/should she state her do and don'ts and when does/should she communicate the rates for the extras? I'll referring to an agency girl and no fee schedule published.
A lot of indys have assistants handling the booking, and you have no way of knowing how many clients they see in a day anywayOne of many reasons I prefer seeing Indy’s and repeating with them
I do not want to bargain for condiments like for a hamburger, plus I don’t like dealing with a booker/middle man nor being one of maybe 5 or 6 on that day.
I keep seeing “l love Lucy “ working on the assembly line when I think of agencies,
I don’t want to be one of the donuts being dropped or whatever they were working on.
Yes I know,A lot of indys have assistants handling the booking, and you have no way of knowing how many clients they see in a day anyway
+1A lot of indys have assistants handling the booking, and you have no way of knowing how many clients they see in a day anyway
I may be totally wrong about this & of course there are always exceptions but my personal philosophy over the past two decades is that if a lady charges extra to perform or allow whichever ‘service’ it has always given me the impression that she isn’t comfortable doing that particular ‘extra’. Which is why i’ve rarely willingly paid for extras. I never felt like requesting something that the girl was uncomfortable doing. I’d rather reward the lady in the form of a tip for having provided me with a very good, satisfying time.