Paying for “extras”

[Flyingby]

Curious to get y’alls opinion on this topic

before seeing a girl. I check the options offered. Rarely will I go if cim is not there.
i also always ask at the start if anything is not offered. I even state that I have no problem if dfk is not there.

Now my question is. If cim is offered. Sp never mentionned a cost or a charge. Should I leave something? I am not a tipper.
i see on reviews that cim offered for $. But SP does not mention it to me before, after or during.

on another note. If I do get charged. I do not repeat.

when I do repeat the girl always says how happy she is to see me. (I left no tip previously or extra $).

one could answer that since I know from merb that there is an extra for $ I should leave money, but as many indy have stated “most clients are not on merb”

 

[Skym]

For me, the only extra I don't like paying for, is when a SP charges extra if you want to cum anywhere on her body (like on tits, butt, stomach, etc).

Controversial opinion but I feel like cumming on the body should be a standard thing that should be included in the session, not counted as an extra.

 

[iONiX]

Now my question is. If cim is offered. Sp never mentionned a cost or a charge. Should I leave something? I am not a tipper.

If she doesn't say anything, it is reasonable to consider that it is "included" within the price of their service. I'd consider that to be a selling point for that SP vs another SP who would charge extra for it. I don't tip either.

on another note. If I do get charged. I do not repeat.

So you do repeat with SP who includes it. It supports my argument that including CIM for free is good for business

 

[urquell]

Ask for what you want up front, and get a cost for it, then pay that. If the girl gives you anything extra on top of that then that's on her if you were clear about what you wanted beforehand. If you request anything afterwards that wasn't previously discussed then that's on you, no matter what it is, and you should be prepared to pay extra for it if requested or to not do it. If you're asking for anything that hasn't been discussed beforehand then it's on you to get a cost from her even mid-session so there's no anger, misunderstandings or disagreements. If the girl gives you something extra because she likes you or for whatever reason and she hasn't requested anything extra then that's on her and she shouldn't come after the fact either. If you want to give her something extra after the fact for extra good service or not then that's on you. All of this sounds very clinical, and to a certain extent it is, but there's a variety of ways to soften the topic in conversation so it doesn't all sound so rigid, and you should never (repeat never 5 times) enter into a session with someone without knowing exactly what you're going to be paying and what services you're paying for. Generally speaking if it's all covered up front then there's no reason why it should interfere with your enjoyment of the session.

 

[montreal_guy00]

I’ve never paid for CIM. Must be my damn good looks.

 

[bodick7]

I’ve never paid for CIM. Must be my damn good looks.

Or maybe you are paying for without knowing it…

 

[Gazoo64]

A couple of my favourites offer CIM and they never mentioned anything about extra charges. I usually leave a little extra at the end, which is like a tip/appreciation for extras.

As was mentioned previously, it gives me a reason to repeat (good chemistry and not charged for extras), and maybe some SPs offer it regulars for free?

With other girls that I’ve seen, it’s either not offered, or there is an extra charge, so it’s clear from the start about potential extra charges.

 

[Flyingby]

Or maybe you are paying for without knowing it…

Can you explain what you mean?

 

[bobbyc]

for me never girls who have menus are not for me, it kind of makes me feel like there's no way we are going to have a connection, i can understand extra for anal but that's about it don,t start charging me 20 for this 20 for that it turns me off , just charge 50 60 more right off the bat and give me a great service

 

[Numerati]

Never paid for CIM. It was either she does it or she doesn’t. Having to ask for me kind of ruins the appeal. The girl has to want to do it on her own accord.
But for butt sex I would ask. Only paid for it once. It was with Angelic of Eleganza. For $80. Yet sometimes didn’t have to ask for that either. The SP just grabs my cock and sticks it in. Then I am like okay so I go with the flow. Not many did anal though. Only three who did it. Ehhh no biggie. Anal is an added value. Cool if it does cool if it doesn’t.

 

[Doc Holliday]

CIM was never a big deal for me & i swore to myself that i’d never pay for that. Actually for me more of a turn-on was coming on my partner’s face instead. However one girl named Jessica had become a regular & on the agency’s site (Eleganza) it stated CIM was $20 more. So right off the bat i decided there’d be no CIM since it did nothing for me. I’d rather tip for satisfaction from the overall experience. The first time i see her we’re near the end of the session & she’s giving me a bbbj & says “You can cum in my mouth…i won’t charge you extra.“ And i did. And she said the same thing the next time i saw her, the time after & the one after that.

At the end of our very first meeting she gave me her personal email address & asked me to contact her the next time i’d be in town since she’d do her best to make herself available for work. She felt we had a great time & wanted to see me again. I felt the same way so prior to the next trip i emailed her my dates & when i was in Mtl she’d be listed on her agency’s site for some of those days. So it was around the 6th or 7th time that we saw one another that it happened: as usual we ended the session with a bbbj & like every time in the past i came in her mouth. Then after taking her shower & getting dressed she opened the enveloppe & started counting the money & said “Babe…there’s some money missing.” I was dumbfounded & was sure that the correct amount was in the envelope since i had recounted twice. Then she said “You came in my mouth & that’s an extra $20.”

I wasn’t a very happy camper, let’s say. All these times that we saw one another & now she pulls this stunt? I didn’t say a word. I took out another $20 from my wallet & gave it to her. She said goodbye & see ya next time & i don’t even think i replied. I remember thinking that i doubt i’d want to see her again & never did. I have principles & felt i had been had & now saw her as a dishonest person. So i crossed her off my list. The next day i’m having brunch with a friend of hers & mentioned what happened. Did i overreact? The answer that i got was “I don’t blame you. I would have reacted the same way you did.”

 

[bobbyc]

i'm with Doc on this one, never ask me for extras at the end it kills the encounter just charge me the prices for the best service and and lets not mention extras and lets have a good time its never a question of price i don't care but please don't give me a menu i really click out and it will be last time i see you no matter how hot you are

 

[bodick7]

Can you explain what you mean?

Why SP would give you free extra and not for other Gents?
That’s why I think it’s included.
I don’t care about CIM cos I like to kiss the girl afterward. So if CIM is not free in her service menu then I get a good deal.

 

[Flyingby]

Why SP would give you free extra and not for other Gents?
That’s why I think it’s included.
I don’t care about CIM cos I like to kiss the girl afterward. So if CIM is not free in her service menu then I get a good deal.

Well i read the reviews. Sometimes it says cim $$. Or cim 40$ extra to answer your question “not for other gents”

 

[neverbored]

YMMV is pretty much a rule of thumb

 

[theyellowman]

With Indy , i never need to pay any extra. It depends on my appreciation to give some tips . With agency , look like they ask extra for everything! It’s a turn off for me.

 

[Doc Holliday]

I’ve paid extra for greek probably 1 out of 2 times. Usually it was when this extra was predetermined or during conversation about what her extras were. When it was a freebie it was because a girl would insist on it or right out of the blue during doggy she’d request it. For me greek was never a big deal since prior to discovering the hobby i’d been with partners who enjoyed it & i did it probably hundreds of times. It was never much of that big of a deal if i did it or not, just like cim. So the few times i did pay extra for this i did only if the price was reasonable. So basically greek at one time is one of the very few extras i ever paid for. Now i have zero interest in it. Did it way too many times i suppose & it can be somewhat messy if the girl didn’t come prepared for it. Not fun.

 

[Fradi]

Except for Greek which I understand being an extra and something I am not interested in anyway if an SP starts listing extras then I know she is not the one for me, that is the reason I don’t visit MP places I am not interested in the extra menu and the sales pitch either or a difference in price if you touch the left boob or the right it is a total turn off for me.
I actually prefer someone who says on her web sight that she is not a restaurant and doesn’t have a menu, or simply says that she will provide the ultimate girlfriend experience.

I know this is about $$ for the SP but with all kinds of extras listed it is just being shoved at you before you even see her.
I am pretty easy to please and really not interested in an SP that hustles you with extras. I am not selecting condiments for a hamburger.

This is the main reason I have an ATF and I keep seeing a select few ladies repeatedly, no menu, no hassles I know these ladies for many years and I know I will have a fabulous time, they know what I like and are always kind and treat me well.

I pretty much always tip but it has nothing to do with extras as I never ask for any, it is about how she treats me.

 

[envelopes]

There are some agencies/establishments or specific SPs that charge for CIM. I never use them anymore.

It's less common in Montreal. Most SPs/agencies are full GFE.

Many other cities, it is more common to charge for CIM/COF/etc

 

[DouMan]

It's less common in Montreal. Most SPs/agencies are full GFE.

Just to be on the safe side, it is extremely important, for a first meeting, to well define their definition of "FULL GFE".

This term, as well as GFE are being more and more used as bait without delivering the expected service.