Pet peeve thread

[ThunderLipps]

Hit a trifecta of pet peeves this morning at breakfast.
2 single guys holding a conversation 3 tables apart, someone on their cell using speaker for their conversation and cold toast where the peanut butter does not melt.
The day can only get better, I hope
Just to add, the worst was years ago when someone was clipping their fingernails at their table, even my wife at the time could not stop me from calling the guy out for it.

 

[LC18]

Hit a trifecta of pet peeves this morning at breakfast.
2 single guys holding a conversation 3 tables apart, someone on their cell using speaker for their conversation and cold toast where the peanut butter does not melt.
The day can only get better, I hope

What kind of restaurant is that?

 

[ThunderLipps]

What kind of restaurant is that?

Small breakfast place close to home.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

What kind of restaurant is that?

Sounds like the typical blue collar breakfast spot.

 

[ThunderLipps]

Sounds like the typical blue collar breakfast spot.

About the only place to get sausage and eggs with a coffee for $10

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Sounds like the typical blue collar breakfast spot.

i love that type of place

 

[T'storm]

My pet peeve are tags sticking out of your clothes. You know the tags around the collar with details on how to wash your shirt. I will go out of my way to push them back in so that they don't stick out.
This got me in trouble one time at the water slides, this girl had her tag sticking out from her bottom part of her bikini and while in the line up, I just went and tucked it in real quick...she turned around and slap the guy behind her and I got slapped by my wife for doing it. That might have been a good thing because I think she slapped the other guy harder then my wife did me.

 

[LC18]

My pet peeve are tags sticking out of your clothes. You know the tags around the collar with details on how to wash your shirt. I will go out of my way to push them back in so that they don't stick out.
This got me in trouble one time at the water slides, this girl had her tag sticking out from her bottom part of her bikini and while in the line up, I just went and tucked it in real quick...she turned around and slap the guy behind her and I got slapped by my wife for doing it. That might have been a good thing because I think she slapped the other guy harder then my wife did me.

It bothers me too but I don’t touch people, I just tell them it’s sticking out

 

[DouMan]

It bothers me too but I don’t touch people, I just tell them it’s sticking out

Huh? Stickin out? Really?

Oh, the tag!

So sorry, I missed that part, embarrassed

 

[Julia Sky]

My pet peeve are tags sticking out of your clothes. You know the tags around the collar with details on how to wash your shirt. I will go out of my way to push them back in so that they don't stick out.
This got me in trouble one time at the water slides, this girl had her tag sticking out from her bottom part of her bikini and while in the line up, I just went and tucked it in real quick...she turned around and slap the guy behind her and I got slapped by my wife for doing it. That might have been a good thing because I think she slapped the other guy harder then my wife did me.

I can understand why she did that. It's extremely weird to touch strangers, especially their bikini bottom, without their consent lol. The best and more respectful way to go about this is to mind your business or simply tell the person so they can fix it themselves

 

[MCTJ]

I just went and tucked it in real quick...

To borrow a word popular in US politics these days: weird.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I just went and tucked it in real quick..

Damn dude! That’s way beyond inappropriate behavior! She’s a total stranger and, no matter what your intentions were, she had no choice but to interpret it as a physical intrusion!!!

 

[DouMan]

I just went and tucked it in real quick...

an dats howl sha gat pwag nutt yaw onher

 

[Skym]

Pet peeves for me.
-lengthy delays in an apointment
-when a SPs cancels

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Pet peeve : people expecting me to be nice when they are being really rude to me

 

[Julia Sky]

Pet peeve : accidentally liking a post while scrolling

 

[LC18]

My pet peeve on merb is when people write long posts and don’t separate them into multiple paragraphs to ease the reading.

 

[DouMan]

Getting the following email :

"Hello ,
I am Kerry ,I am planning a business trip to Montreal next week , and I am planning you to be my bitch for a whole night. I am an assman , love to fuck directly your ass untill you bleed like a whore.
How much for the ass ??
I can send you a pic of the dick that will go inside you.."

Idk if anyone here has passed the word around to harass me about anal sex but it's the third time somebody contacts me with a violent message like this in the past few days

Unbelievable how a person can be such an asshole. Another Momys little boy that didn't get his favorite dessert and is all fwastrayted.

It's awful what you ladies live through with such things.

As a small side note, while reading his (I should say its) eloquent prose one thing that always raises my blood pressure is when I read "for a business trip", "I am a well known" or any other look at me I'm your gift lucky lady.

Who cares why your in town or bla bla bla when most of it is probably false.

Ladies you have all my, our, admiration for dealing with such shit day after day.

@Lunaseraphim you come across as a beautiful person, don't let such idiots play in your head and ever make you doubt it.

 

[Rebaynia]

My pet peeves...
Oh there are many. And of course, I have been gifted with many of them, I have had to learn to tollerate in my own offspring. While in past I would just avoid people who possessed these traits. Those ones I won't point out here.

I will stick with pet peeves in this hobbying.
- misogyny (enough said)
- People demanding instant attention. (I have my own life to lead as well as do this, and won't answer while doing my civi job *8hrs straight*, on visits, driving, or having an emotionally difficult day; I can be an introvert, and sometimes struggle with all the socializing I have to do, though am an extrovert when around others, but find it emotionally draining.)
- People expecting that just because they wrote me I must now see them. (I see who I want, if I want, and if I don't like your communication with me, I will not see you.)
- People who don't want to be ghosted, but also won't let the conversation die out. (Some people leave no other option but to ghost them. You can say I'm not interested and have a good day, only so many times, not everyone gets the hint. And rudeness doesn't always deserve a responce back)
- Last minute, I want to see you now bookings with strangers. An appointment in time to come, and time to get to know/feel-out the person threw messages is needed. Often not an issue for repeating visits. (The OPs pet peeve is actually the stalling tactic for I can't, or am not really feeling up to making visits today. Delays might happen; while posting a long message on this board, playing a few rounds on a game, working out at the gym, already on a visit...ect. While on a good day the stalling is down to a minimum if at all.)

As for why I wouldn't have a booker, because a bookers job is to book appointments, and I am very choosy about who I am willing to see, and when. I don't trust or believe a booker would have my best interest at heart, or care if the person they are booking would be compatible with me. It would lead to a fast track of me no longer making this even an option to try and get by in life, and I would very quickly give up on everything, and disappear from even being an SP. I would burn out instantly.

Edit: This is not a job for me, but a hobby to add to and make life better, when it feels like work, I want nothing to do with it.

 

[LC18]

That said, I believe there is a good chance that sharing these kind of messages will attract even more weirdos your way (either from the board or other platforms) as they might see it as an open invitation to be rude. Take care of yourself.

It’s giving them the attention they so desperately want. I am convinced some people follow her on social media just to see if she’s going to post their insanities.