I have no problem with setting boundaries, but my personality is what it is. One thing I've noticed is that when I tried to change my behaviour, people did not respond well to it at all, and people get angry when I set boundaries. I refused to see a gentleman because he was being vague with me and I found his attitude entitled. He went ahead and messaged the SP he gave me as a reference and called me paranoid and other insults. It's really hard to have a balance between being my natural sweet self and setting boundaries, because the contrast of what certain individuals perceive to be who I am with me saying ''no'' to something is so strong in their minds. It's annoying.
HOWEVER, I do get MUCH MORE kind and respectful clients! I have to weed out a lot of idiots but most SP's do. When I do get bookings everyone tends to be very sweet.
