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POLL: Do you bring a gift to escorts?

Do you bring a gift to a SP

  • Always

    Votes: 3 10.7%
  • First visit

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • On occassion

    Votes: 14 50.0%
  • Never

    Votes: 11 39.3%

  • Total voters
    28
  • Poll closed .

delilah.sansregret

La femme aux fleurs
May 30, 2015
57
1
8
Montreal
My stance on it is this: Gifts are never expected but always appreciated. I also give gifts to my massage therapist for the blessed relief they bring to me and my back ;)
It is totally a personal preference. I treasure the books that some lovely individuals have given me but I never go into an encounter expecting more than what was agreed upon, which make gifts all the more lovely a surprise.
 
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Lily-Rose

Euhhhh un gros yes !

Pas nécessaire, mais toujours apprécié :nod:

Je ne vois pas pourquoi ça serait différent de la vie "normale".

Ni moi non plus. Mais en général, que ce soit dans ce domaine ou ailleurs les gens ne donnent pas pour donner. ;-)
 

traveler2010

Banned
Apr 27, 2011
39
0
0
US
What is really clear in this thread is that there are many different viewpoints and expectations, especially from the man's point of view. I think Merlot said it best, "it's tricky." I see indy's almost exclusively, and because I am a long ways from Montreal, it is not weekly event, or even monthly except when I don't have any self control. My dates are not only for sex, I enjoy the company (usually), the intimacy, conversations, etc., the things that you would do with a real girlfriend, except you know you will get lucky on this date, and you don't have any strings (or chains) attached when you leave. If I am comfortable with the lady's personality before we meet, I often book 3 or 4 hours. If I am repeating with a lady it is because I had an awesome time, and I often book a dinner date or even an overnight. A gift only makes this a better experience for everyone. I do not expect anything in return, but it is rare that appreciation is not shown.....it's just human nature.

This cliche, but it really is not the cost of the gift, it's the thought. It shows respect, appreciation, thoughtfulness, and kindness. What woman, or man for that matter, would not appreciate those traits, no matter what business they are in? If I am spending a thousand dollars or more on the entire trip, what's an additional few bucks to help set the mood and make the experience even better for both of us? The important thing is that I don't even think of those things when I pick out a gift, I do it because I have already gotten to a point where I like the lady I am about to spend the evening with.....just like one would do with a girlfriend, only much better. In many years of doing this, there has only been one time when a lady started expecting more and more with each visit. In fact she even got to the point of asking me if I would pay her in US dollars.....and at par no less! I told her that she made me feel like an ATM! Needless to say, that relationship ended.

One might ask, "what's the point of hobbying, why don't you just get a girlfriend?" It would be way to long to list the reasons in this post, but among them are things like strings and chains, getting lucky on every date, I don't have to deal with PMS (usually) and let's not forget great enthusiastic sex with beautiful women.....You all know the reasons.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

Well-Known Member
Apr 29, 2012
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Look behind you.
And I just may be real old school but a simple, thoughtful gift given on a real first date or paid-for date goes a long way.

Years ago when I was dating I never brought a first date gift but all expenses were paid during the night, being kind and courteous also goes a long way. Same with escorts, being clean respectful and courteous also goes a long way. With a regular I can see getting gifts on birthdays or Christmas. A nice review and repeat visits also go a long way.
PS: I am old school.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

Well-Known Member
Apr 29, 2012
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Look behind you.
I know there was a recent thread but just curious as some people would answer a poll and not a thread, many yes answers in the thread.
Not public so names are private, multiple choice and expires in 14 days

Maybe the mods could merge? threads merged
 

jarhead

Member
Apr 22, 2015
59
2
8
Montreal
I had to choose "On occasion"
I can't honestly say always or every first visit. It does take time to get a gift and some of my visits are spur of the moment.
 

rumpleforeskiin

It's a whole new ballgame
Jan 20, 2007
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28
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Where I belong.
I never give generic things like flowers or chocolate, but do often give gifts when some exchange between me and my friend (or future friend) inspires it. And that happens often, more often than not with books, most recently yesterday. I happen to be particularly fond of smart women.
 

Merlot

Banned
Nov 13, 2008
4,111
0
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Visiting Planet Earth
Hello all,

I've brought some gifts and I've gone out with a lady and let her choose something she liked. Mostly though I stick to giving the lady a little extra at the end of the meeting. As I've said, I don't think guys should hold back from giving gifts as long as it's genuine giving without other motives beyond simply wanting to do a little more to please her no matter what it is. Independents often have suggestions on their websites to makes things simpler for guys who want to give and need ideas. I find that helpful, still I tend to stick to a tip to allow her to select something as she pleases if she wishes or just enjoy having a little more to spend overall.

Cheers,

Merlot
 

BookerL

Gorgeous ladies Fanatic
Apr 29, 2014
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Inviting the lady to a restaurant ,would that be considered a gift ?A voucher would
"Le Pirate De Laval" for a very sexy lady

Cheers



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