POLL: Do you bring a gift to escorts?

[BookerL]

ARe gift appropriate in this industry?

Hello all


Between the client and SP or vise versa ?




Cheers



Booker

 

[Thor Jr]

Interesting topic, considering i always give a gift and i have in the past received gifts, i can not in any fashion see why it would be inappropriate, and i always considered the tip a gift also, since from the ladies own words, their are some who don't tip at all, so its a gift in a way. I don't think it causes any harm to have a gift received or given.It may not be mandatory to give a gift each and every time but it makes me feel good, and i feel even better when the ladies bring me something, of course its because we have met a few times and know what i like. And ladies, I love caramel and of course i never say no to whip cream. LOL.

Here is another question, in what industry would it be inappropriate to give or receive a gift?

Hey Booker, you started this topic, i would like to know your opinion and if you find it inappropriate?

Thor Jr

 

[BookerL]

Hello Thor Jr


Quick answer !I don't ,but my opinion is only One out of many !
For a example I was never opposed to gifts to Booker"s
But maybe I was biased !Lol:lol:



Cheers




Booker

 

[traveler2010]

I cannot imagine when a gift to someone you will share intimacy with would not be appropriate! There are times when it might be inconvenient because of "spur of the moment" plans, but never inappropriate. Since nearly all my appointmens with SP's are planned in advance I always bring a gift, and usually a card as well. I treat a GFE appointment as I would a first date (or even a second or third date). My gifts are not usually expensive gifts, although I have been known to get carried away with very special ladies) but I always try to find out what the lady might appreciate and bring a suitable gift. As they say, it's the thought that counts, and I have found that any gifts are always appreciated.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I've received and gave gifts ,it is always appreciated ,only bemol is that it can involve creative explanations when I have to justify leaving for my real life work and coming back with flowers or chocolate and it is not Xmas loll

 

[SylvainP]

Quand on visite une masseuse ou une escorte régulièrement et qu'une chimie existe avec elle, on peut donner des cadeaux, tant que c'est de bon goût.

 

[chowzilla]

Gift on first meeting is kinda weird. Makes you look like a creep?

 

[EdaBlackwood]

Gift on first meeting is kinda weird. Makes you look like a creep?

Not really, as the one receiving the gift I've always thought it was nice. As well if it is something I've mentioned on my site, or twitter, I know that they've paid attention to details which means they've probably also read my etiquette section.

 

[AmberRose]

Gift on first meeting is kinda weird. Makes you look like a creep?

Definitely not so. When we receive a gift on a first meeting, usually it will brighten our day, and certainly make you memorable, especially as MsWolfe said if it's something mentioned on our site.

I don't see when giving a gift would be inappropriate, unless it was an inappropriate gift(like maybe a giant 12" dildo with someone you haven't met before), they're usually a nice way to make your rendezvous that much more special

 

[jarhead]

Gift on first meeting is kinda weird. Makes you look like a creep?

Depends maybe on the gift...
Sometimes on a first visit I will bring flowers, or sparkling water (I don't drink, but wine would be a nice replacement for the water)... I like it to feel like a first date especially when I'm expecting GFE!

 

[anon_vlad]

I have found that if one gives a gift or a tip to an SP she remembers it. The bad news is that she expects one the next time.

I'm not trying to denigrate SPs. The same is true if one gives an employee a bonus.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I have to agree with anon_vlad, when I have a first real life first date I do not bring a gift so why would I bring a gift to someone I am paying $200 a hour to see. My dentist or chiropractor do not get a gift either. If service was above and beyond I will leave a tip.
You need to remember it is not a date but a business transaction for sex.....

 

[jarhead]

I have found that if one gives a gift or a tip to an SP she remembers it. The bad news is that she expects one the next time.

I'm not trying to denigrate SPs. The same is true if one gives an employee a bonus.

Gifts are given before service and tips are given after service. Both are excellent mechanisms for enhancing service or encounter results.

Tips or bonuses are performance based and in the case of business (employees) bonuses are also based on the corporate bottom line.

 

[jarhead]

I have to agree with anon_vlad, when I have a first real life first date I do not bring a gift so why would I bring a gift to someone I am paying $200 a hour to see. My dentist or chiropractor do not get a gift either. If service was above and beyond I will leave a tip.
You need to remember it is not a date but a business transaction for sex.....

Of course it's a business transaction but some of us may be looking for more than just sex, like passion or some romance. And I just may be real old school but a simple, thoughtful gift given on a real first date or paid-for date goes a long way.

Oh, and if my dentist or chiropractor squeeze me into a tight schedule for an emergency and help to relieve any pain I've been suffering over the weekend... they'll get a gift (typically a 40 of a fine single malt) for sure.

I may be totally wrong about my sentiments in the matter of gifts but it has served me well over the years.

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

Giving a gift is a very fine gesture. I don't see any reason why anyone should hesitate about being an appreciative gentleman. We want to be careful in this business, but we worry too much about being "taken". Okay, so you set up an appointment and you want the encounter to be the best it can. A nice gift can be just the thing that adds a sweet touch. Any woman appreciates that. So do men. It's human nature. As long as you do it in a genuinely giving way without expectations to add a little charm to the encounter, go for it.

The bad news is that she expects one the next time.

Now there's the tricky part. Why are you giving her a gift and what does she expect next time. The same questions go both ways. Either the client or the lady is going to see what kind of person the other is dealing with if some complicating expectations come up. Is the other person calculating or just a sweet giving person? If one is calculating in a business exchange way that can be how some want it on both sides. Some people like doing business this way. If both parties are into that kind of playing to get an edge then that can work too. In my view it's extremely risky. Business games like that inevitably create a situation where one side feels the other has not lived up to what they believe was coming to them. Some will believe they have a right to certain extras then resentment starts...or worse.

For myself, if I want to bring wine or champagne, give extra money, take her to dinner off or on the clock, it's something that will change from time to time. I do it because that's what I wanted to do for that meeting. In one case it was the same from her side. We set up the meeting for the way that fit the moment regardless of what it was like previously and with no expectations of what it would be like next time.

If anyone wants something that you don't or vice versa then you don't fit together any more. Do what you feel comfortable with and move on when it's not comfortable. You aren't supposed to be setting up a lifetime partner in this business. Remember that and don't try to. Just enjoy.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[BookerL]

Now there's the tricky part.
Merlot

Hello Merlot and all


I love tricky parts .
I brought gifts to the three girls for my foursome escapade and nice Champagne and got some good tricks in return !:lol:

Bravo to the ladies




Cheers




Booker

 

[Melyssa]

Euhhhh un gros yes !

Pas nécessaire, mais toujours apprécié :nod:

Je ne vois pas pourquoi ça serait différent de la vie "normale".

 

[Merlot]

Hello Merlot and all

I brought gifts to the three girls for my foursome escapade and nice Champagne and got some good tricks in return !:lol:

Cheers

Booker

Yeah well, there are gifts...and then there are GIFTS. The kind you can all share with simultaneous pleasure (batteries included) truly defines "giving".

Keep it UP and enjoy,

Merlot

 

[BookerL]

Yeah well, there are gifts...and then there are GIFTS. The kind you can all share with simultaneous pleasure (batteries included) truly defines "giving".

Keep it UP and enjoy,

Merlot

Well they where real gifts no batteries required ever !:nod:



Cheers





Booker

 

[Merlot]

:thumb:

Well they where real gifts...

Cheers

Booker

Bien sur. Je suis sûr qu'il y avait des cadeaux très élégant et précieux, mais il n'y a rien de mal avec des cadeaux pour partager le plaisir.

s'amuser bien,

Merlot