Professional secrecy

[ukfanno1]

Hi community!


I have a question I've been willing to ask the community for a while. I hope that I can find the answer here.

Just so you know a little bit about myself, I don't visit SPs often. I have met about 5 in the last 5 years or so. I choose them really carefully, making sure they are either known from MERB community agencies and/or well reviewed. I take a lot of precautions because I am afraid that I could lose my job if I get caught by the police or if my boss hears about that. I have a taste for women with very large enhanced breasts and they are getting hard to find lately, or those I find are way too expensive or not meeting my requirements. I know, that's my problem.

But here's my question:

There is a SP I want to meet. She advertise on Hump for several years and is well reviewed here. I believe she is a serious SP with lots of regular costumers. She is exactly the kind of SP I am looking for and I can easily see myself becoming one of her regulars. The thing is, I have been seeing her at my working address, and I am most likely going to see her again in the future. That has been preventing me from calling her all these years since.

I know what some of you are already thinking. If I don't feel it, I shouldn't do it, especially since the consequences could be catastrophic. But I can't help myself thinking that maybe I am wrong. That maybe some of those professional SPs have some ''professional secrecy'' and that there is no risk of being blackmailed or worse.

Community, I would be so grateful if you could please share your thoughts with me so I can finally move on with that.


Thank you!

 

[Flyingby]

One thing is for certain. You never know what goes on in the mind of a woman.
her current job as sp might not be forever. And when one doors closes. Well collecting from you could be her last big pay check before moving on to other things.
there are enough things to be stressed about in life. Seeing an sp should not be one of them.
with all the options out there. Keep shopping

 

[DrJ_TheGhost]

It is not worth losing sleep over. Move on and do not book her. It is not worth the risk.

 

[donbusch]

Wouldn’t worry abt LE unless she’s a SW. As for blackmail, most escorts are more worried abt clients exposing them than the other way round.

As for yr boss, why wld he care unless he’s yr wife’s father or brother. If that’s the case then don’t shit where u eat.

 

[Anwar]

If you have never interacted with her and don't know what sort of a person she is, the risk is not worth it. Nothing is stopping her from blackmailing you.

 

[chowzilla]

If she knows of your existence, game over. She might act all chill with you, but will probably think otherwise. Most people don't want to mix their SW life and their civilian life.
if she doesn't know of your existence, play the "what a coincidence" card lol.

 

[The Nature Boy]

I’d make a date and get one of these and enjoy myself. Just make sure it doesn’t fall off during rigorous intercourse, life is too short, especially in the age of covid

 

[luvdozer]

Did I understand correctly that you cross paths with this woman at YOUR workplace and you know for sure that it is the girl you are considering booking?

This is all kinds of strange. If you become aware that a girl you know in her regular life is an SP and you book her, that is super creepy and the girl will almost certainly be wierded out. You have violated her boundaries before even laying a hand on her.

Meanwhile, you say that you have to be super careful about your hobbying because you are worried that you would lose your job if it ever came out that you saw an SP. If that is true, why would you even consider seeing a girl who would end knowing where you work? I agree with previous posters that the risk of blackmail is super low for the vast majority of girls, but if that is something you are overly sensitive about then why take this super specific risk?

Something about your post seems very off. That being said, if you are looking to book a safe girl with very large enhanced boobs, go to the indy section of MERB - there are at least half a dozen there and none of them have ever seen you at your workplace.

 

[chowzilla]

The last thing anyone wants to see, is that you book her, and you act all familiar with this person in their personal life. CRINGE CRINGE CRINGE and disrespectful

stop thinking with your dick but with your real head? sorry if this sounds harsh, but how else am i supposed to say it.

 

[louie]

Do what you wishes. Your boss doesn’t care nor does he want to know what you do after work. The woman probably have more reason to be more fearful that you expose her than the other way around since she’s the sex worker and not you.

 

[EagerBeaver]

Is there any way you can work from home or be moved to another location? If not, I am afraid the adage of don't shit where you eat will come into play at some point. It's pretty much why I gave up all SPs in favor of SA when on home turf. Just a whole lot safer.

 

[The Nature Boy]

Dude wear the mask and go for it

 

[EagerBeaver]

And what if she is not discreet and there is any kind of problem with the session? Could be blackmail city. At a minimum she has all the power and all the leverage.

I have read post like ukfanno1's before on this board. These guys are more thrillseekers than they are true hobbyists. What stimulates their erections is not the sight of a hot woman, but the possible danger in seeing one. ukfanno1 is getting off on the danger element here, as far as sexual desire, but his brain is telling him it's not a smart action. Hence his thread post.

Similarly, why did Charlie Runkle masturbate in his office in Californication, until he was finally caught and fired? It was because of the danger in doing so. Nobody can catch you jerking off in the privacy of your bedroom, but you can be caught jerking off behind your desk in your office, as Runkle harshly learned:

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

Well ukfanno1 my good sir I get the feeling that in your heart of hearts you already know what needs to be done and that’s ...Nothing

If you weren’t a worrier and were more the impulsive type and a bit of a womanizer you would have made your move a long time ago and this thread now would not exist

First of all SP’s don’t like mixing their private life so right there is your first obstacle ,,,, is it going to be a one time thing ( a coincidental meeting) ? ,,, are you hoping for a regular thing because the dynamic of the relationship right away sounds complicated to say the least :/

But anyways let’s assume thst you hit it off, what then ? By your above statement you clearly come across as a private person that values discretion...
There is a big likelihood that your “affair “, “business arrangement “ will be discovered . At work secrets don’t stay secrets for too long no matter how careful or cautious one is , ultimately people find out ,,, and you seem to care what you’re Boss or coworkers will think
You have to approach these things with the end in mind because it’s your workplace . Bottom line women are unpredictable creatures,,, imagine having to work together or see each other every other day at work if it gets bad

Don’t worry though your not alone , most of us have fantasized about a coworker at one time or another , but one that moonlights as an SP ? For sure not many ... still a beautiful woman will always be a beautiful woman and so it’s hard sometimes for us men to find the willpower to resist when our small head is emotionally akin to a 6 year old :/

Bottom line is that you would be risking your sanity and piece of mind , your workplace is sacred and you don’t bite the hand that feeds you




p.s Do not know if your a local , but if you happen to be then count your blessings because all you need to do is go to the advertising section here on Merb and you will be just a phone call or email away with a promising date .... and if your not you can still take up Holdmedown on his offer , option #3 and this way we all get a review

 

[You2]

The definition of a secret is something you tell people, one at a time.
Soooooo, if you want something secret? STFU, and keep it to yourself.
Do not use your home or work.