Provider showering at the beginning of session

[CasinoRoyal]

Hi everyone.
Hygiene is essential to me having a good session (I love DATY/DATO), as I'm sure many of you can relate.
What's the smoothest, least offensive/off-putting way to ask a provider to shower/wash before you start? (Doesn't matter if together or solo)

Thanks for your opinions in advance.

 

[Allnitelong]

Hi everyone.
Hygiene is essential to me having a good session (I love DATY/DATO), as I'm sure many of you can relate.
What's the smoothest, least offensive/off-putting way to ask a provider to shower/wash before you start? (Doesn't matter if together or solo)

Thanks for your opinions in advance.

Of course they always say they just took a shower right but unless you witness it or they join you in the shower, you never know.

There’s one provider who claims to shower in between clients but there’s no shower at their studio so as far as I can tell, they clean themselves with a wet towel. Disgusting.

 

[CasinoRoyal]

I've had several providers who didn't take showers after they were done with me. So..... yeah.

Of course they always say they just took a shower right but unless you witness it or they join you in the shower, you never know.

There’s one provider who claims to shower in between clients but there’s no shower at their studio so as far as I can tell, they clean themselves with a wet towel. Disgusting.

 

[Julia Sky]

I've had several providers who didn't take showers after they were done with me. So..... yeah.

We typically prefer to shower on our own time, though. Like personally I prefer to shower at my home because I can spend a long time in the shower that way and I don't add an extra towel to the incall laundry.

But personally I think the least offensive way would be to ask before the booking even takes place if a shower together is an option. That way, she can plan for it (for example some people don't like taking two showers within 20mins because it can dry the skin) and you're not taking a guess by just going and hoping she won't tell you she already showered.

 

[CasinoRoyal]

We typically prefer to shower on our own time, though. Like personally I prefer to shower at my home because I can spend a long time in the shower that way and I don't add an extra towel to the incall laundry.

But personally I think the least offensive way would be to ask before the booking even takes place if a shower together is an option. That way, she can plan for it (for example some people don't like taking two showers within 20mins because it can dry the skin) and you're not taking a guess by just going and hoping she won't tell you she already showered.

Good point, and yes, that's a good way to go about it.
The downside is that the booker will say no and you're shit out of luck on a provider you really wanted to see. But I guess that's better than an awkward "no" during the session
Ps. I'm specifically talking about outcalls, which is usually the only way I see providers.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

Ps. I'm specifically talking about outcalls, which is usually the only way I see providers.

I think that explaining the situation and saying this "shower time" is on you will clear out your expectation and the SP will know if if she is ok with that. In fact she can just jump in the shower for a refresh before action starts. When I visit and "incall", I have taken a full shower before, washed my teeth, put clean clothes and underwear and take a quick shower to "refresh" upon arrival, so she will feel confortable and happy. it is just the reverse situation.

 

[Halloween Mike]

We typically prefer to shower on our own time, though. Like personally I prefer to shower at my home because I can spend a long time in the shower that way and I don't add an extra towel to the incall laundry.

Same here (replace home by my hotel or friends place since im not from Montreal) But if i go incall im expected to.shower right? And i do.

So i guess if op like outcall he want the SP to maybe "refresh harder"? As some said im sure if you tell her you cool taking 10m of your time on a shower most SP will do it...

But tbh most SP i saw outcall wanted to refresh and never i felt any Sp was "not clean".

Worst i had like i said before was a cigarette taste barely hidden by some minty thingy.
... It just barely masked it lol

 

[Julia Sky]

Same here (replace home by my hotel or friends place since im not from Montreal) But if i go incall im expected to.shower right? And i do.

So i guess if op like outcall he want the SP to maybe "refresh harder"? As some said im sure if you tell her you cool taking 10m of your time on a shower most SP will do it...

But tbh most SP i saw outcall wanted to refresh and never i felt any Sp was "not clean".

Worst i had like i said before was a cigarette taste barely hidden by some minty thingy.
... It just barely masked it lol

Yeah, I don't disagree!! But here specifically I was replying in regards to the "after" shower though, because he mentioned several providers not having taken showers after they were done. I think most people prefer to take their "after" shower at their home unless they have an appointment right after!!

 

[LC18]

Just ask, I don’t think anyone would be offended. As long as you remember that it’s time taken off the entire moment you’ll spend with that person…

 

[Lexus3]

One of the many reasons why Fiona/Susie is one of my favorites, we shower together at the beginning after tea.
Same applies to many other Asian SPs I know. Water flute is very often performed during SF2.

 

[Smokemeal2]

One of the many reasons why Fiona/Susie is one of my favorites, we shower together at the beginning after tea.
Same applies to many other Asian SPs I know. Water flute is very often performed during SF2.

After tea?
Water flute?

Care to translate those terms? Thanks!