Gosh this is a tough one. The old saying is "you pay them to leave" applies here. But you have crossed the line with this one and she wants something more. You two have a relationship now. I guess you should consider this special to a degree. Another human being wants and needs your companionship. Maybe you're a father figure to her? I don't know what it is but you need to talk to her. She has to understand that you have needs too. I guess this is what happens when you let your guard down and let someone else into your life. Good luck.
Jali - You want girls hanging out at your house like this? It would be OK once in awhile. Careful what you wish for.
