Question: book an escort,whatever you are horny or not

[cloudsurf]

Do any of you guys book an escort even if you are not horny or not in the mood.
I ask because I do, and at times it seems like such a waste.

When i was younger , much younger....I`d be horny 24/7.
I couldn`t do a slow dance without getting hard. I couldn`t stand up in class without bending over to try and hide the bulge. I couldn`t walk down the street and not have to put my hand in my pocket to block juniors curiosity when I saw a pretty girl.
I had a lifetime subscription to Playboy and later Penthouse
When I got married I fucked 5 times a day everyday. When my wife complained....I found a mistress.
To-day I rarely get horny but I do get curious and when there is a new pretty lady I just have to see her....its become a habit of sorts.

 

[charmer_]

Out of curiosity, at what age did your horniness peak at?

I used to be pretty horny as a teenager/young adult myself. But now in my mid-30's, I find that it takes a bit more of an effort to get things rising. Dunno if its an "age" thing, a weight thing, or both....

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Interesting post, young fellow. The answer for me is: mostly no, but not entirely. I've been booking a date pretty much every week for the last few years. Somehow, in the last year or so, despite the fact that i KNOW I'm getting younger, my libido has diminished considerably.

I've cut back considerably and have had only two dates in the last five weeks, waiting until I really feel like it, which still happens but not within 60 minutes after the last session like it used to. And I find if I wait until I feel like it, the fun is much greater. The magnificent Ms. Minx stopped by just last night and, well, I barely survived, but survive I did, and with a smile on my face.

Also, between November of 2007 and January of 2012, I made 9 trips to the FKKs of Germany. I haven't been since. I just haven't felt horny enough to spend that kind of dough for a four day fuckfest.

Charmer, sorry to have to report, but I'd bet dollars to donuts that it's a weight thing. My libido was fully intact until I was past 60.

 

[czar]

Being horny is a state of mind while having an erection is a physical state.

If you can't get it up, that is a physical limitation that could be due to many things...both physical and mental.

If you are just not interested, that is something else.

I have booked an Sp. or gone to an mp purely out of boredom. Not really horny but wanting to kill some time.

Czar.

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Being horny is a state of mind while having an erection is a physical state.

True, but if you're not horny, you're not likely to get a hard-on.

 

[charmer_]

Charmer, sorry to have to report, but I'd bet dollars to donuts that it's a weight thing. My libido was fully intact until I was past 60.

That's actually a *good* thing, as I can actually do something about my weight and improve my erections/etc. If it was an age thing, not so much. Thanks for the info!

 

[cloudsurf]

Out of curiosity, at what age did your horniness peak at?

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My addiction to pussy started in junior high school and grew stronger till my late twenties. My hormones calmed down in my thirty`s and forty`s but then came back with a vegeance after my divorce.

Charmer, your " rising" issue may be weight and blood sugar related. Get a blood test for diabetes.

 

[Siocnarf]

When I was less experienced, I used to take dates when the time was convenient rather then when I really felt like it. A few times I realized when I was with the lady that I just did not feel like having sex.

Now I chose my time more carefully, especially when it's someone I never met and I don't know what kind of feeling I'm going to get. If it's my favorite GFE it will work everytime even when I feel below par.

True, but if you're not horny, you're not likely to get a hard-on.

That's not exactly true, because in case of direct stimulation it's an automatic reaction. It's more accurate to say that if you're un-horny (stressed, uncomfortable, inhibited...) you will be less likely to have a good erection. In my case over-heated rooms are a real killer.

 

[hungry101]

Great question Cloudsurf. I have not been able to spend a night in Montreal without seeing at least one escort. Horny or not, when I am in a hobbyland I practice the hobby. It is out of habit. I almost feel obligated. Once the girl arrives I will sit down and have a glass of wine with her. During that time my motor starts to run. In a few minutes I am horny and ready to go. I do supplement Viagra or Cialis. In Montreal, I can only remember 1 or 2 times that I felt unfulfilled after the deed was done. I think this is key.

Being in shape physically and mentally is probably a key factor. The lower my weight the more interested I am in sex. Also, when things are going well at work and the economy is going well I am hornier. Recently with all the corporate downsizing and all the stress and extra work and uncertainty, I don't feel as horny. The stress gets to you.

 

[Matahorn]

If there are new escorts on the scene, I'd book a meeting even if I wasn't horny. To check out the new merchandise, so to speak. Especially if her pictures look like hot. But I probably wouldnt book a call girl that i've met already. Better off saving my money for an emergency lol.

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Recently with all the corporate downsizing and all the stress and extra work and uncertainty, I don't feel as horny. The stress gets to you.

I'll bet Heidi could take care of that.

 

[ManApart]

I'm a little younger than you are Cloud, but that doesn't mean I am horny 24/7. Not too far off though lol. Last year I found myself seeing girls in consecutive days or even three days in a row, just so I could get them off my TDL because it was getting too long. Not because I was really in the mood. The sessions definitely suffered and I felt that I didn't enjoy it as much as I could have and the routiine feeling came in. That was simply because I was not super in the mood for whatever reason.

Lately, I make sure I am really in the mood and don't really care about coordinating my sessions to when a specific girl is working. It is really working out great for me. When I'm in the mood, I check who is on and go from there. I rarely prebook anymore. It has given me a renewed shot of fun because now almost every encounter is wild and great.

So to answer your question, Yes, I used to book when i was not in the mood often, but not very much anymore.

 

[Stroman]

I like that thread a lot. I also relate a lot. It's true when we tend to prebook, we are having less fun than a spontaneous booking.

 

[Kansas Frank]

Great question. Thanks for sharing your insights and experinces, guys.

I've heard about a study that found men go through the famale equilvalent of menopause, and losing interest in sexual intimacy. A small dosage of testosterone brings the libido back. (I've been seeing late night TV commercials selling herbal extracts that promise to do the same!)

I used to go to "massage parlors" (as opposed to places like Montreal Sex City) because my Government is so attentive to protecting every American adult's liberties, but I stopped going because fucking became boring. I now just go hangout at my local strip joints -- to think and relax (really, the music can be very good); but I decline to buy lap dances. I rarely get an erection except when I think I see a real debutante "performing" on stage.

But when I'm lucky enough to be in Montreal, I go hog wild -- trying to see at leaast 3 SP's a day, mostly to allow Junior to enough time to rest and reload.

 

[Merlot]

Do any of you guys book an escort even if you are not horny or not in the mood.
I ask because I do, and at times it seems like such a waste.

Hello Cloud,

You're lucky you have more choice about it. For those of us middle-aged and older men who only get to Montreal once in a while, we have to remain..."horny" and potent for the entire trip to maximize our rare opportunities, in the mood or not. It can be difficult sometimes. Luckily my Smith and Wesson usually is ready with the standard number of rounds per trip.

At the time I never thought I would remember so fondly why I used to carry my books in front, or wear long tail shirts because the rocket always seemed to be set at DEFCON 1. Ahhhhhhhhhh, the days of walking sideways to the blackboard with my back to the girls to hide the ever impulsive pup tent. Anyone interested in vintage Sears catalogs? I'm afraid the new bra sections are all missing. (o)(o) Thank God now for such a vivid video variety these days.

But to answer the question, diminishing libido isn't the only cause. Younger people usually feel less effect regarding life's burdens. There are so many more concerns and responsibilities later on that are harder to put aside at times. Still Ricky Rocket rises to the occasion when needed...just not as impulsively.

Cheers,

Merlot

 

[hungry101]

I'll bet Heidi could take care of that.

You know your probably right. As I was writing that post I was thinking about her and a few of John's girls I really like. With a nice GFE girl like Heidi the worlds problems seem to melt away. This is ironic. We are talking about how stress can reduce your sex drive and the cure is to schedule a session with a really nice GFE girl.

 

[Siocnarf]

That's because a real GFE is not just about sex. When we stop worrying about sex is when we can have the best sex. It's like a zen wossname.

 

[protagoras]

Do any of you guys book an escort even if you are not horny or not in the mood.
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No, I only book an escort when I am in the mood.

I share the point of view of several posters in this thread. Because 40 years old, my little soldier was always ready. Now, over 50 years old, I only book an escort when I'm in the right mood.
The problem is that sometimes I'm in the mood but I have problems to book a girl I'd like to meet. Montreal is a small market: most of the time the girl you have your eyes on is already booked.
When it happens I go back home instead of booking a girl out of random (I had bad experiences in the past with « popular » agencies).

 

[2tuff2quit]

Wow Merlot with the Sears catalogue brought back memories of when i was 12 to15years old . Born in 1955 their wasn't much besides the Sears bra section then I discovered Playboy (tits only) then Hustler ,then the VHS porn cassettes (no hd there)I think the brain still triggers the sex drive every now and then,but the body is older and can't keep up with the brain.I still see escorts once a week but certainly not once a day.Just my 2 cents, all nice replies from members.

 

[2tuff2quit]

From what I read here is there only one user here you lives in MONTREAL??Should we start a poll just to see who lives in what city?